So me and my sister have been really close, well not always but that's a story for a different day. We lived together for the past 6 years and she is my best friend. In October of 2013 I moved out of state (back to where I grew up) which is 2500 miles and an ocean away. While we were living together neither of us dated much, saw some people but never got serious. We were both pretty much single old ladies with our dog together.
I found out mid-January that she was engaged. I didn't even know she was seeing someone, let alone serious enough to get engaged. He was 12 years older than her (I have no problem with age, but knowing my sister and her type that was weird). I was mad that I didn't find out from her, my supposed best friend who I talk to everyday. Well a week later I find out that she called off the engagement and broke things off with the guy completely, but kept the ring (which was sparkly and expensive). She then spur of the moment decided to fly out here for a week and hang out (all while demanding my frequent flyer miles to help lessen her ticket).
So she arrives and it's good and she tells me all about her "ex" and that he had his own business, had lots of money, and bought her nice things. I asked her what she was going to do with the ring and she said she was going to keep it, that the guy told her she could keep it. I told her, this wasn't right, keeping something off a promise you didn't intend to keep? Well weeks later he started getting angry and demanding everything back, and she said she wasn't going to give the ring back. I called her an idiot and she got mad at me and we didn't speak for a few days. So it ends up the guy took her to court to get the ring back, they signed papers to drop the case and she gave it back but "was sad because it was such a nice ring and she always wanted one like that." All the while I'm thinking "GOLD DIGGER!" and just annoyed as fuck at her attitude lately.
NEXT!
Ok my sister isn't a big person, she's about 5'6" and fairly petite, however I'd say she has a nice "c-cup" sized chest, which looks really good on her and proportionate (whereas I got blessed/cursed with gigantic bazoombas and hate it). She always hated her boobs and joked about getting bigger ones which I protested and told her she was beautiful and told her all about the pains of having a larger chest and whatnot, but she didn't care.
WELL TODAY I FOUND OUT SHE GOT A BOOB JOB AND IT'S ALREADY HEALED.
I'm just like "lol ok enjoy your new boobs."
I'm just irritated with how she's behaving (she's in her mid-twenties). She's single, she lives alone with our dog, and makes great money. I'm just disappointed with how she's choosing to spend it. But I'm not her Mom and I can't tell her what to do. I mean the boobs aren't too big and they look natural, it's just -le sigh- me being an older semi-conservative with my money, big sister.
Ok that's the end of my rant, I just had to get it off my chest in a place where she wouldn't see it
No use in holding a grudge against someone for doing something with their own money to their own body. What matters in the end is that she's happy.