Also, do you (or anyone else that has trouble clasping bras in the back) also find it difficult to button/unbutton, zip/unzip, or tie things in the back?
And most importantly, how do you take your bra off? Do you first take your shirt off, then your bra, or unclasp first and take it off stealthily?
I don't have any trouble with button/unbutton, zip/unzip, tie things in the back. I have a tight top that ties up with laces in the back and I do it with no issues. I have flexible arms/shoulders, though, that might explain it, thanks to years of swimming/sports in general.
About taking it off: it depends on the occasion. If I'm in a hurry I take my shirt off, then my bra; if I'm just being norml lazy I unclasp and take the bra off first, then proceed to take my shirt whenever I want it (or not, if I'm not alone at home -except if it's my husband)