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#2026098 Sleeping with a married person

Posted by cara on 12 July 2018 - 11:10 AM

I don’t feel like going through the effort of quoting twice on my phone so this is in response to both Joe and Swar I suppose.

I’m not sure if it actually is selfishness. I personally find it to be psycopathic. I’m sorry, I don’t mean to offend anyone here who is all for sleeping with married people, but I find it repulsive and I wish people like you did not exist. I’m sorry again, I know I’m being an asshole.

But .. what about that wife? What if she’s wonderful. What if she likes to garden, and knit, and loves her husband dearly. What if she has a cat named Fluffly and loves to read when it’s raining and bake cakes with icing of every colour on top.

What if she’s also a rape victim? If she’s depressed? What if she’s been heavily abused? What if she writes poetry that’s beautiful or sings love songs or paints the sky?

Like .. what the fuck. That’s a person. That wife that you don’t know, that’s still a person. Just because you don’t know her, and try not to think about, in order to dehumanize her. She’s still a person. She might be a lovely person. And you don’t care because .. you don’t know her? So you fuck her husband without an ounce of guilt?

#2026082 Sleeping with a married person

Posted by cara on 12 July 2018 - 10:35 AM

My personal morals said it wasn’t my responsibility. I didn’t cheat on anyone. Everyone is different though.

I think that’s where it gets me though. People who don’t give a shit about the person that they don’t know. It makes me sad to think how often people do bad things because they don’t care about anyone they haven’t met.

Honestly I think most of the world’s evils happen because of that.

#2026046 Sleeping with a married person

Posted by cara on 11 July 2018 - 07:22 PM

There are just .. so many people to pick from in this world. So I don’t understand when people pick someone who is already in a committed relationship. I will literally never understand it.

I have one friend who slept with a married person (did not know he was married at time, he deceived her), but opted not to tell the wife when she found out. The disappointment that I feel in her as a human being is to the point where I cannot think about it or else I couldn’t be her friend anymore. She’s more of a distant friend now, but I was totally appalled at the time. Like I get her not knowing, that’s not her fault. But her not wanting to tell the wife because it’s not her business is messed up.

#2025901 Phobias

Posted by cara on 07 July 2018 - 11:29 PM

Cockroaches are pretty gross.

I hate heights. The only time I can imagine coming close to a panic attack from it was when I was in a greyhound and the bus was at this weird curve on this multilevel highway and it looked like we were leaning over the edge and I looked out my window and I all I saw was the highway below and the fall to my death. I swear that bus was leaning right over the edge. I break out into a sweat just thinking about it. I hate heights and I don’t understand how people are okay with flying, or driving along a mountainside, or whatever else.

I also have an irrational fear of things falling on my head. Like you know when there’s a construction site and you have to walk through the designated tunnel on the sidewalk? That freaks me out and I will cross the street every single time.

#2025860 Morbid Shit You Do

Posted by cara on 06 July 2018 - 07:40 PM

I have a sheet of paper under my mattress that says ‘if I die, I was murdered by Robert Saunders’.

He is a boy who pushed me in the mud when I was nine in front of everyone. I will have my revenge one day.

#2024894 [WINNERS] Spring Codies 2k18

Posted by cara on 11 June 2018 - 08:36 PM

I’m sure those puppies had it coming.

(And this is how codex’s stalest baguette converses with the runner up baguette)

#2024517 [VOTING] Spring Codies 2k18

Posted by cara on 05 June 2018 - 08:22 PM

Cara I see you flirting in overtime to dethrone The Thotman

I can’t have you overthrowing my throne. I have a reputation to live up to apparently.

Ahhhhhhh thank you!!! :hug: I can rest easy now and won't dream of flipping turtles tonight :p

Flipping turtles? Lidida do you have a dark side that I don’t know about???

The only perk of being a retired member is that I can edit my posts without anyone knowing. However I am going to leave my response because it’s the stupidest thing I’ve done in a while. I literally thought you had dreams of flipping turtles onto their backs and laughing evilly. Lmao. :(

#2023924 Reddit

Posted by cara on 29 May 2018 - 09:07 PM


#2023765 Spring Codies 2k18 Nominations

Posted by cara on 25 May 2018 - 10:13 AM

:hug: Thank you for the nomination, @cara:wub: *wonders how all the @s disappeared from @cara's nom post*


also, please stop slut shaming yourself =(


:heart:  :heart:  :heart:  :heart:


Yeah, I do it a bit differently when I'm on my phone cause it never works with using the @. And okay no more self slut shaming. :(

#2023703 Spring Codies 2k18 Nominations

Posted by cara on 24 May 2018 - 03:25 PM

Noms from codex's super slut:



Friendliest Poster: ortin or idk you're friendly to me and that's not an easy thing to be so well earned nom imo
Least Friendly Poster: 
Most Interesting Overall Poster: 


Best Newbie: 

Most Helpful Member:

Best Staff Member: Kate and Emily

Thread of the Year:
Best Display Picture: 
Best Signature: Kaddict
Best User Comeback: Stephen (i take your post as a comeback)
Most Missed:  Frizzle and Sweeney and Dazz

Best Codex Couple: Sweeney and Nymh


Best Programmer:
Most Likely to Be a Bot: 

Funniest Member:
Most Intelligent: 
Most Talented: Swar i'll never forget the blackjack and hooker bars you made for me kind sir

Most Adorable: Kate i'd bang
Hottest Member: Jess i'd also bang
Biggest Flirt: Scot bb
Stalest Baguette: 
Definitely a Lizard Person: Strategist
Cutest Codex Cat:
Cutest Codex Dog: Adam
Most Likely to Survive the Hunger Games:
Sweetest Member: 
Nerdiest Nerd: 
Biggest Weeb: Elindoril



Next Mod:

Next Ban: Dan a girl can dream



Mr. Codex: Adam

Miss Codex:

Grumpy Old Person: Drakonid

Wooden Spoon:

The Golden Carrot: talbs  <3


More to come maybe

#2023694 Spring Codies 2k18 Nominations

Posted by cara on 24 May 2018 - 02:17 PM

Very serious votes incoming.


Friendliest Poster: @cara
Least Friendly Poster: @cara
Most Interesting Overall Poster: @cara

Best Newbie:
Most Helpful Member: @cara

Best Staff Member: @Noitidart (rip)

Thread of the Year: this one
Best Display Picture:
Best Signature: @cara
Best User Comeback: @cara
Most Missed: @cara

Best Codex Couple: @cara and @cara


Best Programmer: @cara
Most Likely to Be a Bot: @cara
Funniest Member: @cara
Most Intelligent: @cara
Most Talented: @cara

Most Adorable: @cara
Hottest Member: @cara
Biggest Flirt: absolutely not @cara
Stalest Baguette: @cara
Definitely a Lizard Person: @cara
Cutest Codex Cat: @cara
Cutest Codex Dog: @cara
Most Likely to Survive the Hunger Games: @cara
Sweetest Member: @cara
Nerdiest Nerd: @cara
Biggest Weeb: @cara


Next Mod: @cara

Next Ban: @cara


Mr. Codex: @cara

Miss Codex: @cara

Grumpy Old Person: @cara

Wooden Spoon: @cara

The Golden Carrot: @cara

HAHAHHAAHHAHA ‘biggest flirt absolutely not’

I’ve missed you, where have you been

#2023441 Spring Codies 2k18 Nominations

Posted by cara on 18 May 2018 - 12:43 PM

And I wear my unfriendly flirty slut badge proudly.

#2022512 Meme contest #1 Results!

Posted by cara on 25 April 2018 - 10:27 AM

Have you tried home depot?

No but I should. I heard their variety of discount hoes is out of this world.

#2020521 Trying to quit smoking

Posted by cara on 29 March 2018 - 09:27 AM





Quit for five months, got new high stress corporate job where everyone smokes, started again. About two months ago.


But I'm getting back on the quitting wagon. I'm down to only a couple a day, and none on weekends. Just gotta stop with the social smokes during work time.

#2020343 Our Newest Retired Member!

Posted by cara on 26 March 2018 - 12:30 PM

Congrats you oldie!!!!