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[Kail]

The hell you gonna do with a girlfriend at 14?

The same things i do with mine

Im 14 to buy luckily ive got a girlfriend already .

And if you looking for a month or so of just pure chick related fun go for the girls that are stupider than you cos it makes breaking up easier.

Or if you feel like being nice and not like a dick like i sounded like in my first piece of advice, go for one you like and buy her something she'd like, make her laugh loads and not to forget be smilely with her even if you stressed like heck and always be as helpful as possible.

[ShadowLink64]

Well... it's not two timing but if she likes you back she wouldn't appreciate it.

Then maybe she should have asked him out before it happened? The way I see it, there's no reason to be "unappreciative" if you didn't do anything to get the relationship going. Even if you explain this inaction by saying that she was unsure of whether or not the guy liked her, the same could go for the guy. Nobody has ESP to be able to tell these things for sure.

As for your topic description: "Starting to get old man...", you have your entire life ahead of you. Enjoy your adolescence before it disappears.

[Grizzy]

I know this isn't really what you're looking for but I'd say at 14 you shouldn't really get into a relationship. Fool around all you want (safely of course) and figure out what you like and what you don't like. Don't get all committed at your age!

Secondly, take dating/sex advice you recieve on internet forums with a grain of salt (or many grains). :-P

waffle, I was just about to say the same thing.

[Frizzle]

Dude, I know a girl, she'll give you a blowjob for a cigarette. I think she's around your age.

[Nanny State]

I'm 14. It's been well over a year since I've had a girlfriend...

Any tips as to how I can find and hook a girl? I really need one for this summer... don't wanna spend it away with just boys again. Guys any advice? (Don't wanna sound like an ass but I don't wanna any "Just wait for the right girl, she'll come along sooner or later"... I need that girl sooner, feeling lonely a lot lately.)

look up the mystery method.

[DudeOnline]

Erm...to put it bluntly, grow some balls. girls love men with confidence. if you are not confident in asking a girl out, how are they supposed to be confident in you?

Edit: also...dont be afraid to get turned down. a girl saying "no" is the absolute worst case scenario. it wont hurt I promise. if you get dismissed, pick yourself up and move on to the next.

[Nanny State]

Erm...to put it bluntly, grow some balls. girls love men with confidence. if you are not confident in asking a girl out, how are they supposed to be confident in you?

Edit: also...dont be afraid to get turned down. a girl saying "no" is the absolute worst case scenario. it wont hurt I promise. if you get dismissed, pick yourself up and move on to the next.

True, this works in reverse too i love girls with confidence. and a girl saying no is a subtle challenge, not as far as in a stalker way though.

[Cyo]

Then maybe she should have asked him out before it happened? The way I see it, there's no reason to be "unappreciative" if you didn't do anything to get the relationship going. Even if you explain this inaction by saying that she was unsure of whether or not the guy liked her, the same could go for the guy. Nobody has ESP to be able to tell these things for sure.

Man logic does not work with women. What seems pretty ok for a dude is the end of the world for a chick.


oh and confident chicks = teh win

Edited by Cyo, 17 March 2008 - 02:23 PM.

[Will]

and a girl saying no is a subtle challenge

That's what I thought and now I'm doing 10-15.

[Sweeney]

This thread is loltastic...

[Nanny State]

That's what I thought and now I'm doing 10-15.

seriously?

[ink]

That's what I thought and now I'm doing 10-15.

Years in prison or age range?
If the latter, you are a pervert.

[Will]

Years in prison or age range?
If the latter, you are a pervert.

I meant the former.

seriously?

Guess.

[The Defier]

Lol, cool tips... But I still don't got the balls to make the first move... maybe there are some exercises on this...

Besides, haven't seen a decent girl (high standards) since my ex and I ended things... Thanks fellas

Edited by The Defier, 17 March 2008 - 05:09 PM.

[Twilight]

14 year olds don't need girlfriends. i'm a 14 year old and people have girlfriends but they aren't REAL girlfriends, if you know what i mean. wait till your in college or something.

[sugudmaang]

look up the mystery method.

hey, u know that method???
It seems popular among all the 'guides to hook up a girl' books....
just finished reading it

anyway, i agree with twilight...at 14 u don't need girlfriends..... u need 'girl friends'.

Edited by sugudmaang, 17 March 2008 - 05:20 PM.

[The Defier]

I think finding 'girl friends' is practically the same as girlfriends...

Maybe I'll hit the Instant Messenger... haven't in awhile... maybe find some girls from my friends

[Aetas]

What the hell is going on!? ><

Girlfriends, I've seen from various experiences, usually lead to a crash. Similarly to energy drinks, while you're still connected to them, you feel so wonderful, an intoxication, inebriation, every emotion possible seems to be magnified. Thus, when the break up eventually occurs (Our feeble teenage brains do not comprehend the complexities of long term love ), both go through the grieving process (you know, denial, regret, anger, acceptance, blaaaaah), and in the end, those two almost never talk to each other again.

Synospsis:
Meet and dates:
Middle times:
Breakup:
Aftermath:

Then again, what do I know. I've never had a girlfriend, girlfrieeeend.

... That was lame. Sorry.


Furthermore, it seems you just want someone to be with. I believe that crushes are infatuation, sexual appeal is lust, and wanting to live froever just to watch someone be happy is love. To me, it seems like you just want a friend who's different from the norm. Just find a female FRIEND, you don't need to hurt someone else because of your own desires. What I mean is that that personw will probably think you really ARE interested, even though right now you just want company, and you'll end up hurting them uness you're sincere about your needs.

Edited by Naraf, 17 March 2008 - 05:31 PM.

[Nine]

WTF, stop worrying about girls at 14. Kids these days are growing up way too fast. Go play some damn football or something. Love doesn't come any faster and it certainly is less enjoyable if you're looking for it. Meh. Now that I think about it, the real relationships don't even come on until after highschool unless you're one of those sick highschool lover people. <<; You've got plenty of time, enjoy your life as it is. Love will come to you and you'll enjoy it more because it's not something you were looking for.

Damn kids and hormones- *shuffles off muttering like an old lady*

Edited by Nine, 17 March 2008 - 05:42 PM.

[Twilight]

WTF, stop worrying about girls at 14. Kids these days are growing up way too fast. Go play some damn football or something. Love doesn't come any faster and it certainly is less enjoyable if you're looking for it. Meh. Now that I think about it, the real relationships don't even come on until after highschool unless you're one of those sick highschool lover people. <<; You've got plenty of time, enjoy your life as it is. Love will come to you and you'll enjoy it more because it's not something you were looking for.

Damn kids and hormones- *shuffles off muttering like an old lady*

how old are you?

[GamerAsh]

Fuck, I'm 19 and never had a girlfriend. I don't really care either because I have the best friends you can ask for. I'd like to meet a girl, but I'd rather skip past the kiddy bullshit. I want to be with someone I know I love and Cherish and spend rest of my life with. I know I'll be lacking in experience of things, But I'll learn when the time comes. Just go out and have some fun. And ewww, 14 years having sex is a common thing now? Damn, what happened to morals and shit?

[ink]

Fuck, I'm 19 and never had a girlfriend. I don't really care either because I have the best friends you can ask for. I'd like to meet a girl, but I'd rather skip past the kiddy bullshit. I want to be with someone I know I love and Cherish and spend rest of my life with. I know I'll be lacking in experience of things, But I'll learn when the time comes. Just go out and have some fun. And ewww, 14 years having sex is a common thing now? Damn, what happened to morals and shit?

Meh, it isn't really morals as it is media influence. There was a study that showed that kids who listened to sexual music had a high correlation with having sex earlier.

I had sex when I was 14, it honestly was a mistake because it led to a lot more negative rumors (like me having a kid and such) and it made my middle school experience pretty fucked up.

[Jewbert]

I personally think it's pretty "crazy" to be having sex at age 14. I mean COME ON. Like Chase said, seems like it just leaves someone open for getting hurt and whatever. But, from what I have seen, kids are having kids. 12 year old having babies. What the fuck is happening? I think it's the meat. In the food, I mean.

And I read on someone's reply that girls like jerks. Umm... those girls are fools. I dated an asshole who was also a jerk... pretty much a shitty person... for THREE years. When I first started dating him he was alright, but as time went by he decided he could do whatever and call me whatever. My self esteem was so shitty and I felt happy that just one person was paying attention to me. But then I grew up and matured and realised that there's nice guys out there. I'm sure all these little horny girls will learn the same one day.

[Melchoire]

Well the bull hippopotamus attracts mates by marking it's territory by means of simultaneous deification and urination. You could try that but I don't think you'd want to make friends with girls who are attracted to that.

Edited by FlashGM, 17 March 2008 - 06:37 PM.

[Twilight]

Well the bull hippopotamus attracts mates by marking it's territory by means of simultaneous deification and urination. You could try that but I don't think you'd want to make friends with girls who are attracted to that.

what the hell does that have anything to do with this conversation?