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What do you do when your best friend moves far away?


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#1 sasquatch

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Posted 13 July 2007 - 02:48 PM

My bestest friend in the whole world is moving miles away. He's not even gone yet and I already miss him so much crybaby.gif

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    #2 DudeOnline

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    Posted 13 July 2007 - 02:52 PM

    take it from someone who has moved alot in his childhood...it's hard, i know it is, but you will find new friends.

    I didn't have the invention of email, or internet, or nearly free long distance, so use that to your advantage too smile.gif


    get his email addy, number, myspace, ect...it wont be that hard if you keep in contact

    Edited by Dudeonline, 13 July 2007 - 02:54 PM.


    #3 Crayon

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    Posted 13 July 2007 - 03:04 PM

    Visit him every weekend. Happened to me, there was a girl who had a crush on me in grade 3, and I know her very well, I sometimes still think about her tongue.gif

    #4 Rikku

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    Posted 13 July 2007 - 03:04 PM

    keep in touch with him, call him and get his email and MSN so you can also talk online.

    #5 GamerAsh

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    Posted 13 July 2007 - 03:40 PM

    I don't know. I can't imagine my best friend moving away so far away. I spend almost 10 hours a day with her. I tell her everything.

    #6 Magma

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    Posted 13 July 2007 - 04:00 PM

    I had a best friend that moved away in elementary school... I stayed contacted to him and went to his house every once in a while to visit, but then he moved two other times and I lost contact with him. I haven't seen nor talked to him since, but I have made new friends and moved on... of coarse, it would be great if I could see him again.
    Just try and stay in contact with him as much as you can and be sure not to loose contact.. and if you have the resources and times, go see him when you can. I am sorry to say, but you two will probably slowly move away from each other as both of you meet new people and move on with your lives, but sometimes that is not the case.

    Edited by Magma, 13 July 2007 - 04:02 PM.


    #7 Will

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    Posted 13 July 2007 - 04:04 PM

    I know how you feel. One of my best friends is moving at the end of the summer. He's gonna be two hours away so I'll prolly still see him but it still sucks. You'll get over it eventually though.

    #8 Christopher Robin

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    Posted 13 July 2007 - 06:17 PM

    Well... Mine moved, but only for 9 months... gets back Aug 31 ;o So until then, I just hung out with other people ;P

    #9 Tim

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    Posted 13 July 2007 - 06:25 PM

    Cry for a while, then find some new people to chill with.

    #10 Hlaw

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    Posted 13 July 2007 - 06:40 PM

    yeah stuff like this u get used to, ive been to 8 different schools but i remember the first time i changed school, it was really really hard. but u get used to it, in the end, nothing much changes because you will find new friends smile.gif

    #11 Christopher Robin

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    Posted 13 July 2007 - 06:41 PM

    QUOTE(Tim @ Jul 13 2007, 10:55 PM) View Post
    Cry for a while, then find some new people to chill with.

    Good idea ;o


    Crying WILL make you feel a shit load better...

    #12 Fatal

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    Posted 13 July 2007 - 07:24 PM

    QUOTE(sasquatch @ Jul 13 2007, 03:48 PM) View Post
    My bestest friend in the whole world is moving miles away. He's not even gone yet and I already miss him so much crybaby.gif

    lol that happened to me, I actually moved a year later to where he was tongue.gif (travis) that wasnt the main reason, but whateva smile.gif

    email/phone/AIM = good communication

    #13 sasquatch

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    Posted 14 July 2007 - 04:07 PM

    Thanks guys this has made me feel a little better. We are a little more than just "friends" though and now he's moving in with this girl he met on myspace.

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    Posted 14 July 2007 - 04:17 PM

    Meh, not a big deal, not with the internet and all that. It'll take some adjusting, knowing that you won't be able to actually see them as much, but you'll still be able to stay in contact what with the internet and phones and all, so it won't be so hard. How far away is he moving? Totally new timezone? Next town over? Other side of a city or something? =S

    Edit: Wow, moving in with someone he met on MySpace? You don't hear that often, or, I don't. That's potentially threatening to your 'little more than just "friends"' situation, though if he's a decent guy it shouldn't be tongue.gif.

    Edited by Eeyore, 14 July 2007 - 04:20 PM.


    #15 travis

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    Posted 14 July 2007 - 04:54 PM

    QUOTE(Fatal @ Jul 13 2007, 08:24 PM) View Post
    lol that happened to me, I actually moved a year later to where he was tongue.gif (travis) that wasnt the main reason, but whateva smile.gif

    email/phone/AIM = good communication



    Yeah, and now you and Kai are like BEST FRIENDS and you guys barely talk to me ;o tongue.gif

    #16 Black Flame

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    Posted 14 July 2007 - 05:00 PM

    About 4 years ago, my best friend in the whole world moved to Texas. To put it quite bluntly, I was depressed. It got much better though. About 6 months after he left I came to a revelation: He was the BIGGEST jackass on earth. If I won at a game we would be playing, he would change the rules to make it so he won. If we were playing a video game or something and I was about to beat him, he would walk over and press the reset button. I also was basically his slave and lackey at everything. I still feel stupid that it took me 7 and a half years to realize how immature and how much of a jackass he was.

    I'm not saying in 6 months you'll realize your best friend is a jackass, I'm just saying that one way or another, it'll get better smile.gif

    #17 sasquatch

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    Posted 14 July 2007 - 05:28 PM

    QUOTE(Eeyore @ Jul 14 2007, 04:17 PM) View Post
    Meh, not a big deal, not with the internet and all that. It'll take some adjusting, knowing that you won't be able to actually see them as much, but you'll still be able to stay in contact what with the internet and phones and all, so it won't be so hard. How far away is he moving? Totally new timezone? Next town over? Other side of a city or something? =S

    Edit: Wow, moving in with someone he met on MySpace? You don't hear that often, or, I don't. That's potentially threatening to your 'little more than just "friends"' situation, though if he's a decent guy it shouldn't be tongue.gif .


    Well, I always knew about this myspace girl. He claimed they were just friends. This whole situation was completely unexpected and sudden (at least for me anyway) And he will be back I know it. I just want him all to myself. I don't like to share.

    #18 Hawk

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    Posted 14 July 2007 - 05:44 PM

    QUOTE(sasquatch @ Jul 14 2007, 07:28 PM) View Post
    Well, I always knew about this myspace girl. He claimed they were just friends. This whole situation was completely unexpected and sudden (at least for me anyway) And he will be back I know it. I just want him all to myself. I don't like to share.

    Are we talking a regular best friend here? Like one you hang out with a lot- The way you are talking, the whole "I want him all to myself. I don't like to share." makes me think this person is more than a best friend, or you are the jealous type tongue.gif

    #19 gfgrice

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    Posted 14 July 2007 - 05:48 PM

    Do his girlfriend

    #20 travis

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    Posted 14 July 2007 - 05:49 PM

    Yr a retard.

    #21 Rikku

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    Posted 14 July 2007 - 06:02 PM

    QUOTE(sasquatch @ Jul 14 2007, 09:28 PM) View Post
    Well, I always knew about this myspace girl. He claimed they were just friends. This whole situation was completely unexpected and sudden (at least for me anyway) And he will be back I know it. I just want him all to myself. I don't like to share.



    IF YOU WANT HIM ALL TO YOURSELF ASK HIM OUT! (Sry bout caps) but seriosly, if you're nto dating you shouldn't do that to a guy... let him live his life... i'm sure he misses you too but not enough to not go out with anyyone else.. if you werea couple then it would bea whole diffrent story.. but it sounds like you're not..

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    you know that we are trying to be serious here.. don't make stupid comments like that.. it's just rude k?

    Edited by Rikku, 14 July 2007 - 06:06 PM.


    #22 cara

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    Posted 14 July 2007 - 06:08 PM

    More then friends?
    .......Arent you married?

    And before people come in here bitching at me for implying shes a slut and saying who am i to say that .. i found her post saying it! So unless she got divorced .. HA to all you people who were gonna say that im still senile!
    And not that you are a slut. im just saying .. >_>

    #23 Hawk

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    Posted 14 July 2007 - 06:13 PM

    QUOTE(cara @ Jul 14 2007, 08:08 PM) View Post
    More then friends?
    .......Arent you married?

    She is married? oops.gif

    QUOTE(cara @ Jul 14 2007, 08:08 PM) View Post
    HA to all you people who were gonna say that im still senile!

    You're still crazy tongue.gif

    #24 cara

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    Posted 14 July 2007 - 06:15 PM

    Go find her post saying her husband owns a car or something. its on the third page of her searching for users post.
    No i didnt have anything better to do. tongue.gif Not that i care or anything i just personally wondered .. what the fux.

    But honestly maybe him moving away would be better off for your marriage right?

    as crazy as you are! ohmy.gif

    Edited by cara, 14 July 2007 - 06:15 PM.


    #25 Hawk

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    Posted 14 July 2007 - 06:17 PM

    QUOTE(cara @ Jul 14 2007, 08:15 PM) View Post
    as crazy as you are! ohmy.gif

    Want to create a poll and see who is crazier? blink.gif


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