the only reason i havent replied yet is because im on alot of meds and typing/reading/being coherent ios hard so i apologize if i dont get things across clearly or what have you,
But clearly you use the word slut as a broader term than I do.
I dont classify people who like having sex as sluts. period. You can have a shit ton of sex with a few people and not get bored, just damn fine.
Sluts in my eyes are the cunts with malicious intent who need a new partner every week and the ones who dont care about others emotions in the process.
People who give out nudes are not sluts in my eyes, these are 2 different categories.
and though I'm not prude by no means what so ever, people who have sex with 50+ people, are ruining the whole meaning of sex.
Sex isn't meant to be some casual fucking activity like going for coffee. And no, I'm not getting sex confused with 'making love'.
Both should fucking mean something.
i'll post more of my rebuttal when my mind isnt cloudy and im not half asleep
staying away from a debate when your 1/5 your normalself = good idea
I didn't say you have to make love to enjoy it? Sex is just sex. That's it to me and a lot of people, obviously not you and some, but why should their sex lives be any of your business to begin with? Oh. It shouldn't be your business at all. There is no fucking meaning to sex. That's just it. Sex can have meanings FOR people but in all honesty? It's just intercourse. Our society has driven us to think that sex is this sacred, taboo, "making love" bullshit but it's just sex. A girl can have 50 partners if she wants because she enjoys it. Haven't you ever had sex? It feels good doesn't it?
There's people who want to have sex to feel special, that's totally fine. To share that moment with someone they love -- hey, I only have sex based on that fact! THAT IS YOUR OWN PERSONAL DECISION
. But if one wants to have sex for the fun of it, which a LOT of people do, then by all means. It's your body after all.
I feel like people who shame sluts police other peoples bodies. It's their own choice. Not everyone who has sex wants to "make love". Lol. I especially know this because I am in University and a lot of my friends and colleagues have lots of casual sex. It doesn't make them vindictive or a bad person. If it doesn't hurt the guy and if there's no strings attached (one night stands, anyone?) it's perfectly fine. I don't see anything wrong with it.
Why do you think sluts are the ones who are vindictive? They're not simply "sluts" I hate that word... I am just using it for the sake of proving my point. Wouldn't it be better to call them just mean, 'bitchy' (again I don't really like using words that demean women) people? You can steal boyfriends without having to put out. Without hurting anyone else.
By the way, Salamanda, I hope you feel it isn't an attack to you -- my post. I never meant to call you a prude, I am calling the North American society that has become such a prudence. Sex can't even be openly talked about, it's shamed -- and it shouldn't. It's natural. Animals have sex. We're just animals who can talk and think. It's a way of life. If you're protected and you're being safe ... then what's the problem here?