Okay so sorry for the really ambiguous title. I didn't know how to describe it easily.
Basically, in the past year, I have met three/four people who fit this sequence of events:
1) Long-term relationship where they never posted ANYTHING on social media and barely ever talked about their partners.
2) End of long-term relationship on their terms (aka dumped the other person)
3) Dated someone else immediately/relatively quickly after
4) Post about them on social media constantly or talk about the other person constantly.
In other words, I have met quite a few people who used to say "Oh I never post about my relationships online. It's tacky and I like to keep my private life private." Which is fine, I'm the same way. But then they date someone new and all I see is #MCM, #WCW #Love Love my new boyfriend, change the profile picture, constant statuses, tweets etc. when they were NEVER that kind of person with other ex's.
In my opinion, it seems like they were embarrassed/not super proud of the person they were dating. But now they are super happy with the new person and want to show them off. So does that mean that their old relationship basically didn't mean much to them? Or that they knew it was going to end from the beginning? Or am I over thinking it? Could it be a different interpretation?
I ask because my friend (who is a girl) was dating a girl for 3 years. . My friend gets dumped because the girl "wants to see what it's like dating guys" (and has a guy ready and willing. they literally had a date the night my friend got dumped) and now she's posting photos of him and her together 24/7. There's not one photo of her with my friend anywhere. Maybe she's just happy with this guy in a way she never was with my friend? Or maybe she's not afraid since it's a heterosexual relationship. Either way, I have friends who did the same where a friend dumped a guy, dated a new guy and then is like SOCIAL MEDIA UP IN HERE, when they never did that with the ex. Does it say something about the relationship?
I'm just curious as to what you all think
Also for those of you who don't know me, I'm Boggart and I make super long posts.