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#1 Boggart

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Posted 20 March 2014 - 09:42 AM

Okay so my sister explained something to me:

 

She said that when it comes to guys (specifically males), they have a "bro code" that is obviously unstated, but one of the key features in it is that "no matter what, you're my bro. If you don't personally fuck over my life, then you'll always be my bro and I'll always have your back". The example my sister gave is that one of her other friend's completely fucked over a few people's lives (but not the male friends), went to jail, became a drug addict, etc. He even made my sister and my family's life a living hell. She obviously cut ties from him, but her male friends didn't. Saying it was because they're guys and they need to have his back.

 

Another example is in my life: someone is tormenting my friend and we don't know who it is. He thought it was person A and confronted him etc. Person A denies it adamantly but through this process, their friendship has all but disappeared. It's awkward, they fight all the time, it's just a tense situation for everyone. But I asked my friend that if it's revealed A isn't the person who did it, do you still consider him a friend, and he said "yes. Of course. He's my bro," despite the fact that neither of them are talking to each other and A is basically crying 24/7.

 

I respect this mentality to a degree but I also think it's batshits crazy. I don't think anyone deserves an automatic pass for any reason. I don't care if it's my best friend or a close family member. And those are people with whom I'm close; for the most part, these guys are barely acquaintances yet they have each other's back no matter what.

 

Someone explain this mentality to me. Or how you feel about it.

 

Or just discuss a time someone fucked over your life. Go nucking futs.

 

I've had people who kinda messed my life up and I have not said a word to them after that. That's my style anyway.



#2 Elindoril

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Posted 20 March 2014 - 10:08 AM

A friend of mine once launched a hentai game on Steam. Never seen him since.

I don't really believe in such a code. Of course I wasn't much of a social butterfly and the friends I had at school were mostly assholes anyways.

Had one ask if she could stay at my place since she had a fight with her family. She snuck her boyfriend in, had sex in one of my beds, and broke the frame.

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Posted 20 March 2014 - 10:16 AM

I only believe in Hoes before Bros. 

 

 

The whole "bro code/girl code" thing is absolutely ridiculous. If a person is toxic, cut them loose. 



#4 Ali

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Posted 20 March 2014 - 10:27 AM

Nobody screws me over. And gets away with it,

 

No, but in all seriousness, it's probably a case by case scenario. There are friends ("friends"? People I've known?) who have done shitty things and I cut them out and that's that because I quite frankly don't have time for their level of crap in my life. But it's a payoff situation: how much do I care about them v the time and angst they're causing. There are people in my life who would have to sink pretty damn low for me to give up. There's still a threshold though, don't think there's anyone that could do literally anything and have me stick by them.



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Posted 20 March 2014 - 11:05 AM

I'll never understand ``bro codes" and female equivalents and all that ┐( ´ Д ` )┌ If someone in your life's being problematic (whether its all aimed towards you or someone else) and it's really bugging you then just cut ties with them and move on?? Since their stupid dramay shit isn't really Being A Bro now is it :p Trying to cling on to what's left of their good side and hoping that they'll change is uuusually a waste of time and you might just get hurt from all of it ya know? But yeah like Ali said it's pretty much just a case by case scenario; how well can you tolerate bullshit, is problematic friend's bullshit even that bad, how much is it affecting you/other friends, all that sorta stuffff. But

 

She said that when it comes to guys (specifically males), they have a "bro code" that is obviously unstated, but one of the key features in it is that "no matter what, you're my bro. If you don't personally fuck over my life, then you'll always be my bro and I'll always have your back". The example my sister gave is that one of her other friend's completely fucked over a few people's lives (but not the male friends), went to jail, became a drug addict, etc. He even made my sister and my family's life a living hell. She obviously cut ties from him, but her male friends didn't. Saying it was because they're guys and they need to have his back.

 

Another example is in my life: someone is tormenting my friend and we don't know who it is. He thought it was person A and confronted him etc. Person A denies it adamantly but through this process, their friendship has all but disappeared. It's awkward, they fight all the time, it's just a tense situation for everyone. But I asked my friend that if it's revealed A isn't the person who did it, do you still consider him a friend, and he said "yes. Of course. He's my bro," despite the fact that neither of them are talking to each other and A is basically crying 24/7.

 

these people are just fucking stupid :V How can they be ok with both guys' actions enough to still consider him a friend after those things happened....



#6 Boggart

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Posted 20 March 2014 - 11:11 AM

 

 

 

these people are just fucking stupid :V How can they be ok with both guys' actions enough to still consider him a friend after those things happened....

Don't ask me. Some people cross me and I instantly cut them from my life. maybe it's because I literally left all my childhood friends behind so I don't have that attachment of "I've known them since we were 2!" kinda thing.

 

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#7 Tubbz

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Posted 20 March 2014 - 11:15 AM

There's a few people who could do absolutely anything, and it wouldn't bother me.
I don't feel that way about every guy I know though.
The whole bro code thing to me is more "until you're married, come see your mates over spending time with a woman"

#8 DonValentino

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Posted 20 March 2014 - 11:31 AM

What the bro code means to me, isn't that if there was a guy that was a huge piece of shit I would still be friends with him. It's more like, if you're a friend of mine, I'll have your back to an extent. For example, one of my girlfriend's roommates is a guy, a friend of hers, so a friend of mine by extension. He has a girlfriend, and he made out with a girl one night, but I'm not going to tell his girlfriend. It's up to him if he wants to tell her. Another time one of my other buddy's gf's was getting a little too close with a guy at a party, so I went up to them and asked her if she wanted to leave with me. If they're having problems, they can talk about it and break up, but if I see something like that I'll try to help my buddy out. If you're a guy and you're a dick to me, I'm not going to be nice or have your back just because you're a guy.



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Posted 20 March 2014 - 11:37 AM

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Hehehehe dawwww he's so cute!!! :3 <3



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Posted 20 March 2014 - 01:20 PM

 

 

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OMG those head massager things are so awesome! My friend has one and I always use it on my head! I need to find me one of those in stores :p 





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