I made the mistake of telling a teacher, who told a vice principal, who called the cops, who arrested him. I preferred to have a teacher know, then to have his ass kicked by all my friends who happen to be guys who really do give a shit about me.
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I feel guilty as fuck. I mean, everyone is telling me he deserved it but he didn't actually rape me or anything and I possibly ruined his whole life. The whole criminal record thing, losing his school credits, and losing the girl he's supposedly engaged to? I didn't mean for it to escalate this way. I didn't want my parents to be called and have to tell them what happened at school 2 days ago; something I hadn't bothered to tell them because I don't talk to my parents like that, and they'd only find a way to place guilt on me. I never imagined being escorted out of school by two cops and having the guy who assaulted me right behind me, also with 2 cops. I never imagined riding a police car, or being interrogated under video surveillance.
I didn't even tell my parents all the details of what happened because what actually happened was we were going to go out for a smoke.. can't have my parents knowing that. I downgraded what actually happened so they wouldn't be too mad I didn't tell them. I told them I didn't think it was that big of a deal to tell. Life is so difficult right now. I honestly don't even know if I'll be called for court but I don't want to go. It's too much, I'd probably pass out right there.
Discuss.
I feel so shitty for the guy. His life is fucked over.