Spiderman is a tragedy atractor.
He gets his uncle killed, it takes him a lot for conquering MJ, he have to kill his friends father and then his friend becomes his enemy, and the list continues...
Bruce Wayne had his parents murdered when he was a child. Batman had his back broken by Bane. He had his sidekick Jason Todd backstab him after he thought he had died. He was also backstabbed by his childhood friend (Hush). To top everything off Batman was "killed" by Darkseid's Omega ray and had to last the tortures of time before being resurrected.