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Posted by cara on 12 July 2018 - 11:10 AM
I’m not sure if it actually is selfishness. I personally find it to be psycopathic. I’m sorry, I don’t mean to offend anyone here who is all for sleeping with married people, but I find it repulsive and I wish people like you did not exist. I’m sorry again, I know I’m being an asshole.
But .. what about that wife? What if she’s wonderful. What if she likes to garden, and knit, and loves her husband dearly. What if she has a cat named Fluffly and loves to read when it’s raining and bake cakes with icing of every colour on top.
What if she’s also a rape victim? If she’s depressed? What if she’s been heavily abused? What if she writes poetry that’s beautiful or sings love songs or paints the sky?
Like .. what the fuck. That’s a person. That wife that you don’t know, that’s still a person. Just because you don’t know her, and try not to think about, in order to dehumanize her. She’s still a person. She might be a lovely person. And you don’t care because .. you don’t know her? So you fuck her husband without an ounce of guilt?
Posted by cara on 12 July 2018 - 10:35 AM
My personal morals said it wasn’t my responsibility. I didn’t cheat on anyone. Everyone is different though.
I think that’s where it gets me though. People who don’t give a shit about the person that they don’t know. It makes me sad to think how often people do bad things because they don’t care about anyone they haven’t met.
Honestly I think most of the world’s evils happen because of that.
Posted by cara on 11 July 2018 - 07:22 PM
I have one friend who slept with a married person (did not know he was married at time, he deceived her), but opted not to tell the wife when she found out. The disappointment that I feel in her as a human being is to the point where I cannot think about it or else I couldn’t be her friend anymore. She’s more of a distant friend now, but I was totally appalled at the time. Like I get her not knowing, that’s not her fault. But her not wanting to tell the wife because it’s not her business is messed up.
Posted by cara on 07 July 2018 - 11:29 PM
I hate heights. The only time I can imagine coming close to a panic attack from it was when I was in a greyhound and the bus was at this weird curve on this multilevel highway and it looked like we were leaning over the edge and I looked out my window and I all I saw was the highway below and the fall to my death. I swear that bus was leaning right over the edge. I break out into a sweat just thinking about it. I hate heights and I don’t understand how people are okay with flying, or driving along a mountainside, or whatever else.
I also have an irrational fear of things falling on my head. Like you know when there’s a construction site and you have to walk through the designated tunnel on the sidewalk? That freaks me out and I will cross the street every single time.
Posted by cara on 06 July 2018 - 07:40 PM
He is a boy who pushed me in the mud when I was nine in front of everyone. I will have my revenge one day.
Posted by cara on 11 June 2018 - 08:36 PM
(And this is how codex’s stalest baguette converses with the runner up baguette)
Posted by cara on 05 June 2018 - 08:22 PM
Cara I see you flirting in overtime to dethrone The Thotman
I can’t have you overthrowing my throne. I have a reputation to live up to apparently.
Ahhhhhhh thank you!!! I can rest easy now and won't dream of flipping turtles tonight
Flipping turtles? Lidida do you have a dark side that I don’t know about???
The only perk of being a retired member is that I can edit my posts without anyone knowing. However I am going to leave my response because it’s the stupidest thing I’ve done in a while. I literally thought you had dreams of flipping turtles onto their backs and laughing evilly. Lmao.
Posted by cara on 25 May 2018 - 10:13 AM
Posted by cara on 24 May 2018 - 03:25 PM
Noms from codex's super slut:
Friendliest Poster: ortin or idk you're friendly to me and that's not an easy thing to be so well earned nom imo
Least Friendly Poster:
Most Interesting Overall Poster:
Most Helpful Member:
PERSONALITY / OTHER
Most Adorable: Kate i'd bang
Hottest Member: Jess i'd also bang
Biggest Flirt: Scot bb
Definitely a Lizard Person: Strategist
Cutest Codex Cat:
Cutest Codex Dog: Adam
Most Likely to Survive the Hunger Games:
Sweetest Member: Ladida
Biggest Weeb: Elindoril
Next Ban: Dan a girl can dream
Mr. Codex: Adam
Grumpy Old Person: Drakonid
The Golden Carrot: talbs <3
More to come maybe
Posted by cara on 24 May 2018 - 02:17 PM
Very serious votes incoming.
Friendliest Poster: @cara
Least Friendly Poster: @cara
Most Interesting Overall Poster: @cara
Best Newbie: @cara
Most Helpful Member: @cara
Best Staff Member: @Noitidart (rip)
Thread of the Year: this one
Best Display Picture: @cara
Best Signature: @cara
Best User Comeback: @cara
Most Missed: @cara
Best Codex Couple: @cara and @cara
PERSONALITY / OTHER
Best Programmer: @cara
Most Likely to Be a Bot: @cara
Funniest Member: @cara
Most Intelligent: @cara
Most Talented: @cara
Most Adorable: @cara
Hottest Member: @cara
Biggest Flirt: absolutely not @cara
Stalest Baguette: @cara
Definitely a Lizard Person: @cara
Cutest Codex Cat: @cara
Cutest Codex Dog: @cara
Most Likely to Survive the Hunger Games: @cara
Sweetest Member: @cara
Nerdiest Nerd: @cara
Biggest Weeb: @cara
Next Mod: @cara
Next Ban: @cara
Mr. Codex: @cara
Miss Codex: @cara
Grumpy Old Person: @cara
Wooden Spoon: @cara
The Golden Carrot: @cara
HAHAHHAAHHAHA ‘biggest flirt absolutely not’
I’ve missed you, where have you been
Posted by cara on 18 May 2018 - 12:43 PM
Posted by cara on 25 April 2018 - 10:27 AM
Have you tried home depot?
No but I should. I heard their variety of discount hoes is out of this world.
Posted by cara on 29 March 2018 - 09:27 AM
Quit for five months, got new high stress corporate job where everyone smokes, started again. About two months ago.
But I'm getting back on the quitting wagon. I'm down to only a couple a day, and none on weekends. Just gotta stop with the social smokes during work time.