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[Swar]

Oh wow good to know I'm not the only one
No I don't post them, maybe I should but it's so stupid to post things with grammar mistakes etc. 
I also often google parts of my sentences if I'm not sure they're correct, and sometimes I reread my post like 5 times before I post it
(I just googled 'reread')
 

If you ever come off 'stupid' I won't blame you, I say stupid things all the time

It's not stupid to post things with grammar mistakes, especially when it's not your main language and in my case, it's not really grammar, but I use a lot more words to explain something I don't know the exact translation hahaha

[Rocket]

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My ex who I was going to give up everything for and move to another country for.. told me just now that "I'm the one who got away." And that he would give me what I want if we were currently more than just friends (marriage and kids - which he was adamant he never wanted).

And he knows I'm involved with someone else.

I'm so confused.

[Cass]

Oh wow good to know I'm not the only one

No I don't post them, maybe I should but it's so stupid to post things with grammar mistakes etc. 

I also often google parts of my sentences if I'm not sure they're correct, and sometimes I reread my post like 5 times before I post it

(I just googled 'reread')

 

If you ever come off 'stupid' I won't blame you, I say stupid things all the time

Lol I know the feel as well, but I take no shame in writing a post full of errors. My Dutch is never perfect either. I mean, I could, I'm actually pretty good at both, but (especially on phones) I'm just too lazy sometimes for stuff like interpunction or spelling errors.

 

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My ex who I was going to give up everything for and move to another country for.. told me just now that "I'm the one who got away." And that he would give me what I want if we were currently more than just friends (marriage and kids - which he was adamant he never wanted).

And he knows I'm involved with someone else.

I'm so confused.

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Honestly, it's kind of a dick move I'm sure he doesn't intend to be a dick, but I've been in a one-that-got-away situation like that and it's completely wrecking. There was a guy with a girlfriend who I was in love with and everytime he told me that he was in love with me but wouldn't leave his girlfriend for me. After two years I was so fed up with his shit and broke all contact. Then we met again after over a year, when he was single, hooked up and decided we wouldn't work. We go our seperate lives, get a new relationship, and he comes back AGAIN saying he regrets letting me go and shit like that. Honestly, the guy came crawling back for about three times or something.

 

(tl:dr;) What I'm trying to say with this way too long anecdote, is that with an undecisive/unpredictable guy like that, you either have to go for it 200% or not at all, cause they'll only bounce back and forth. And, if you're happy with the current person you're involved with, I'd think it might be good to go 0% with your ex

 

(but that's just my unsollicited advice )

[iKate]

It's not stupid to post things with grammar mistakes, especially when it's not your main language and in my case, it's not really grammar, but I use a lot more words to explain something I don't know the exact translation hahaha

Oh okay but I still feel a bit stupid then  and yeah words too but that's easier, you'll have the answer in 1 sec by using a translator with grammar you can't always know for sure.

Edited by iKate, 22 July 2015 - 10:03 AM.

[Rocket]

Lol I know the feel as well, but I take no shame in writing a post full of errors. My Dutch is never perfect either. I mean, I could, I'm actually pretty good at both, but (especially on phones) I'm just too lazy sometimes for stuff like interpunction or spelling errors.

 

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Honestly, it's kind of a dick move I'm sure he doesn't intend to be a dick, but I've been in a one-that-got-away situation like that and it's completely wrecking. There was a guy with a girlfriend who I was in love with and everytime he told me that he was in love with me but wouldn't leave his girlfriend for me. After two years I was so fed up with his shit and broke all contact. Then we met again after over a year, when he was single, hooked up and decided we wouldn't work. We go our seperate lives, get a new relationship, and he comes back AGAIN saying he regrets letting me go and shit like that. Honestly, the guy came crawling back for about three times or something.

 

(tl:dr;) What I'm trying to say with this way too long anecdote, is that with an undecisive/unpredictable guy like that, you either have to go for it 200% or not at all, cause they'll only bounce back and forth. And, if you're happy with the current person you're involved with, I'd think it might be good to go 0% with your ex

 

(but that's just my unsollicited advice )

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Thanks, we were involved for nearly 5 years (kinda on/off not serious 100% of the time, but he was my best friend.) and I think in the past year he's really grown up and evolved into a man and not a child.

I'm skeptical and we're still hardly friends now, the occasional text and random snapchat. Not talking 24/7 like we used to.

It's kinda tearing at my heartstrings. The fact that he says he's now ready to settle down and is really entertaining the possibility of kids, which was the biggest thing that tore us apart in the past.

 

ugh idk what to do. I don't love him anymore I don't have romantic feelings, I've got the great wall in the north up between us. But he still has pieces of me if that makes sense.

 

I'm still going to see this guy I'm seeing and see where that goes (assuming he quits being a lazy ass).

 

Life y u do this.

[Swar]

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Thanks, we were involved for nearly 5 years (kinda on/off not serious 100% of the time, but he was my best friend.) and I think in the past year he's really grown up and evolved into a man and not a child.
I'm skeptical and we're still hardly friends now, the occasional text and random snapchat. Not talking 24/7 like we used to.
It's kinda tearing at my heartstrings. The fact that he says he's now ready to settle down and is really entertaining the possibility of kids, which was the biggest thing that tore us apart in the past.

ugh idk what to do. I don't love him anymore I don't have romantic feelings, I've got the great wall in the north up between us. But he still has pieces of me if that makes sense.

I'm still going to see this guy I'm seeing and see where that goes (assuming he quits being a lazy ass).

Life y u do this.

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[NapisaurusRex]

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My ex who I was going to give up everything for and move to another country for.. told me just now that "I'm the one who got away." And that he would give me what I want if we were currently more than just friends (marriage and kids - which he was adamant he never wanted).

And he knows I'm involved with someone else.

I'm so confused.

dont do it he's a dick

[sprockets]

When I order something from Amazon, I refresh the "track package" screen every minute or two until my package arrives. Knowing my luck I'll spend all morning refreshing, and my order won't come until after I leave for work...

 

 

And... that's 500 posts

[Cass]

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Couple of years ago, a (hot) colleague came to hit on me during Halloween work, wearing a particular zombie mask, and it got pretty hot. Now, whenever I see that mask, even if it's worn by others, I get strangely aroused. It's so weird to be turned on by a man's decaying face, you have no idea.

[Rauul]

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my boyfriend is at nashville now and i think he is cheating i miss him

[Guppie]

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my boyfriend is at nashville now and i think he is cheating i miss him

That majorly sucks. I think you should deal with this rather than avoiding it, but I obviously don't know your circumstances.

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My girlfriend is sick, and really hate taking care of her in this state

[Katya]

Loves me the bi-yearly waxing time.

[Rocket]

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I've had many codex sex dreams, all with guys

But last night I had my first girl on girl sex dream and I'm not afraid to admit it was with @Jess and it was hot af.

 

 

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7 days until my life changes

[NapisaurusRex]

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I'm strangely aroused now

[HiMyNameIsNick]

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For no reason, today I hate everyone

[Gnome]

I'm a shitty person with good intentions.

[Swar]

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I can't wait to go back to normal life, and that includes studying. I've been feeling weird this past week, and even Codex isn't making me feel good. 5 days left.

[NapisaurusRex]

I don't give a fuck

[Padme]

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I can't wait to go back to normal life, and that includes studying. I've been feeling weird this past week, and even Codex isn't making me feel good. 5 days left.

 

I feel this same way friend. 

 

I have no idea what is going on in my life. I want it to just be dealt with and it's taking everything in me to try and be patient until other people are also ready to deal with issues.

Edited by Padme, 26 July 2015 - 09:12 PM.

[Adam]

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I still feel like shit. Every miserable day that I wake up, I remember that I have over 1000 days left in a job, and living a life that I cannot fucking stand, and there's no way to get out of it unless I like...shoot myself. This is my reality, every day. I don't want to deal with it anymore. I can't wait to just be a normal person again.

[Katya]

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I hate to know he will always be in frontlines for whatever happens in this country -and overseas. I hate to feel this. I should know how to control it, because I know what is to be like him. I hate to be constantly thinking to tell him to make a life change, because I was weak to take that route myself and regret it most days because I fucking miss it like hell.

[Rocket]

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Trying to get him to do something with his life, without sounding like his mother, is about as hard as lighting a fire under water. And it's causing internal conflict within myself and making me doubt whether this was a good choice.

 

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3 days.

[Emily]

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Scared/Nervous/Excited/Stressed/Relieved/Happy/Sad.

[iKate]

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That moment when you realize you have been singing the lyrics of a song wrong for almost a year

Edited by iKate, 29 July 2015 - 02:54 AM.

[Swar]

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Tomorrow I have a barbecue with my high school "friends" that I don't really want to go. And I also have to wake up at 4:30 AM to get ready to go to the airport at 5:30 AM to get there at 6 AM and then get the plane at 7. Stop at a city, get another plane, stop at the final destination. Then get the car and go back home, taking about 2~3 hours. I'll get there by the time I have to leave for the bbq. I don't think I'm gonna enjoy.