I was on the lower end of weight scale for a long time but am now on the higher end of things. I've gained a lot of weight the last few years; i'm not obese, but am overweight. I have had a few doctors make really rude comments about my weight, including an endocrinologist who I was seeing because I genuinely want to know what was wrong with me, and all he did was give me a sheet on healthy eating, which really just showed he hadn't even looked at the food diary I gave him. That upset me a lot because I wasn't expecting it from an endocrinologist. Around the same time, I had a personal trainer that I was working with last year who would accuse me of lying about what I ate because he couldn't wrap his head around the fact that I wasn't losing weight because calories in/out wasn't adding up. I feel like people don't believe my food diaries now when I'm overweight, but never had dieticians/nutritionists/etc doubt what I was eating when I was normal weight.
I also used to get ridiculous unsolicited diet advice from my ex housemate who a) eats very unhealthily, like she would eat a whole tray of brownies in a night, at least a few nights a week, and b) had no real understanding of nutrition. She'd talk down to me when I went for a run and acted very superior, even though she rarely exercised. She was so condescending. one day, I walked four hours and back to a fruit/veg shop that has a vegan cafe. I had wanted to drive there and buy a treat because I had been working hard, but I couldn't get out of the driveway as her car was in the way. I ended up buying a raw vegan bar/cake thing and bringing it home with me, and planned to have it the next day like it was birthday cake. She saw me walk in with a piece of 'cake' and made a really hurtful comment along the lines of "it's great that you don't care about eating cake and getting fatter." Wanted to slap her because even buying a piece of cake like that was a big deal for me with my thought patterns in the past, and also I had gone for a four hour walk so yeah, SO WHAT IF I ATE A PIECE OF HEALTHY CAKE ON MY BIRTHDAY THE NEXT DAY?! (She is a horrible person and really riles me up). I feel like a lot of people assume that I eat crap food all the time because of my weight, but I honestly don't know anyone who is as aware of the food they eat as I am, since I have lots of food intolerances. People assume I eat too much, when I actually don't eat nearly enough thanks to some disordered eating patterns I had when I was younger. I believe that I slowed my metabolism a lot as a teenager with my disordered eating, and I really struggle to fix some of those patterns.
I don't think I've noticed much else other than unsolicited advice. I haven't really been asked out since I gained weight, but at the same time, I've been unwell for just as long, so it's not like I'm going out and seeing people anyway. If I felt as rubbish as I do and was skinny, I'm sure it would be the same. I feel like people judge me when I am buying food, sometimes, but that could be me projecting as I have a lot of guilt around food when it comes to treating myself. I also feel judged when I am buying protein powders/bars at supplement shops, which I probably am because they're not exactly the most supportive places. I like to have those because i know that I underrate and hope that eating more might boost my metabolism. It hasn't worked yet, though.
eta: sorry for the essay. apparently I have very strong feelings about this/i feel the need to elaborate excessively after experiences on reddit lol with the CALORIES IN/OUT police.
Edited by kbexx, 30 May 2016 - 11:50 PM.