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[pyke]

The nerd rage is simply boiling over in this topic!

Joking aside, do what everyone else said. As a note, if parties are anything in your area like they are mine, you're probably not missing out. A bunch of stupid bitches sleeping around with a bunch of equally stupid asshole guys. Drinking is the only way to tolerate it.

[havocide3]

You may or may not want to hear this... but it needs to be said regardless.

Anything that happens before you go to college, it's amateur hour. Anything that happens, it means nothing after you graduate... you may as well tell that fucker to go jump on a cock

[Sweeney]

You may or may not want to hear this... but it needs to be said regardless.

Anything that happens before you go to college, it's amateur hour. Anything that happens, it means nothing after you graduate... you may as well tell that fucker to go jump on a cock

That's not true, and it certainly isn't helpful...

[Hazard]

You may or may not want to hear this... but it needs to be said regardless.

Anything that happens before you go to college, it's amateur hour. Anything that happens, it means nothing after you graduate... you may as well tell that fucker to go jump on a cock

I would agree, when you go college its like a fresh start no one knows you (apart from the people that went to your school) so i would take that girl in your cooking classes number, talk to her everyday (at night) for a week and should start calling you thats when you know if she likes you or not....about the party thingy people just think your boring maybe you may need to change that

[Sweeney]

I would agree, when you go college its like a fresh start no one knows you (apart from the people that went to your school) so i would take that girl in your cooking classes number, talk to her everyday (at night) for a week and should start calling you thats when you know if she likes you or not....about the party thingy people just think your boring maybe you may need to change that

One wonders if you agreed simply because I didn't, or if you really are that short-sighted...

[Christopher Robin]

Tell that hobbit to go shove it, cause he's a dick. To hell with hanging out with him, he's an asshole and I see no reason you'd want to hang out with him...

I was in ~ the same problem, cause my best friend had to move to Qatar with his family, for work, for a year... I just got depressed... then I just started talking to people, and asking people if they wanted to go at anything sometimes. Find some people a bit like yourself, or people that can fill in a void good, like... people you need, like... a girl-that's-a-friend. They're great friends if you can find a good one... and just get a few friends, talk it up a bit with some people that seem nice.

Nice less-popular friends, are better than assholes like that shitbag you were talking about.

I'm comfortable with my friends... Not the popular people, just a group of friends. And I wouldn't have it any other way.

The girl thing, you just gotta hang with her a bit I guess, and get to know her

1) Anybody who treats you like that is not your friend. They're just using you and you're getting nothing in return. If I were you, I just wouldn't give them your homework to copy. You've got nothing to lose from it and you can actually keep some self-respect.

It sounds to me like you should take up some new hobbies to get some real friends who don't treat you like shit and use you. Think of what things you like doing and see if you can find any groups or something for them. Even a study group, since you're the one who actually does your work, where you'll probably meet people similar to you.

Well said.

1) Thnaks Laser-Wave. Though it's kind of harder then that. Im not a loser and I am not too popular. I am like in the middle. And leaving just like that is kind of hard. If I leave, I know I will never party before I graduate. I am not really that big, so I can stand up to too many people either. Even if I worked out, my genes are that I am short and skinny. The point is I want to party and I don't know how to get invited.

It's hard to get good friends, but once you do, and you end up hanging out with different people, your group of friends will get bigger... Just gotta find one friend. Invite someone over to play video games or something, I dunno


EDIT: Forgot the part where you said you're small. Does NOT matter. Getting beat up a bit, is nothing to lose for a bit of self-respect. And once you start standing up for yourself, people will respect you too ;o

Edited by Pomroy, 17 January 2008 - 11:14 AM.

[iargue]

I like how "fuck" was said 16 times in the entire post...

[Sweeney]

I like how "fuck" was said 16 times in the entire post...

No advice?
Damn, that's disappointing.

[iargue]

No advice?
Damn, that's disappointing.

All I can say is that I have been used by every person I have ever known, and you either have to just not be anyones friends, or just say No.

As for the girl, no one can tell what she is thinking. the only way you can know is to just tell her how you feel and ask if she would like to go out sometime. Tell her that you just want to be close friends, unless she would like more. Honesty is what girls love, and so you just give it to them. Dont be afraid because the truth is, your still going to college and you probably wont see her unless you both fall in love. So, just take the chance.


And, going to parties would be a bad choice for you. You would probably end up getting bullied by some drunk jocks and such, then you would be the laughing stock of the school. Just tell them, "no"

No.....its such a powerful word.

[iargue]

Words aren't powerful, people are.

Play Mass Effect. They teach you to never underestimate the power of words.


Words can make someone kill themselves!

[Lawivido]

As for the girl, no one can tell what she is thinking. the only way you can know is to just tell her how you feel and ask if she would like to go out sometime. Tell her that you just want to be close friends, unless she would like more. Honesty is what girls love, and so you just give it to them. Dont be afraid because the truth is, your still going to college and you probably wont see her unless you both fall in love. So, just take the chance.

Sometimes I wonder about this genius facade you put on. Apparently you've never been in the same situation that he's in. In my experiences, the less interest you show towards them, the more a girl starts to like you. And I'm not saying don't show interest AT ALL. Just the bare minimum. Works for me. *shrug*

[iargue]

Sometimes I wonder about this genius facade you put on. Apparently you've never been in the same situation that he's in. In my experiences, the less interest you show towards them, the more a girl starts to like you. And I'm not saying don't show interest AT ALL. Just the bare minimum. Works for me. *shrug*

In my post....I never once said anything about how much interest they showed towards you....

And your the one questioning my intelligence?

[Sweeney]

Aww. it's like old times...

[iargue]

Also, I know words can be a medium for power, but it is always the person behind them that gives them the actual power. Tone, body language and demeanour are what really makes words hold power, which all come from the person.

That is true, the way you express the words, show what you really mean by them. If you smiled and happily said "No" they wouldnt believe it was actually a no.

[Sweeney]

And your the one questioning my intelligence?

In fairness, we all do that...

[Waser Lave]

In my post....I never once said anything about how much interest they showed towards you....

And your the one questioning my intelligence?

You're*

Edited by Laser Wave, 17 January 2008 - 02:57 PM.

[iargue]

In fairness, we all do that...

Yeah, but when you question my intelligence, you should do it with intelligence. He just went on about something completely different then what I said.

[Germ]

1) This guy must suck, you need to tell him to stfu, care about yourself and let him get fucked. Don't get down, if he call you a bitch in front of everyone say: "At last I'm not the one who'll end up without a job because I can't even clean the street. You fucking homo". No offense, but if you lived here in Brazil and this happened, mate, if you said that to him, he would be completely fucked lol. Btw, that's true, you'll make your homework and become someone, while he'll have his stupid parties and end up on the streets... Plus he's only exploring you.

2) Well, ask her to go to the movie theater, or if there's some kind of special event there, take her(Example: I'll ask the girl that I like to go to an ferris wheel[it's an event brought by a beer company ]with me on the 27th...)

3) No idea, all I know is that here a McDonald's worker gains 1 dollar per hour D=


About the religion thing, muslims are generally really rigid, isn't that easy, they usually pray 5 times per day in the direction of Meca... Plus, I wouldn't say that loud, an radical muslim(not being racist, but that's true) can kill you claiming about the Jihad...(the fight agains't the bad emotions(pardon me if I'm wrong) and agaisn't those who are a menace to the religion...)

The thing is. He is rich. He wears stuff like Christian Audigier which is like $300 USD for a sweater. So he may have inheritance. On the other hand, this homework is nothing big. Youd o the homework, there will be a small 5 mark quiz the next day.

Though I understand it's unnacceptable, though what I want to know is how to get invited. No one invites me even though I know a lot of people. It just seems like I'd be an embarassment if I where to get invited.

[Sweeney]

Yeah, but when you question my intelligence, you should do it with intelligence. He just went on about something completely different then what I said.

I don't believe he did. But then, I probably have a better grasp of English than you...

[iargue]

You're*

grammar isn't my strong point.

I don't believe he did. But then, I probably have a better grasp of English than you...

Where in my entire post did I say anything about how much interest the girl shows in you?

[Sweeney]

Thinking isn't my strong point.

Fixed that for you.

[Oaken]

Fixed that for you.

oh no....

nothing good is going to come of this Joe....although it is amusing

Edited by Oaken, 17 January 2008 - 03:12 PM.

[Bryan]

Guys, let's try and keep this thread open, alright?

The guy situation can be handled in two ways. One is just drop him, for good. Ignore him. If you can't ignore him, tell him it's a dollar a homework problem. If he's that rich, and that desperate, he'll pay it. Then, when a big assignment comes up, just don't do it for him, even if he offers to pay, that'll upset him greatly.

I think it's wrong that you just want to do something with a girl. Believe me, messing around isn't the best thing in life. It's definitely much more fulfilling when it just happens, and you shouldn't go out looking for it. Just continue on being friends with the girl, ask her out on a date, get to know her. Though I must say, if you do end up asking her out, don't ask her to a movie. The first few dates should be an opportunity for you to gather information about the person, it allows both parties to see if they are mutually interested. Something like the park, or an activity that you can do that's fun, but still have time to talk is ideal. Movies just make you sit in a theater for two hours, without talking.

About McDonalds, you'll do fine. You might be overwhelmed when it first starts, but after you get the swing of things it'll become a cake walk.

[Sweeney]

oh no....

nothing good is going to come of this JOe....although it is amusing

Elfonso is free meat.
It wouldn't even be fun if he didn't pretend to be clever enough to join MENSA.

[iargue]

The thing is. He is rich. He wears stuff like Christian Audigier which is like $300 USD for a sweater. So he may have inheritance. On the other hand, this homework is nothing big. Youd o the homework, there will be a small 5 mark quiz the next day.

Though I understand it's unnacceptable, though what I want to know is how to get invited. No one invites me even though I know a lot of people. It just seems like I'd be an embarassment if I where to get invited.

They are probably just using you. You can know alot of people, and none of them can be your friends. If they come over and just hang out with you, and dont ask for the homework, then they are your friends.