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Salade

Member Since 13 Mar 2008
Offline Last Active Oct 17 2018 12:47 PM

#2026496 I am me AMA

Posted by Salade on 30 July 2018 - 04:14 AM

What's your Neocodex biography?

 

What's something that people would never guess about you, and why?

 

What's your favourite ice cream flavour?




#2026116 Sleeping with a married person

Posted by Salade on 13 July 2018 - 03:04 AM

Knowingly sleeping with a person in any kind of monogamous relationship is fucked up. I had a friend who messed around with a dude who was unsatisfied sexually in his relationship. So instead of talking with his girlfriend, or even breaking up, he sticks his dick in the first girl he finds. I was disgusted at him, but even more so at my friend, who enabled this shitty behaviour. She's also the kind of person who is suuuuper insecure about guys. She had a crush on that guy for a while, and kept badmouthing his poor girlfriend, parroting whatever he told her. Almost ended our friendship.

 

So uh, kind of parroting what cara said, but if you knowingly stick your genitals in or on someone else's genitals, fuck you. If you're unhappy in your relationship and don't have the guts to talk or end it, fuck you too. 




#2020252 Our Newest Retired Member!

Posted by Salade on 24 March 2018 - 08:33 AM

Congrats, mVw9oNu.gif!




#2020077 Dappervolk

Posted by Salade on 20 March 2018 - 05:09 AM

FR has really started to bore me, so I'm looking forward to DV's next reg window. I hope it can satisfy that pixel collector itch. 




#2019667 A message from your friendly neighbourhood Admin

Posted by Salade on 14 March 2018 - 11:14 AM

I also feel that activity went down shortly after the NC slack was created. Not surprising, since chatting is way easier than posting on a forum (imo). So, instead of hanging out on slack, maybe hang out in the forums again? Not that I ever was a hugely active member, but I did have a period of being super active like two years ago. I miss that.




#2011655 So how about that Neofriends Online bar working now?!

Posted by Salade on 14 July 2017 - 02:34 AM

This actually made me register again after being frozen a month ago. I love seeing other people being online for 18 hours and then feeling a little less pathetic. But then also remembering that I've been online for 28 hours and that I should probably go out. 

 

And of of course I hope this is a good sign, aka that NetDragon might bring back or fix some features.




#2005690 Weddings

Posted by Salade on 21 April 2017 - 11:39 AM

I haven't given my own wedding much thought tbh. All I want is a huge party with all my family and friends. In spring, summer or autumn. Lots of sunshine. But not too much. I've been at way too many hot weddings where I sweated my foundation off and everyone looked like a mess in general.

 

That being said, I love weddings! The emotions, the people, the fooooood! And you can absolutely count on me to burst into tears when the couple both say their vows or "I do". Even if I don't really know them, oops.




#2005442 My cat, Princess, playing fetch... what does your pet do?

Posted by Salade on 18 April 2017 - 04:36 AM

Aaah, this thread gave me the feels. I love all animals so much. Even that fly was... super fly. 

 

As soon as I moved out from home I got myself a pet snake. Always wanted one. His name is Rufus, he's 8-10 years old, and he's a Ball Python. Super cute. So far he hasn't displayed any special abilities, except being ADORABLE. My word, I look into his eyes and my heart just melts. Even though he's a rope with muscles and like two brain cells. One time he yawned and I still think of that. So cute.

 

Look at this cutie. Pretty.

 

 

Another one.

 

 

Snakes are great.




#2003932 What is something weird about you?

Posted by Salade on 26 March 2017 - 02:20 PM

I can "see" all noises as a 360 degree panorama something. Shapes, textures and sometimes colours too. Aka synaesthesia.




#2001839 The TMI topic

Posted by Salade on 21 February 2017 - 02:28 AM

There is a certain anime character i fantasize about sometimes. i have read just about every erotic fanfic out there about them. and theres quite a bit of them ;) i started watching hentai at a young age so i feel like my brain blurs the lines between fantasy and reality in this way 

A wild guess: Not L.

 

 

Poop stuff:

Spoiler




#2001747 What's Your Biggest Regret?

Posted by Salade on 20 February 2017 - 02:43 PM

NO RAGRETS.

 

 

Seriously. Everything I've done has led me to this point, and while times have been pretty shitty, I am all the stronger. 




#2000794 Depression advice

Posted by Salade on 03 February 2017 - 11:08 AM

A known side effect of anti-depressants is they can increase suicidal thoughts. Especially if you start anti-depressants or increase dosage. She should tell her doctor immediately, if he doesn't prescribe a different medication you should try and find a different doctor. That's the chemical side of things.

 

On the emotional side, this is a fecking tough thing for both of you. Couples counseling is like Kelvin said a really good idea. As an outsider, it's hard to understand mental illness. I've found it very hard to explain my thoughts and feelings to my family who tried to support me. My psychotherapist at the time had a talk with my parents, explained them what was going on, that I wasn't blaming them whatsoever, that I had a hard time relying on them because I felt like a burden etc. Your wife might feel similar things. But supporting and helping a person with depression is incredibly difficult, because they're trapped inside their thoughts. Let her know that you love and support her unconditionally, that you don't blame her, that you're absolutely positive that she will get better with time. Even if she's had a few good days in a row, when a bad day comes around she might feel guilty and like a burden - let her know that you'll be there for her on bad days too. 

 

Another thing that helped me after I tried to endanger my life was checking into a stationary mental health hospital. I got away from my school and personal life for a while, and had psychological help available round the clock. Plus I didn't have to worry about household-y things. This institution did have the possibility for mothers to come with their babies, but I don't know if that is possible where you live. Maybe a parent or a friend could come round once a week and offer some distraction? 

 

 

This is not very structured, sorry. But I do send the both of you a lot of strength. Never forget that it is possible to overcome depression, but that it does take time. 




#1997411 Post your possible/dream dragons!

Posted by Salade on 24 November 2016 - 03:29 AM

Sorry about the major bump, but which program/app/thingy are you using here?

I'm not Alexiel but http://flightrising....iew=morphintime is the feature where you can preview all possible dragon genes and colour combinations. It's called Scrying Workshop. :)




#1996358 Thanksgiving

Posted by Salade on 05 November 2016 - 10:32 AM

No Thanksgiving in my country. 




#1993554 Unpopular Opinions

Posted by Salade on 25 September 2016 - 04:03 AM

Assisted suicide should be legal everywhere and be accessible at any age.

There's nothing more important rn than fighting the causes of global warming and antibiotics resistance. Other things can wait, those things are going to fuck humanity up in the near future.

Charlie Hebdo is shit.