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[Princ3]

From personal experience of having depression, I highly recommend that you do not use this website because there are certain people that care more about their authority and their egos than peoples feelings. I have been a victi'm of this myself, and having depression, I was very hurt, and contemplated bodily harm. I know this board will probably be deleted due to the lack of sympathy on this forum, but for those of you that are able to read this, just take what I have said into consideration.

[Princ3]

Well, I think that is because I am new and there is a bit of prejudice used against new people.

[Icey Defeat]

they bring it upon them selves, they need to earn there ranks up, I'm still trying my best to be active and go higher up, you gotta start somewhere

[Princ3]

Well, it's hard to start anywhere when you are mentally abused from the beginning.

[Funnlecake]

just dont care about anything
And plus why should you care no one realy knows you on the inet

[Princ3]

I don't care if I don't know anyone, I am just warning them because I care about peoples personal safety unlike some people...

[pyke]

Listen Princelike everywhere,there are some people on here that are insensitive tards. You just gotta rise above it, and plough on!

[Princ3]

Well pyke, you've been a pretty cool guy through PD and stuff, if you want to keep in contact with me, I'm always on Ai'm.

[AbsoluteDrums714]

prince, you seem like a really nice guy from the like 5 or 6 hours that ive known you, lol. holy s***!!!!! oops, forgot u cant say s*** here, lol, but dude! you have 229 post per day. holy s***.  and dude, whats ur Ai'm sn? I'm guessing it isnt "Prince"  mines AbsoluteDrums714, and anyone here can feel free to talk to me on ai'm whenever they want

[Krnsaber]

Drums, I think his posts got transferred from PD lol.

[Hydrogen]

I dont really think what we said was abusive at all...prince you are taking this way out of proportion and telling everyone to stop using the site...its really pissing me off...here is exactly what was said:

[quote name='shadowlink64]Excessive spamming is against the rules' date=' and if it keeps on, there will be action taken. Please do not excessively spam to increase your post count.[/quote'] [quote name='prince]If talking about teddy bears is spam' date=' maybe you should have warned the person who started the conversation about them, not me. SHEESH There should also be some sort of action taken towards this mental assault and putting me down that you are doing[/quote'] [quote name='sl64]No Prince... your post count went from 0 to 215 in only 3 hours. It must be spam......[/quote][quote=prince]No' date=' Noitidart added my posts from my old account and my PD. That is why it has increased so much.[/quote'][quote name='sl64]slow down on the posting please' date=' that is all I am asking...[/quote'][quote=prince]Well, it seems YOU are the only one that has a problem with those, because everyone else was enjoying my company. And just because you don't perceive it as mental assault doesn't mean the victi'm doesn't. My feelings are genuinely hurt now. I hope you're proud of yourself. Noitidart raised my post count!!!! I've probably posted less than 30 ti'mes in the past 3 hours!!

But you can ban me because I didn't come here to be beat up and I already have depression and I'm sure none of you want to be mentioned in a suicide note so I just better leave or be banned because I am beat up enough on in real life, I don't need it here too.[/quote][quote=sl64]In our terms in conditions (which can be located at the bottom of the board) to which you agree to by solely using the board we say that:
QUOTE(Terms and Conditions)
Neocodex, unlike other communities does not have an I'mmediate consequence for spamming
Though we look down on serious spamming, we would like to be pretty lenient on this subject and not have a consequence for spamming. Spamming would include posts that are pointless or add nothing to the thread being disbecausesed. In some cases, spamming can also be going off of the topic of the thread. Please do not cluster our boards with spam, this just makes in harder to navigate through the posts. Small bits of spam will be tolerated, but please do not spam constantly just to get your post count up as posts don’t really matter on Neocodex anyways.

As an Administrator of Neocodex I am the one along with my fellow administrators who interpret what is spamming and what is not. I also interpret if someone is harassing a member, which you have clai'med that I have done. I have not harassed you in any way (sorry if I did). I have si'mply reminded you of our rules and policies. However, if you do not agree with our rules and policies or can not follow them, then please do not use the services of this website as it will only cause more damage in the long run.

Thank you,
ShadowLink64[/quote][quote name='prince]Well you maybe you need to read the rules of life because I was HURT there for it is HARASSMENT whether you say it is or not. People with depression can be easily hurt' date=' so maybe you should stop belly aching about spamming and maybe start thinking more about peoples feelings and stop using excessive force to convey your message of what is spam and what is not.[/quote'][quote=sl64]Ok, Prince, I am sorry if I offended you in any way....
Just remember that the rules are applicable to you too. There, you got your notification. Do whatever you wish now.

-SL64[/quote][quote name='prince]Ok I will do what I want' date='which is cut myself because whenever someone is abusive to me I inflict pain upon my body because I have depression and other various mood disorders, but you on and continue to be harsh authority because my physical or mental state doesn't matter. This is what I meant on PD when I said people were drunk with power and you get that "another face in the crowd" feeling.[/quote'][quote=sl64]Maybe you should leave then Prince, if you don't like the way I or any of the admins operate my business at NeoCodex. I am not "drunken with power" as I earned this position... I don't see you doing anything that has benefited NeoCodex in an extraordinary magnitude...... You have absolutely no right to say that to me. Obviously, you care about your feelings, but not mine either.

Leaving NeoCodex will benefit your health also, as you will receive more alerts about your activity on NeoCodex if you continue on with this little quarrel. dry.gif

My job is to keep things smooth. People addressed this problem, and I acted. If you don't like it, then I suggest you find another place to cheat NeoPets.

Please do not PM me again.[/quote]if you read all that...there was no where in there where sl64 was abusive towards prince...prince took the request to cut down on spamming way out of proportion...can someone tell me exactly how sl64 harassed hi'm?

[jillian]

Prince was quickly gaining my sympathy with this whole bit, but he didn't show me the convo. >_<

I've had to deal with a lot of different cases of depression over the internet. Pathetic but true. In fact, I've had to derail some suicide threats cause by things I has actually done at midnight one night that ended with me calling across the country without my parents' permission... Don't fake it, and don't overreact, because I get scared and I get serious. That's fair warning if you want to come to me for help.

However, in his defense, where is there evidence that he's spammed? You can see all his posts, right? He hasn't spammed anymore than anyone else today.

[Krnsaber]

I really think you should leave personal problems out of codex. If youre having problems, please leave codex for a while. Either that or dont bring those probems with you.

[jillian]

Well you're right to an extent... I think that your problems shouldn't cause uproars and get you in trouble at NCodex but I think if we really want to be the close-knit family we say we are, we should be willing to help out other members when they're in trouble, and share problems with each other. We say we're more than progs but we gotta mean it. Ya know?

[pyke]

wow Jill that was kinda deep.Man Prince don't go please.For starters I don't have ai'm, and its cool having you around. I'm sure this was all just a misunderstanding, SL64 doesn't have a grudge against you or anything, so please  be reasonable.

[Hydrogen]

Prince was quickly gaining my sympathy with this whole bit, but he didn't show me the convo. >_<

I've had to deal with a lot of different cases of depression over the internet. Pathetic but true. In fact, I've had to derail some suicide threats cause by things I has actually done at midnight one night that ended with me calling across the country without my parents' permission... Don't fake it, and don't overreact, because I get scared and I get serious. That's fair warning if you want to come to me for help.

However, in his defense, where is there evidence that he's spammed? You can see all his posts, right? He hasn't spammed anymore than anyone else today.

I just checked it and you are right...I apologize for all that stuff and take full responsibility if need be. But prince still blew all of that out of proportion. I'm still sorry. Sorry prince.

Well you're right to an extent... I think that your problems shouldn't cause uproars and get you in trouble at NCodex but I think if we really want to be the close-knit family we say we are, we should be willing to help out other members when they're in trouble, and share problems with each other. We say we're more than progs but we gotta mean it. Ya know?

This is very true...we should be helping people with their problems...but there is a fine line. Dont use your problems as an exbecausee for things or the way you act in places...its pathetic..

I also would like to point out that we are not drunk with power. nothing could be further from the truth. We just want to make this the best place to come for neopets cheating. we also want to bring a community along with it.

[pyke]

phew...wow Hydro...you know ho you mentioned that he blew it out of proportion.That may be the general case,but depression is often caused by things that semm trivial to people not reallyinvolved with it,like someone breaking up or whatever.
Still thanks for sorting that out.

[Hydrogen]

phew...wow Hydro...you know ho you mentioned that he blew it out of proportion.That may be the general case,but depression is often caused by things that semm trivial to people not reallyinvolved with it,like someone breaking up or whatever.
Still thanks for sorting that out.

uhm...if it matters could u rephrase that last message because I dont know what the hell it said lol

and its no problem...my apologies to prince for that slight overlook...is there anyway I could make it up to hi'm? or if you are reading this, is there any way I could make it up to you?

[AbsoluteDrums714]

jeez, prince had my support until he opened this topic and I saw the disbecausesion he had with shadow link.  dude, I do think that the terms "excessive spamming" may have been a little exagerated.  he was just having conversations, but everyone has been spamming a little, thats part of the fun.  talking about random things, but seriously, prince has blown this WAY out of proportion.  its true that he may have dpression, and I feel for hi'm, because I have had experiences with people with severe depression, and I know how hard it can be, but dude, shadow link did not in ANY way (that I have seen) use abusive words or mental assault.  prince, dont go out looking for exbecausees to your own personal problems, we want to help, but no one here wants to be blamed

[pyke]

I won't mind rephrasing I often confuse myself.

Often a matter that may cause depression to an individual, is something that would seem trivial to an outsider. Like for instance if someone had a break-up with a girlfriend, and became extremely depressed, a lot of outsiders wouldn't understand why he became so depressed over it.

[Hydrogen]

I won't mind rephrasing I often confuse myself.

Often a matter that may cause depression to an individual, is something that would seem trivial to an outsider. Like for instance if someone had a break-up with a girlfriend, and became extremely depressed, a lot of outsiders wouldn't understand why he became so depressed over it.

ah ok that makes sense...and thank you

by the way...I just want you guys to know that I have never/rarely dealt with depression in real life..just on this board...its a first ti'me for me...and prbly sl to though I cant speak for hi'm...but cut us some slack

[jillian]

I understand you're not drunk with power, but yeah, to rebuke hi'm without checking his posts... I don't mean to put anyone down but yeah... anyway! You shouldn't take responsibility, you had nothing to do with it. I'm not saying it's SL's fault either! It was a misunderstanding. I don't blame anyone. Prince could've explained everything a lot better and sooner.

Also, precisely my opinion on problems. They shouldn't be exbecausees. I couldn't put it into words, but that's it.

(also, a bit off-topic, but yeah, the biggest issues I've had with online depression was a breakup. He was too serious for me, and very depressed. He insinuated suicide and I had to track hi'm down by phone. I was near hysterics, but it turned out he was just being a drama queen, and he was really suprised when I called. >_<)

[AbsoluteDrums714]

a lot of people do that, they just want attention.  it really pisses me off, because of one ti'me this girl told me she was going to commit suicide, and I had to call her and talk her out of it.  The next ti'me I talked to her screen name online, she said it was her boyfriend, and that she had shot herself.  I knew she was lying, but didnt have proof until a few weeks later.  she put me through hell.  I thought that she really had killed herself, and that I was the last person she talked to before she died.  damn, now I'm pissed off.