Why aren't we talking about men getting raped? I don't understand why everyone always omits that entire side of the discussion.
I did mention it, he just chose to ignore it.
Posted 22 August 2012 - 07:43 AM
Why aren't we talking about men getting raped? I don't understand why everyone always omits that entire side of the discussion.
Posted 22 August 2012 - 07:47 AM
You got replies because you started with "Rape isn't a big deal". You were deliberately inflammatory.
Not because you had a valid or interesting point.
Feel free to go back and reread my post if you need tips on how to say the same thing without coming off as a gigantic arse.
Why aren't we talking about men getting raped? I don't understand why everyone always omits that entire side of the discussion.
Posted 22 August 2012 - 07:51 AM
So you don't like how I express myself? Great. I don't personally enjoy having you trying to spark an irrelevant discussion with me on every thread I am in but you don't see me complaining about it. Submit a formal complain on the issue if Khalil's "inflammatory" way of bringing forth his not "valid" or not "interesting" points bother you. Mods have been compulsively deleting irrelevant chit-chat so these will be my last words on the issue. Make a writing tips thread or something.
I did mention it, men getting raped was a focal part of my discussion and when nymh brought it up, I replied accordingly.
Posted 22 August 2012 - 08:39 AM
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Posted 24 August 2012 - 04:38 PM
It's not as common. But many of the issues are the same. Obviously men can't get pregnant, but in exchange they have to deal with the idea that a guy getting raped is funny or brands him as a wimp. Ironically for an issue so closely related to sex, I think that men and women rape victims probably have a lot of the same issues to deal with.Why aren't we talking about men getting raped? I don't understand why everyone always omits that entire side of the discussion.
Posted 24 August 2012 - 10:18 PM
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Posted 25 September 2012 - 07:06 PM
To be fair, in some legal definitions, men can't be raped. It's probably why it doesn't get as much media coverage. It's classified as sexual assault.
Posted 26 September 2012 - 02:51 AM
Yes they can.. I know two cases where the male was rapped.
Posted 26 September 2012 - 03:19 AM
Posted 26 September 2012 - 03:35 AM
Posted 26 September 2012 - 03:52 AM
Because, by raping they guarantee their victim to have a horrible life. Haunted by nightmares, low self-esteem and chronic depression.
Which makes the victim to suffer all their life.
Posted 29 September 2012 - 12:27 AM
Posted 29 September 2012 - 01:31 AM
Because, by raping they guarantee their victim to have a horrible life. Haunted by nightmares, low self-esteem and chronic depression.
Which makes the victim to suffer all their life.
Posted 29 September 2012 - 07:55 AM
So people that have been raped will be guaranteed a horrible life?
Wow...
Seems to me that your opinion is not that far from his...SAY WHAT?!
I just feel like...raping someone (like killing them) is one of the darkest things a human being is capable of doing to another.
It destroys them emotionally, physically and mentally.
I don't want a rapist to live the rest of his days comfortable in their cell or getting executed while their victim is forced to carry on the demented memory of their assault.
Posted 29 September 2012 - 08:14 AM
Posted 29 September 2012 - 08:22 AM
I haven't been raped and I'm a nervous wreck with a horrible life. Who shall I put to death for this?
Posted 29 September 2012 - 08:29 AM
Read my post again.
So people that have been raped will be guaranteed a horrible life?
Wow...
Posted 29 September 2012 - 08:30 AM
Yes.. Being raped is life changing. It affects who you are and you do suffer from difficulties for the rest of your life, You feel dirty and disgusted on a daily basis and always get flash backs. In a way the attack takes away a major part of you and you will never fill that empty feeling which sits within you.
Posted 29 September 2012 - 08:32 AM
I know a guy who was raped when he was 10 by a 17 year old boy
and I know an guy who was drugged, tied up and given viagra.. he said no.. but it still happened... but yes this case can be assault
Yes.. Being raped is life changing. It affects who you are and you do suffer from difficulties for the rest of your life, You feel dirty and disgusted on a daily basis and always get flash backs. In a way the attack takes away a major part of you and you will never fill that empty feeling which sits within you.
Posted 29 September 2012 - 08:35 AM
and I know an guy who was drugged, tied up and given viagra..
Posted 29 September 2012 - 08:37 AM
You're making generalizations.
It doesn't affect everyone that way.
Does that guy you know suffer from erectile dysfunction?
Posted 29 September 2012 - 08:49 AM
Erm.. actually.. Thats an odd question because even though it was years ago.. he does get meds from the doctor to help him in that department.
Posted 29 September 2012 - 09:06 AM
Viagra has little effect on people who neither abuse drugs or suffer from erectile dysfunction. It isn't something a person takes and a magic boner appears, although that is a common misconception. I was just curious.
Why is death for a rape adequate? It's not like they KILLED someone. Some rape victims find it in their hearts to forgive the people who have done them harm. Should those forgiven rapists be murdered for a false sense of justice, too?
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