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[Lizzardo]

I really, really hate whenever girls go around, complaining like little bitches because their guy doesn't 'take care of them'. Like dude, you're a human, take care of yourself. Seriously. Why does a girl need a guy to wipe her ass for her? I mean, yeah sure, a guy should treat you right and do things to be 'chivalrous' and kind, but I don't get why a girl needs a guy to buy her stuff all the time and pay for them every time they go out. And then there are girls who go around all like "OMG. This guy like, held the door for me. GOD. I CAN TAKE CARE OF MYSELF" Dude. A guy was being nice. Fuck you. I just hate this so much. xD

[iargue]

I really, really hate whenever girls go around, complaining like little bitches because their guy doesn't 'take care of them'. Like dude, you're a human, take care of yourself. Seriously. Why does a girl need a guy to wipe her ass for her? I mean, yeah sure, a guy should treat you right and do things to be 'chivalrous' and kind, but I don't get why a girl needs a guy to buy her stuff all the time and pay for them every time they go out. And then there are girls who go around all like "OMG. This guy like, held the door for me. GOD. I CAN TAKE CARE OF MYSELF" Dude. A guy was being nice. Fuck you. I just hate this so much. xD

The majority of guys only pick girls that don't do things for them, that's why most guys don't do anything.

[Jake]

The majority of guys only pick girls that don't do things for them, that's why most guys don't do anything.

Simply because the majority of girls don't do things for us. What happened to the good ol' days?

[Snowneo]

I really, really hate whenever girls go around, complaining like little bitches because their guy doesn't 'take care of them'. Like dude, you're a human, take care of yourself. Seriously. Why does a girl need a guy to wipe her ass for her? I mean, yeah sure, a guy should treat you right and do things to be 'chivalrous' and kind, but I don't get why a girl needs a guy to buy her stuff all the time and pay for them every time they go out. And then there are girls who go around all like "OMG. This guy like, held the door for me. GOD. I CAN TAKE CARE OF MYSELF" Dude. A guy was being nice. Fuck you. I just hate this so much. xD

I couldn't agree with you more! Yes, I love to take care of a girl whom I am in a relationship with, however it goes to a certain point, I don't want her to become dependent on me, I want her to have freedom and independence and I like to know that when I am not their she can handle herself.

[luvsmyncis]

Girls are erratic and confusing. This is breaking news.

There is always a balance than can be found between a female's bipolar behavior and a male's complete cluelessness. The dude doesn't always have to pay, but if he was the one who invited the girl out, then he should be more than prepared to pay for everything, as it is his treat. I feel certain it will be repaid in the end when she has sex with you, even though she would prefer not to. See? Both sides making sacrifices.

[Frizzle]

I hate it when the bitch is all like "fidday dollah? You cheap ass skank!"

[iargue]

Girls are erratic and confusing. This is breaking news.

There is always a balance than can be found between a female's bipolar behavior and a male's complete cluelessness. The dude doesn't always have to pay, but if he was the one who invited the girl out, then he should be more than prepared to pay for everything, as it is his treat. I feel certain it will be repaid in the end when she has sex with you, even though she would prefer not to. See? Both sides making sacrifices.

So if she doesn't have sex, does that mean she owes you for dinner?

[jaredennisclark]

I couldn't agree with you more! Yes, I love to take care of a girl whom I am in a relationship with, however it goes to a certain point, I don't want her to become dependent on me, I want her to have freedom and independence and I like to know that when I am not their she can handle herself.

I agree with you. Everyone has different standards and expectations when it comes to relationships, and I'm not too keen on critiquing those standards.
Mutual doting and romance is always nice (and doesn't have to require emptying your wallet), though I believe that it should never get to a point where one becomes overly-dependent on the other. I have always had an aversion to being told things like "I don't know what I would do without you", because, well, the feeling has never been mutual. I strive to fashion my life so as to be able to rely on only myself should the need ever arise. (I should mention that I see it as an on-going process.)

Edited by jaredennisclark, 19 September 2011 - 03:31 PM.

[Donaldmax]

Guys just want to get inside of her.

[jaredennisclark]

Guys just want to get inside of her.

I don't think it's very often that the woman doesn't know that. It isn't ever made explicit or spoken about, but she knows. It would take some real skill and manipulation on the part of the man to keep her in the dark on that point.

[aneoguy]

My girlfriend does me good

so cant really rant about girls at the moment . teheh

[jaredennisclark]

My girlfriend does me good

so cant really rant about girls at the moment . teheh

Ah, what a simple creature you seem to be. I can't say I don't envy it.

[Kyouma]

Single..
D:

Some people wish they had a girlfriend to complain about.

Edited by Kyouma, 19 September 2011 - 03:54 PM.

[chini]

Sounds like a relationship issue more than a gender specific issue.

"OMG MY GUY DOESNT TAKE CARE OF ME" Well, maybe you and your partner need to sit down and talk about it and fix it. Otherwise it's going to get worse. If you can't work anything out then it's time to break up.

[Hydrange]

I really, really hate whenever girls go around, complaining like little bitches because their guy doesn't 'take care of them'. Like dude, you're a human, take care of yourself. Seriously. Why does a girl need a guy to wipe her ass for her? I mean, yeah sure, a guy should treat you right and do things to be 'chivalrous' and kind, but I don't get why a girl needs a guy to buy her stuff all the time and pay for them every time they go out. And then there are girls who go around all like "OMG. This guy like, held the door for me. GOD. I CAN TAKE CARE OF MYSELF" Dude. A guy was being nice. Fuck you. I just hate this so much. xD

It depends wat kind of girls are you dating, just don't date spoiled brats.

[Applepi]

I like being taken care of !
It's really sweet and affectionate... It's not like I can't do it on my own but it's always nice having someone go out of their way to please me
Also, sex is fun... but It's never really obligated or expected, it just happens when you feel like it. (For me, anyways)
Nothing wrong with being treated like a princess, I think (or at least I like to think) that I eventually repay in one way or another, whether it's cooking or a massage *shrug*

I agree with this! My boyfriend and I have a wonderful relationship and its very evenly balanced. He takes care of me and I take care of him, nothing is ever expected or assumed, we just do things for each other just to be nice. It's a great feeling knowing that he doesn't see our relationship as a job or something. I definitely have had guy friends feel like they "had" to do certain things for their girlfriends and always felt like that was wrong. Some things, like opening doors or something, are nice to do from time to time, but I know I would never wait at a door for someone else to open it...girls should just be grateful for what they have and learn to appreciate the nice things that boys do and not complain about something they feel was missing.

[Sammiantha]

When I first got together with my boyfriend, now fiancé, I was probably the opposite and not dependent on him at all. Then I got used to having him there for support and lean on him rather than bottling everything up. It's definitely a balancing act but I think you can tell from the word go if a girl is dependent in a bad way - i.e. for cash or presents. It's not that kind of support you should want to receive or give IMO!

[ionlypostyoutubecomments]

I agree and I'm a girl. Most of the stuff u say is true especially at my school. Some girls really need to shut their trap

[Georgina]

I think it all depends on maturity levels, allot of younger women tend to think because they put out or think themselves to be pretty special men should kiss their ass, and to a certain extent there should be a little ass kissing, but it should be mutual. As I've grown older I see less of my peer group acting like this as they soon find out it doesn't get them what they want, and usually end up loosing the guy they were after in the first place. I'm sure you will see the same thing happen.

To be perfectly honest its worse with guys where I live, expecting the girls to do everything, but I imagine thats due to men never actually growing up

[Kyouma]

To be perfectly honest its worse with guys where I live, expecting the girls to do everything, but I imagine thats due to men never actually growing up

Especially true for those who still play children's games.
I should get off this site and mature a little.

[Jake]

Sounds like a relationship issue more than a gender specific issue.

"OMG MY GUY DOESNT TAKE CARE OF ME" Well, maybe you and your partner need to sit down and talk about it and fix it. Otherwise it's going to get worse. If you can't work anything out then it's time to break up.

Well it's nice to know that you fully understand the OP.

[jargon]

The insecure and fully dependent ones are the easiest to bed.

Though really, everyone should know that most people don't really mean what they say. When a girl complains that her boyfriend isn't taking care of her, chances are she's only telling you because she wants to talk about her boyfriend and how she has one, or she's actually just butt-hurt because her boyfriend isn't constantly spoiling her and she's already thinking of cheating on him so she's waiting for you to agree that she can do so much better so she gets the green flag to go flirt up a storm with another guy.

If a girl is complaining that a guy was being overly nice to her, chances are she's just bragging that some guy took notice of her but wants to pretend like her ego wasn't stroked by it so that you can be jealous of her (unless the girl is a super elite feminist which I probably doubt).

What's not to get? Seems pretty straight forward to me.

[jargon]

The insecure and fully dependent ones are the easiest to bed.

Though really, everyone should know that most people don't really mean what they say. When a girl complains that her boyfriend isn't taking care of her, chances are she's only telling you because she wants to talk about her boyfriend and how she has one, or she's actually just butt-hurt because her boyfriend isn't constantly spoiling her and she's already thinking of cheating on him so she's waiting for you to agree that she can do so much better so she gets the green flag to go flirt up a storm with another guy.

If a girl is complaining that a guy was being overly nice to her, chances are she's just bragging that some guy took notice of her but wants to pretend like her ego wasn't stroked by it so that you can be jealous of her (unless the girl is a super elite feminist which I probably doubt).

What's not to get? Seems pretty straight forward to me.

[Shampoo]

The insecure and fully dependent ones are the easiest to bed.

but the hardest to get rid of after