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#2011655 So how about that Neofriends Online bar working now?!

Posted by Salade on 14 July 2017 - 02:34 AM

This actually made me register again after being frozen a month ago. I love seeing other people being online for 18 hours and then feeling a little less pathetic. But then also remembering that I've been online for 28 hours and that I should probably go out. 


And of of course I hope this is a good sign, aka that NetDragon might bring back or fix some features.

#2005690 Weddings

Posted by Salade on 21 April 2017 - 11:39 AM

I haven't given my own wedding much thought tbh. All I want is a huge party with all my family and friends. In spring, summer or autumn. Lots of sunshine. But not too much. I've been at way too many hot weddings where I sweated my foundation off and everyone looked like a mess in general.


That being said, I love weddings! The emotions, the people, the fooooood! And you can absolutely count on me to burst into tears when the couple both say their vows or "I do". Even if I don't really know them, oops.

#2005442 My cat, Princess, playing fetch... what does your pet do?

Posted by Salade on 18 April 2017 - 04:36 AM

Aaah, this thread gave me the feels. I love all animals so much. Even that fly was... super fly. 


As soon as I moved out from home I got myself a pet snake. Always wanted one. His name is Rufus, he's 8-10 years old, and he's a Ball Python. Super cute. So far he hasn't displayed any special abilities, except being ADORABLE. My word, I look into his eyes and my heart just melts. Even though he's a rope with muscles and like two brain cells. One time he yawned and I still think of that. So cute.


Look at this cutie. Pretty.



Another one.



Snakes are great.

#2003932 What is something weird about you?

Posted by Salade on 26 March 2017 - 02:20 PM

I can "see" all noises as a 360 degree panorama something. Shapes, textures and sometimes colours too. Aka synaesthesia.

#2001839 The TMI topic

Posted by Salade on 21 February 2017 - 02:28 AM

There is a certain anime character i fantasize about sometimes. i have read just about every erotic fanfic out there about them. and theres quite a bit of them ;) i started watching hentai at a young age so i feel like my brain blurs the lines between fantasy and reality in this way 

A wild guess: Not L.



Poop stuff:


#2001747 What's Your Biggest Regret?

Posted by Salade on 20 February 2017 - 02:43 PM




Seriously. Everything I've done has led me to this point, and while times have been pretty shitty, I am all the stronger. 

#2000794 Depression advice

Posted by Salade on 03 February 2017 - 11:08 AM

A known side effect of anti-depressants is they can increase suicidal thoughts. Especially if you start anti-depressants or increase dosage. She should tell her doctor immediately, if he doesn't prescribe a different medication you should try and find a different doctor. That's the chemical side of things.


On the emotional side, this is a fecking tough thing for both of you. Couples counseling is like Kelvin said a really good idea. As an outsider, it's hard to understand mental illness. I've found it very hard to explain my thoughts and feelings to my family who tried to support me. My psychotherapist at the time had a talk with my parents, explained them what was going on, that I wasn't blaming them whatsoever, that I had a hard time relying on them because I felt like a burden etc. Your wife might feel similar things. But supporting and helping a person with depression is incredibly difficult, because they're trapped inside their thoughts. Let her know that you love and support her unconditionally, that you don't blame her, that you're absolutely positive that she will get better with time. Even if she's had a few good days in a row, when a bad day comes around she might feel guilty and like a burden - let her know that you'll be there for her on bad days too. 


Another thing that helped me after I tried to endanger my life was checking into a stationary mental health hospital. I got away from my school and personal life for a while, and had psychological help available round the clock. Plus I didn't have to worry about household-y things. This institution did have the possibility for mothers to come with their babies, but I don't know if that is possible where you live. Maybe a parent or a friend could come round once a week and offer some distraction? 



This is not very structured, sorry. But I do send the both of you a lot of strength. Never forget that it is possible to overcome depression, but that it does take time. 

#1997411 Post your possible/dream dragons!

Posted by Salade on 24 November 2016 - 03:29 AM

Sorry about the major bump, but which program/app/thingy are you using here?

I'm not Alexiel but http://flightrising....iew=morphintime is the feature where you can preview all possible dragon genes and colour combinations. It's called Scrying Workshop. :)

#1996358 Thanksgiving

Posted by Salade on 05 November 2016 - 10:32 AM

No Thanksgiving in my country. 

#1993554 Unpopular Opinions

Posted by Salade on 25 September 2016 - 04:03 AM

Assisted suicide should be legal everywhere and be accessible at any age.

There's nothing more important rn than fighting the causes of global warming and antibiotics resistance. Other things can wait, those things are going to fuck humanity up in the near future.

Charlie Hebdo is shit.

#1990810 Console vs PC

Posted by Salade on 21 August 2016 - 08:00 AM

PC for the graphics and modability, if that's even a word. But I'm rubbish at gaming with a keypad and a mouse so I always use a wireless Xbox 360 controller. That's the only other console I have and I find it so much more intuitive.

#1979882 Game of Thrones

Posted by Salade on 14 June 2016 - 03:44 AM

I laughed too hard at this analogy.

Hehehe you said anal.

#1974719 SUAP price check

Posted by Salade on 04 June 2016 - 07:27 AM

With enough "other" you can buy anything! :D

Especially love and friendship.

#1972380 June MOTM - Nominations

Posted by Salade on 01 June 2016 - 07:50 AM

@HiMyNameIsJunjie For being active, super helpful with ABing stuff, and just generally a pleasant person. You da real mvp.

@Coops For hosting the Codies which sounds super tedious, coming up with a good theme, and of course being helpful and friendly. 

@Futurama All that AC stuff! He makes participating so much easier. And of course he's active, friendly, etc. I'd bake you a brownie but I can't bake.


I wish I could nominate a few more people.

#1970061 Fatphobia/Thin Privilege

Posted by Salade on 29 May 2016 - 01:39 PM

There is such a thing as thin privilege and possibly fatphobia, not so much here because you very rarely see fat people. Chubby yes, but not fat fat. The ones that can't walk up one flight of stairs without gasping for air and almost collapsing. Those are also the ones that I wouldn't call healthy. But each to their own, it's their body and none of my concern unless I want to get somewhere quickly. But thin people can be bloody slow too.


On the other hand, people do look at me and say that I'm unhealthy because stick thin and I should eat more. In some cases this might be said with a good intention in mind, but most of the times it's just slightly on the rude side. Especially when it comes from people who'd get reeeally offended if you told them to stop eating so many fries. 


Tldr: Fuck everything, who cares, we'll be dead in 100 years.