There are plenty of chicks who are emo, goth and butch...
you are missing the big picture here.
Haha. I was being a bit histrionic in my previous post.
Are you saying that "most" gay guys are effeminate?
What you define as "gay" is also up for question. If its a guy who would have sex with a guy, then I believe there are far more "straight-acting" gay guys out there than the "effeminate" gay guy.
Try reading Tearoom Trade: Inconspicuous sex in public places
(the title is something like that, don't remember it exactly) - The book is about public "tearooms" or restrooms that gay guys would meet up and have sex in. This was from the 70's I believe. Anywho: the findings from the sociologist who decided to research this found that A LOT of the guys that went there were regular guys; many of them WITH A WIFE AND KIDS. I was a bit surprised, but not really. I am sure there are many guys who are gay, but don't feel comfortable fitting the "general mold" of "gayness". I like tennis and video games as well, so am I a jock and nerd as well?
What is the "big picture" you are talking about? If it is that you should grossly generalize, then I agree to disagree. Generalizations are fun to talk about with informed people and make fun of, but they do not help the general population's perception of the group being generalized.