75 replies to this topic

[Justin]

I need to ask this, its been on my mind quite a bit.. Is it true that most girls like confident guys? Is it a huge turn off if a guy isnt confident?

kkthx >_>

[Mr. Hobo]

Keep in mind there's a difference between beening confident and having an ego bigger than Paris Hiltons. As long as you're sure of yourself and not full of yourself you'll do fine

[Justin]

Yeah I know what you mean. Btw shouldnt you be in bed? Its like 4 am isnt it? >_>

[pyke]

Keep in mind there's a difference between beening confident and having an ego bigger than Paris Hiltons. As long as you're sure of yourself and not full of yourself you'll do fine

Go to bed you!

Supposedly women prefer men with confidence. Maybe some will pop on and sort this out for ya xD

[Mr. Hobo]

Shh . My dad was being a prick and sent me to my room at 8 and I fell asleep until 12ish

[Justin]

Haha its alright. Its 4 am here too. Cant sleep though, cant stop thinking about this one girl *rolls eyes* *smacks self*

Why am I only getting replies from guys haha.

[Alex]

If you're confident its easier to land the girl.
Im up too Doing gfx...I lost my touch

[Mr. Hobo]

Relationship or one time thing?

Girls probally have enough sense to get some sleep, school starts soon

[Rush]

Yeah, it helps its quite similar to being secure with yourself.
Let say, sometimes I like crossing my legs like that of a female's but that doesn't make me gay, right?
If someone asks me why, I say its comfortable..
You don't act like, ZOMG this pose will make me gay *sweats*

When you speak to a girl, you don't really stutter unless there was something really wrong with your speech..

^not sure it helped but meh

[Icey Defeat]

Stay away from girls. They ruin your lives. They are the greatest thing ever for about 2-3 months, then they start being controlling. I'd rather have a girl as my best friend then my girlfriend becaue girlfriend requires 24/7 commitment, and best friend doesnt.

Although, be confident, but do it in a shy way so ur 'cute'

[sockopen]

It doesn't matter what 'girls' like, be yourself, and find someone who likes you, not who you're pretending to be; don't pretend to be confident if you're not.

[Justin]

It doesn't matter what 'girls' like, be yourself, and find someone who likes you, not who you're pretending to be; don't pretend to be confident if you're not.

Easier said than done. I can never tell if I'm being too confident.

[Eeyore]

I need to ask this, its been on my mind quite a bit.. Is it true that most girls like confident guys? Is it a huge turn off if a guy isnt confident?

kkthx >_>

In the right way, I like confidence in a man mostly because I have absolutely none, so I've never been able to pluck up the courage to tell someone I like them or ask them to go somewhere or anything like that.

[Justin]

Oh... That makes sense Michiegan.

Heh I feel so confuzzled <_>

[the_hitman]

its only 6:50pm here. Dont be too confident or dont have enough confidence.

Some girls like guys without confidence so they can be conttrolling or some girls like guys who stick up for what they believe in. soo ask the girl if she likes confidence?

[Jewbert]

I agree with sockopen. I think you should just be yourself. If someone doesn't like the way you are, fcuk 'em. Being a girl myself, I like a guy to just act like himself around everyone. That's how I am with Chris...I (omg this is going to sound sooo cheezy) fell in love with him for HIM and not the way he tried to be. And he is still like that now. So just... be yourself and don't worry about those who don't like you for the way you are. Hehe.

[Fatal]

Stay away from girls. They ruin your lives. They are the greatest thing ever for about 2-3 months, then they start being controlling. I'd rather have a girl as my best friend then my girlfriend becaue girlfriend requires 24/7 commitment, and best friend doesnt.

Although, be confident, but do it in a shy way so ur 'cute'

lol gf's annoy me because i alllways have to tell them how much i love .. its like "DAMN COME ON, I LOVE U NOW STFU",

my whole gf history (worst than most)


4 years ago - lasted 2 weeks
1 year ago - lasted 3 days
today - lasted 2 days.

.... very bad history IMO, as you can see, its going lower and lower

[Amagius]

Be confident. Be humorous, but be very confident. I don't see why he can't be himself and also push towards these traits -- being confident isn't always innate; most people become confident through experience with people. So again, be confident and humorous. Equal both out. Don't be a sissy though, that is one of the worst things you can do if you're trying to attract women.

[iargue]

hmm, im going to have to talk to you on msn now

basically, girls like the sweet kind of guy who will stick up for them, who will be confident when they say things like your hot, and things like i love you, but they dont like guys(well some do) who think there greater then everyone. I have found three things that all women like(with an exception of about 3%)

[Justin]

From my experience talking to girls, since I've been friend zone'd a lot. Most girls wanna be called pretty and beautiful >_>

But I guess I'm not confident enough if I keep getting friend zone'd.

[foogie]

*gives girly advice*

it is one of the MOST IMPORTANT FEATURES looked for in a guy.

if you carry yourself with confidence, the girl will think you're ot stuff. lol

HOWEVER, if you walk around doubting yourself, the girl will not think much of you.

if you don't think you'll make it, the attitude is transferred to the girl as "wow, this guy's a flake..."

I'm not sure how else to describe it; it's like if you tell yourself you're a loser, your brain will start to believe it; well, it's the same for those around you... if you are not confident in yourself, then those around you won't think much of you either.


have i helped?

[iargue]

*gives girly advice*

it is one of the MOST IMPORTANT FEATURES looked for in a guy.

if you carry yourself with confidence, the girl will think you're ot stuff. lol

HOWEVER, if you walk around doubting yourself, the girl will not think much of you.

if you don't think you'll make it, the attitude is transferred to the girl as "wow, this guy's a flake..."

I'm not sure how else to describe it; it's like if you tell yourself you're a loser, your brain will start to believe it; well, it's the same for those around you... if you are not confident in yourself, then those around you won't think much of you either.
have i helped?

can you give some more girly advice? i wanna write this down

[Justin]

*gives girly advice*

it is one of the MOST IMPORTANT FEATURES looked for in a guy.

if you carry yourself with confidence, the girl will think you're ot stuff. lol

HOWEVER, if you walk around doubting yourself, the girl will not think much of you.

if you don't think you'll make it, the attitude is transferred to the girl as "wow, this guy's a flake..."

I'm not sure how else to describe it; it's like if you tell yourself you're a loser, your brain will start to believe it; well, it's the same for those around you... if you are not confident in yourself, then those around you won't think much of you either.
have i helped?

Yes actually >_>

[foogie]

can you give some more girly advice? i wanna write this down

hahaha, of course, on what though? XD

Yes actually >_>

awesome!

glad to help.... and glad to know I can get something out of being a girl....

[Sean]

From my experience talking to girls, since I've been friend zone'd a lot. Most girls wanna be called pretty and beautiful >_>

But I guess I'm not confident enough if I keep getting friend zone'd.

Call her beautiful and she's yours. It's actually works really good. Seriously.