Life with two boyfriends. Part 1.
Now this is the story all about how my life got flipped-turned upside down. And I'd like to take a minute, just sit right there, I'll tell you how I became involved in a triad relationship (my first ever relationship, by the way).
So, our communications started in the middle of August, 2013. I was in college in Vermont and they were in New Hampshire about 45 minutes away. We met on Manhunt, a gay hookup site, and started chatting. They were looking for a threesome and I was looking for sex. Perfect, let's do this! We didn't end up meeting right away because Randy got called in to work nights at the restaurant so things got delayed a little while.
September rolls around and the three of us are still interested in making this happen. I find out that I won't be able to go visit for a while ago because they are sponsoring two inner city kids from NYC through the fresh air fun. I'm bummed, but I keep chatting and hoping this hookup works out.
It's now October 5, 2013 and I'm heading from VT to southern NH to stay at a friends house before be brings me to the airport for my flight to Nashville the next morning. Randy, OJ, and I finally connect on my way down. I stop by for dinner and sex. Everything was great. I come back a week later, hook up with them again, and spend the night.
Time passes and we keep in touch because we have a lot of fun together. We realize that there is some good chemistry between the three of us. I start coming down on my days without classes to spend the night. March of 2014 is when we all said I love you to each other as a triad.
My lease comes due at the end of May 2014 and I had graduated college a few weeks prior. At the time, my two options were to move back home with my parents and hardly see my boyfriends, or move in with them. They asked me if I wanted to move in and I gladly said yes. I moved all of my things in and then they cleared space in the closet for me.
Every anniversary we have lasagna because that was our first meal. We consider the first day we met to be our anniversary. Having two boyfriends isn't exactly how I thought things would go, but I wouldn't change it for anything. Loving two people at the same time is different for sure. I've now happily resided in the middle of our king bed for 4.5 years! Time flies and every day is a new adventure.