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#1 Rogue

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Posted 17 May 2018 - 09:20 AM

I'm going through a phase where I can't stand the sight of my boyfriend. Everything about him makes me cringe. Have you guys ever felt this way? How could I change that? He is really nice to me and lovely, but he is so clingy and needy I can't stand anymore. 
 
 
 
I'm about to to throw my phone at the wall and tell him I was robbed so I can stop talking to him for some time.


#2 Ladida

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Posted 17 May 2018 - 09:50 AM

Is it hormonal? I know that some women can't stand their men when they become pregnant. Is it just making the clingyness appear more prominent?

 

Or does he realize you're going through the phase, and he's becoming even more clingy because he feels he's losing you?



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Posted 17 May 2018 - 09:50 AM

 

I'm going through a phase where I can't stand the sight of my boyfriend. Everything about him makes me cringe. Have you guys ever felt this way? How could I change that? He is really nice to me and lovely, but he is so clingy and needy I can't stand anymore. 
 
 
 
I'm about to to throw my phone at the wall and tell him I was robbed so I can stop talking to him for some time.

 

 

Sounds like you just need to communicate with him that you need space. If you lie to him about being robbed that's really unhealthy. 


 

I'm going through a phase where I can't stand the sight of my boyfriend. Everything about him makes me cringe. Have you guys ever felt this way? How could I change that? He is really nice to me and lovely, but he is so clingy and needy I can't stand anymore. 
 
 
 
I'm about to to throw my phone at the wall and tell him I was robbed so I can stop talking to him for some time.

 

 

Sounds like you just need to communicate with him that you need space. If you lie to him about being robbed that's really unhealthy. 



#4 Rogue

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Posted 17 May 2018 - 06:56 PM

Is it hormonal? I know that some women can't stand their men when they become pregnant. Is it just making the clingyness appear more prominent?

 

Or does he realize you're going through the phase, and he's becoming even more clingy because he feels he's losing you?

 

It's not hormonal nor pregnancy, I hope, I'm a guy! xD

 

Sounds like you just need to communicate with him that you need space. If you lie to him about being robbed that's really unhealthy. 

 

 

I feel like I like him, really, but I wish I could miss him, he calls me everytime, text me everytime, I'm just tired of it!



#5 Keil

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Posted 17 May 2018 - 08:41 PM

Inquire for a relationship break. Just like a week or two to catch your breath. I'm just guessing here but it seems like you're feeling overwhelmed at the moment and maybe it would be best to have some space and time for yourself so that you can relax into a less stressful state. When you get to that point, you can probably see the whole picture better and decide for yourself if you want to pursue this relationship or not. But right now when you're facing a lot of thoughts of emotions, it would be difficult and maybe hasty to make a decision that decides the outcome of your relationship.



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Posted 18 May 2018 - 12:18 PM

I agree with what @Amethyst said. It sounds like you really need to communicate your needs/boundaries. Keil's thought about taking a break is a good idea too. Sometimes we need to be on our own. It's important our partner's understand and respect that. I'm sorry you're feeling so overwhelmed right now though. :/



#7 Guest_iCarly_*

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Posted 18 May 2018 - 02:24 PM

I agree with what @Amethyst said. It sounds like you really need to communicate your needs/boundaries. Keil's thought about taking a break is a good idea too. Sometimes we need to be on our own. It's important our partner's understand and respect that. I'm sorry you're feeling so overwhelmed right now though. :/

 

I feel like a mix of our ideas are important.

 

Communicate your needs, let him know there's nothing wrong with him. You're just a person who needs space sometimes. Let him know this doesn't mean you're ending your relationship. (Or using it to sleep with other people.) You just need some alone time to do you things. That's pretty much how me and my boyfriend talked about it. Sometimes you just need a day to do what you want, by yourself. 

 

And with Keil's suggestion. Take a week to yourself if you need. Just clearly communicate what you're doing so he doesn't freak out. 



#8 Romy

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Posted 18 May 2018 - 03:54 PM

It's not hormonal nor pregnancy, I hope, I'm a guy! xD

Idk man. I've seen some freaky shit.

Also, dump him. 




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