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#26 UnicornSoul

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Posted 16 February 2017 - 08:21 AM

Richard has to be exposed to be a nude! lol. That's my .02



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Posted 16 February 2017 - 08:40 AM

Back in the day I used to be fairly active on a chatting app. Sent nudes to a lot of people. Eventually, they got spread. I was tired of the community anyway, so I left. I've been a bit active recently, and people still remember my nudes. Nice. That was my first expereince with sending nudes.

 

Second one was with my ex, he was suuuuuper into my body. After him, I haven't sent any more nudes to boyfriends or people I was seeing. Occasionally I'd send one to an internet friend or two, but that's it. I'm most definitely pretty happy with my body, but I no longer feel the need to show it off. 

 

I think sending nudes isn't a bad thing if you're smart about it. NEVER EVER show your face. Good lighting is key. If you have the best pose and shitty lighting, might aswell not take a nude at all. And dudes are the worst at taking nudes. Flash on, weird angles, messy room... Ntyvm.



#28 weaboo

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Posted 16 February 2017 - 10:54 AM

 

 

I think sending nudes isn't a bad thing if you're smart about it. NEVER EVER show your face. Good lighting is key. If you have the best pose and shitty lighting, might aswell not take a nude at all. And dudes are the worst at taking nudes. Flash on, weird angles, messy room... Ntyvm.

 

 

I second that ;) also your pretty af.



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Posted 16 February 2017 - 11:03 AM

I dislike nudes from people unless they are creative nudes. I feel like @DonValentino would send some creative nudes. If someone just snaps a pic of their junk and sends it to me, I will probably ignore them or outright tell them they aren't being cute, coy, or sexy by just snapping a picture of their genitals. It doesn't illustrate effort to me. It doesn't excite me or attract me, unless it's done cleverly, because without the cleverness, I just assume they just want sex, and either don't have a great sense of humor, or aren't particularly bright, or they are just using me to jerk it.

Genitals are ugly to me in most contexts too and making nudes funny or clever offsets the ugliness of genitals. I'm only really attracted to people's stuff when I'm engaging in sex. This is 100% my own preference and not at all a reflection of other people's bodies.

 

If I send them (and I very rarely do) I try to send funny/creative nudes, that are still sort of sexy.



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Posted 16 February 2017 - 12:38 PM

Back in the day I used to be fairly active on a chatting app. Sent nudes to a lot of people.

 

 

Ahhh, bad timing :(



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Posted 16 February 2017 - 03:13 PM

I dislike nudes from people unless they are creative nudes. I feel like @DonValentino would send some creative nudes. If someone just snaps a pic of their junk and sends it to me, I will probably ignore them or outright tell them they aren't being cute, coy, or sexy by just snapping a picture of their genitals. It doesn't illustrate effort to me. It doesn't excite me or attract me, unless it's done cleverly, because without the cleverness, I just assume they just want sex, and either don't have a great sense of humor, or aren't particularly bright, or they are just using me to jerk it.

Genitals are ugly to me in most contexts too and making nudes funny or clever offsets the ugliness of genitals. I'm only really attracted to people's stuff when I'm engaging in sex. This is 100% my own preference and not at all a reflection of other people's bodies.

 

If I send them (and I very rarely do) I try to send funny/creative nudes, that are still sort of sexy.

 

I'm not very creative at taking them lol and it's usually shitty bathroom lighting. ALTHOUGH I did take some good nudes last month in the snow on top of a mountain. That was fun :)



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Posted 16 February 2017 - 03:22 PM

My now-husband has seen me naked most days for 10 years, the lucky duck. When we first got together we were 17 and nobody had smartphones yet, and we've lived together near enough ever since so it's never really been a thing. Plus I'm not sure that the poor boy needs to see my boobs more than he does.



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Posted 16 February 2017 - 05:22 PM

I used to all the time. I even traded nudes for gaia items back when Tentacl was a thing.

 

But I have very distinctive tattoos now and I work with children so it's riskier. So I stick to just sending them to my spouse and not saving to the cloud :p



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Posted 16 February 2017 - 06:29 PM

I have never really received nudes from someone since my SO isn't exactly keen on something being out there forever. She's more of a "why send nudes if you can see it in person".

 

Would I send nudes? Eh. I guess if my SO asked for one I would. There wouldn;t be any face though aha


My now-husband has seen me naked most days for 10 years, the lucky duck. When we first got together we were 17 and nobody had smartphones yet, and we've lived together near enough ever since so it's never really been a thing. Plus I'm not sure that the poor boy needs to see my boobs more than he does.

There is no such thing as seeing boobs "too much".



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Posted 17 February 2017 - 06:41 PM

I have never really received nudes from someone since my SO isn't exactly keen on something being out there forever. She's more of a "why send nudes if you can see it in person".

 

Would I send nudes? Eh. I guess if my SO asked for one I would. There wouldn;t be any face though aha


There is no such thing as seeing boobs "too much".

I fully understand the seeing it every day so what's the point logic. Do you send them when you're apart for an extended period of time?



#36 Umi

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Posted 17 February 2017 - 08:55 PM

No way on both sending/receiving. I just don't like this things, even on a relationship.

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Posted 22 February 2017 - 12:09 PM

Never done it personally, probably mostly due to growing up at a time when phones barely had internet connections, had the screen resolution of a potato and it cost a week's wages to send an MMS. I also struggle to see how anybody would find dick pics attractive at all... One could dress it up as some kind of woodland creature I suppose. Or perhaps create a jaunty hat for it. Hmm.
 

We have all done stuff when we was young :p

 

Didn't realise you could send nudes by telegram. :rolleyes:
 

Richard has to be exposed to be a nude! lol. That's my .02

 
I agree, anything less is just pointless.



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Posted 22 February 2017 - 03:16 PM

Never done it personally, probably mostly due to growing up at a time when phones barely had internet connections, had the screen resolution of a potato and it cost a week's wages to send an MMS. I also struggle to see how anybody would find dick pics attractive at all... One could dress it up as some kind of woodland creature I suppose. Or perhaps create a jaunty hat for it. Hmm.
 

 

Didn't realise you could send nudes by telegram. :rolleyes:
 

 
I agree, anything less is just pointless.

I find the guy in the picture more attractive than his dick, but a nice big dick is pretty great to look at. 



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Posted 24 February 2017 - 10:35 AM

Never done it personally, probably mostly due to growing up at a time when phones barely had internet connections, had the screen resolution of a potato and it cost a week's wages to send an MMS. I also struggle to see how anybody would find dick pics attractive at all... One could dress it up as some kind of woodland creature I suppose. Or perhaps create a jaunty hat for it. Hmm.

 

I remember when getting cellphone nudes in school was a big deal, you'd get so excited over a blurry pixelated nipple. The quality was so shit you weren't actually sure if it was a nipple but it was still hype



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Posted 24 February 2017 - 10:52 AM

I also struggle to see how anybody would find dick pics attractive at all... One could dress it up as some kind of woodland creature I suppose. Or perhaps create a jaunty hat for it. Hmm.

This.



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Posted 24 February 2017 - 12:05 PM

I don't. 

 

If people want to, sure. I don't suggest sending them to random people though, and I'm not interested in getting them personally. (Not including my partner though, she can send them anytime and they're welcome.)



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Posted 25 February 2017 - 07:20 AM

I dislike nudes from people unless they are creative nudes. I feel like @DonValentino would send some creative nudes. If someone just snaps a pic of their junk and sends it to me, I will probably ignore them or outright tell them they aren't being cute, coy, or sexy by just snapping a picture of their genitals. It doesn't illustrate effort to me. It doesn't excite me or attract me, unless it's done cleverly, because without the cleverness, I just assume they just want sex, and either don't have a great sense of humor, or aren't particularly bright, or they are just using me to jerk it.

Genitals are ugly to me in most contexts too and making nudes funny or clever offsets the ugliness of genitals. I'm only really attracted to people's stuff when I'm engaging in sex. This is 100% my own preference and not at all a reflection of other people's bodies.

 

If I send them (and I very rarely do) I try to send funny/creative nudes, that are still sort of sexy.

 

I'm kind of curious to what you guys would consider creative nudes?



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Posted 25 February 2017 - 05:56 PM

I'll send nudes to your mom I don't care

#44 Trapezeo

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Posted 26 February 2017 - 06:35 AM

I'll send nudes to your mom I don't care


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Posted 26 February 2017 - 07:30 AM

I never send or make nudes and don't recieve them all that much. I'm seeing a photographer right now, and one time he started snapping some pics of me (I made sure it was without my face in it) when we were having sex. The act itself was really fun. I think if I made them by myself it would only feel awkward to do.

 

He sent them to me later and it got straight desert down there. I do not arouse myself at all lol. It also made me realize how often I carelessly hand over my phone to my friends and how often pictures pop up without even looking for them, so it's probably for the best my phone's not full of nudes. Especially if they're mine.

 

Couple of years ago some girl's nudes leaked at my work (themepark, Halloween event). She was apparently pretty wild and slept with 3 different colleagues over the weekend and sent them and more nudes of herself. For some reason one of the asses leaked her pictures and within a day nearly everyone had them, including me, because they were spread in groupchats - that's about 300 people recieving your nudes within a day. The whole situation made me so mad. The most infuriating part is the hypocrisy. This event is always a fuckfest (300 actors packed together for a month, sharing cabins with each other), so that everyone somehow decided to slutshame a girl who just turned 18 for banging 3 dudes is absolutely baffling to me. I thought for sure they were ruining her life. But it's been about 3 or 4 years now and she's still here, incredibly thick skin and just doesn't give a flying fuck about it all. I have mad respect for this girl.



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Posted 26 February 2017 - 01:15 PM

As I was at work today sending nudes, it got me wondering what everyone's thoughts on the subject are.
 
Do you send them to your boyfriend/girlfriend? Random people you're chatting with ask for them? Do you send them to other people if you're in a relationship?
 
Sound off.
 
I have no trouble sending them to guys who want them. I have a few different ones of myself on my phone. If I get one from a guy and like it I will save it, but I never share nudes of someone who sent me one. 
 
 
 
Also, if this forum creates anything that violates the rules, I have no trouble with it coming down.

Yes, no, yes.
 I know some people appreciate naked pics of me more than others and I like the validation that comes with knowing someone PARTICULARLY appreciates it, especially if it's a really good one. I only share nudes of myself and random ones on google images.


As I was at work today sending nudes, it got me wondering what everyone's thoughts on the subject are.
 
Do you send them to your boyfriend/girlfriend? Random people you're chatting with ask for them? Do you send them to other people if you're in a relationship?
 
Sound off.
 
I have no trouble sending them to guys who want them. I have a few different ones of myself on my phone. If I get one from a guy and like it I will save it, but I never share nudes of someone who sent me one. 
 
 
 
Also, if this forum creates anything that violates the rules, I have no trouble with it coming down.

Yes, no, yes.
 I know some people appreciate naked pics of me more than others and I like the validation that comes with knowing someone PARTICULARLY appreciates it, especially if it's a really good one. I only share nudes of myself and random ones on google images.



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Posted 27 February 2017 - 11:35 AM

I wouldn't send nudes, but if other people want to that's fine. I'm not really interested in them though.



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Posted 27 February 2017 - 08:30 PM

Honestly I wouldn't want to share such things as if it somehow got out .. I don't really want it to be a public image of myself. Now, if I was in a relationship, and was intimate with the person, I MIGHT be willing to send, preferably if they offer to first, as I don't wanna seem like I'm rushing them.

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Posted 28 February 2017 - 12:24 AM

I have twice, and I found it to be not rewarding considering I spent more time stressing about if it may end up on the internet. It was a long time ago but I was mostly concerned about ending up as revenge porn and being seen by my brothers or my schoolmates.

No judgement to people that do of course, I'm sure most people's experiences are more liberating than mine.

Edited by Pink_Bubble, 28 February 2017 - 12:25 AM.


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Posted 28 February 2017 - 10:37 AM

See i don't have a problem with mine getting out there, i have one which i really like but it's tasteful. My friends got a hold of my phone one day and everyone saw it, but all i got was compliments so i was more flattered than mad  ^_^ So at this point i'm like if it gets out, i'm not too bothered cause it looks good anyway, and i'm pretty sure it's out there already  <_<

 

I never show my face but that doesn't really matter because one of the downsides of having tattoos is that it can always be traced back to me regardless, it's not like i have a small butterfly tattoo on my wrist, i have a full fucking sleeve. So if you want to send nudes anonymously, don't get tattoos :p




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