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Amethyst

Member Since 10 Mar 2010
Offline Last Active Today, 11:36 AM

Posts I've Made

In Topic: Welcome to our newest Private members!

23 May 2018 - 08:07 AM

Congrats ! 

 

next private member: me

 

My vote on you is no already.


In Topic: Welcome to our newest Private members!

22 May 2018 - 04:48 PM

Congrats


In Topic: Spring Codies 2k18 Nominations

21 May 2018 - 09:22 PM

 

I tried to nom different people for all the categories ^^

 

GENERAL

Friendliest Poster: @Prisca
Least Friendly Poster: @Romy
Most Interesting Overall Poster: @Amethyst

 

FORUM
Best Newbie: @Muirex
Most Helpful Member: @Ladida

Best Staff Member: @Emily

Thread of the Year: cooper's poopers scav hunt
Best Display Picture: @jaredyne
Best Signature: @Grumpy

Best User Comeback: @Rocket
Most Missed: @Ali

Best Codex Couple:  Elindornips
 

PERSONALITY / OTHER

Best Programmer: @Dan
Most Likely to Be a Bot: @Valorous
Funniest Member: @Scot
Most Intelligent: @Kaddict
Most Talented: @Jess

Most Adorable: @Trichomes
Hottest Member: @Kate
Biggest Flirt: @Strategist
Stalest Baguette: @Keil
Definitely a Lizard Person: @ortin
Cutest Codex Cat: Zephyr
Cutest Codex Dog: Riley
Most Likely to Survive the Hunger Games: @talbs
Nerdiest Nerd: @KyloRen
Biggest Weeb: @Elindoril


 

FUTURE

Next Mod: @Swar

Next Ban: @Dan lmao

 

OVERALL

Mr. Codex: @Adam

Miss Codex: @Coops

Grumpy Old Person: @Drakonid

Wooden Spoon: @Futurama

The Golden Carrot: @Fikri

 

Well shit I wasn't actually expecting to make it. just to keep my posts wacky: oviposition.


In Topic: Relationship Problems. Advice?

18 May 2018 - 02:24 PM

I agree with what @Amethyst said. It sounds like you really need to communicate your needs/boundaries. Keil's thought about taking a break is a good idea too. Sometimes we need to be on our own. It's important our partner's understand and respect that. I'm sorry you're feeling so overwhelmed right now though. :/

 

I feel like a mix of our ideas are important.

 

Communicate your needs, let him know there's nothing wrong with him. You're just a person who needs space sometimes. Let him know this doesn't mean you're ending your relationship. (Or using it to sleep with other people.) You just need some alone time to do you things. That's pretty much how me and my boyfriend talked about it. Sometimes you just need a day to do what you want, by yourself. 

 

And with Keil's suggestion. Take a week to yourself if you need. Just clearly communicate what you're doing so he doesn't freak out. 


In Topic: Relationship Problems. Advice?

17 May 2018 - 09:50 AM

 

I'm going through a phase where I can't stand the sight of my boyfriend. Everything about him makes me cringe. Have you guys ever felt this way? How could I change that? He is really nice to me and lovely, but he is so clingy and needy I can't stand anymore. 
 
 
 
I'm about to to throw my phone at the wall and tell him I was robbed so I can stop talking to him for some time.

 

 

Sounds like you just need to communicate with him that you need space. If you lie to him about being robbed that's really unhealthy. 


 

I'm going through a phase where I can't stand the sight of my boyfriend. Everything about him makes me cringe. Have you guys ever felt this way? How could I change that? He is really nice to me and lovely, but he is so clingy and needy I can't stand anymore. 
 
 
 
I'm about to to throw my phone at the wall and tell him I was robbed so I can stop talking to him for some time.

 

 

Sounds like you just need to communicate with him that you need space. If you lie to him about being robbed that's really unhealthy.