Yo pplz,
So for those of you who don't know, I'm pretty recently single and my friend and I were discussing relationships in general. The topic of "what the person you're dating must have" and "must not have" came up. My ex was a little older so he already knew what he wanted; what he liked, what he needed, etc. I, on the other hand, do not know I want, even on paper. I've dated younger, older, smart, dumb, extremely good looking to... modest looking (:3) and I honestly don't know what I need in a person. I'm still figuring that out as I go. So I was just wondering if you people, maybe you're older or just know what you like, have a list of "Must haves" and "Must have nots". My very small list so far is:
Cannot be: heavy smoker.
Must: be able to make me laugh
That's it lol. I don't care about fashion, or age (to an extent), race, education level, attractiveness level.... like it's about a totality for me. But I KNOW there are some things that do matter in the end. I just don't know it.
My friend however, has a larger list. For example:
Must be taller, financially stable (Future), want kids, love animals, funny, attractive, religious and driven. All very fair, I just can't say I would end something because they're not in love with animals or something!
Share?