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Life with two boyfriends. Part 1.

Posted by Trapezeo, 10 March 2017 · 211 views

Now this is the story all about how my life got flipped-turned upside down. And I'd like to take a minute, just sit right there, I'll tell you how I became involved in a triad relationship (my first ever relationship, by the way).

 

So, our communications started in the middle of August, 2013. I was in college in Vermont and they were in New Hampshire about 45 minutes away. We met on Manhunt, a gay hookup site, and started chatting. They were looking for a threesome and I was looking for sex. Perfect, let's do this! We didn't end up meeting right away because Randy got called in to work nights at the restaurant so things got delayed a little while.

 

September rolls around and the three of us are still interested in making this happen. I find out that I won't be able to go visit for a while ago because they are sponsoring two inner city kids from NYC through the fresh air fun. I'm bummed, but I keep chatting and hoping this hookup works out.

 

It's now October 5, 2013 and I'm heading from VT to southern NH to stay at a friends house before be brings me to the airport for my flight to Nashville the next morning. Randy, OJ, and I finally connect on my way down. I stop by for dinner and sex. Everything was great. I come back a week later, hook up with them again, and spend the night.

 

Time passes and we keep in touch because we have a lot of fun together. We realize that there is some good chemistry between the three of us. I start coming down on my days without classes to spend the night. March of 2014 is when we all said I love you to each other as a triad.

 

My lease comes due at the end of May 2014 and I had graduated college a few weeks prior. At the time, my two options were to move back home with my parents and hardly see my boyfriends, or move in with them. They asked me if I wanted to move in and I gladly said yes. I moved all of my things in and then they cleared space in the closet for me.

 

Every anniversary we have lasagna because that was our first meal. We consider the first day we met to be our anniversary. Having two boyfriends isn't exactly how I thought things would go, but I wouldn't change it for anything. Loving two people at the same time is different for sure. I've now happily resided in the middle of our king bed for 4.5 years! Time flies and every day is a new adventure.





I do want to offend you, but this sounded boring and superficial compared to the more interesting stories you kept close to your heart. Tell us the conflicts you experienced from being in this triad and what you all did to solve those them. Those conflicts, internal or external, /are/ resolved or are in progress since you seem very happy from being where you are now. +rep
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I can do another blog post on that, @Kelvin. There have been struggles for sure.
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Thank you. I will read it and find something from it to complain about.

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I think this was a great introduction! It's very interesting to hear about an unconventional relationship, and yours is quite something hahah
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Please keep writing about this. I'm so happy you've decided to open up about your triad. <3

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I moved all of my things in and then they cleared space in the closet for me.

Do not accept this. You didn't come all this way to be forced back in there!

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Do not accept this. You didn't come all this way to be forced back in there!

This made me laugh more than I'd like to admit lol

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Oh good, I have a friend on here that will understand our triad relationship! Ryan and I have decided to bring in another female into our relationship! Maybe I will write my story on our relationship tomorrow! I am too tired tonight! Be on the look out for a blog entry on my relationship!

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Oh good, I have a friend on here that will understand our triad relationship! Ryan and I have decided to bring in another female into our relationship! Maybe I will write my story on our relationship tomorrow! I am too tired tonight! Be on the look out for a blog entry on my relationship!

Yes please <3 I'm so happy for you, love! 

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