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[Valkyrja]

in b4 pathetic, pls.


So, here I am guise. This is Friday, December 12th. Exactly one week from now I'll be meeting in person, for the first time, the person I've been in love with for oh, about a year and a half now. Yes, long-distance online relationship. Hey, I said "in b4 pathetic" and said "pls" too, so no need to mark my naivety on this, or tell me that it'll never work. I've heard it enough, and it's too late to change my mind now. I'm perfectly aware. Just wanna take a shot at it for the hell of it, because I'm only human and I'm a silly little girl lalalaa~

So, now that I've gotten that out, I need to ask.. the hell am I going to do for the 17 days he's here? I have no idea what to do with him, rofl. We're both limited on money, since most of it has gone toward his bus ticket to get here and on gas money so I can take us to the family vacation cabin after christmas (that'll be nice, but I'm kind of at a loss for what to do in a cabin in the mountains in a snowy forest, besides fucking obviously, hahah) We're both going to be staying with my parents for a week, I do have transportation, and I live in this retarded excuse for a city called Boise, Idaho. I can't think of many things to do that won't be expensive (well, there's movies and going out to dinner, but you can only do that so much)

Uhm.. any suggestions? (: Thanks in advance

Edited by Valkyrja, 12 December 2008 - 02:26 PM.

[Frizzle]

Year and half relationship without sex. You figure it out.

[sonic]

Well.
Hopefully he doesn't turn out to be some fat ass old creeper.

But yeah, now thats out.
Get drunk alot.
Bone alot.
And yeah, those are cheap.

Otherwise your screwed. I can't think of anything fun.

[Waser Lave]

Monopoly and Boggle?

[Random]

Well.
Hopefully he doesn't turn out to be some fat ass old creeper.

But yeah, now thats out.
Get drunk alot.
Bone alot.
And yeah, those are cheap.

Otherwise your screwed. I can't think of anything fun.

Exactly the answer I expected from you Sonic

Erm, maybe you could go for a day trip somewhere?

[Valkyrja]

Lol @ pseudo & sonic
I've never had sex so I don't really know what I'm missing.
Dude come to think of it, I dont even know why I did that. I guess I was just busy being a nerd

Edited by Valkyrja, 12 December 2008 - 02:47 PM.

[Grizzly]

Um some classier suggestions..

Go to the movies, picnic at a park, ice skating, bowling, billiards, mall, take him to some sorta scenic view, smoke a blunt
idk yo make use of what you got. and I suggest you bring mace in case he turns out to be some creepzor

Just playing around. I think this is kinda cute actually. Hope it works out.

[Mr. Hobo]

Yes 'smoke a blunt' is definantly on the top of the list of classy things to do

First time you meet up it should be somewhere public maybe with a friend nearby. Yay for paranoia

[Oaken]

Maybe get to know each other....in none sexual way first of all.

[Daphatpat]

bowling

[kneegrow_4_lyfe22]

Yes 'smoke a blunt' is definantly on the top of the list of classy things to do

true dat. yoo mah main man b-turn proposed to his bj-factory on national tv way back in 03 wit a blunt in one hand, and a j in the other, he dint buy a ring yet

Edited by kneegrow_4_lyfe22, 12 December 2008 - 03:16 PM.

[Valkyrja]

Maybe get to know each other....in none sexual way first of all.

We've known each other for a really long time already, lol. I'm meeting like, his body for the first time, not his personality or anything else. i've seen him on webcam and I talk to him on the phone every night, talked to his parents before too, so I know for sure that he's not some pedo; he's a metalhead eurofag foreigner like me lols

Um some classier suggestions..

Go to the movies, picnic at a park, ice skating, bowling, billiards, mall, take him to some sorta scenic view, smoke a blunt
idk yo make use of what you got. and I suggest you bring mace in case he turns out to be some creepzor

Just playing around. I think this is kinda cute actually. Hope it works out.

And I'd like to say thanks Freak, I like your suggestions best so far xP
We might smoke, he's the pothead though not me. I';ve only smoked once hahah

Edited by Valkyrja, 12 December 2008 - 04:07 PM.

[Oaken]

I don't mean to put a downer on it or anything but there is a big difference between what you have experienced so far and what you are about to. It's the little things about people that you learn only from spending quality time with them that will determine how you really feel about them.

By spending time together, like you are going to for the first time, you will learn new things about each other that you may or may not like. You can never really know someone just by talking to them or seeing them over a webcam.

[Valkyrja]

Oh, I get what you mean now.
I did meet an eBoyfriend once before so yeah, you're right about that. I dont think it'll be the same this time because that other guy was a sissy, on another note. he wouldnt even pay for dinner at our dates because he was uncomfortable talking to the cashier. So this is a new experience called: omg, a real man? Lols.

[Cory]

Damn, thought you where talking about me until you said foreigner.

I'm at work so I just skimmed the topic, but it sounds like you just need to do whatever you usually do to have fun. Get to know him a little better, yes you know him now but there is always more to learn. Don't have sex unless you want to.

Most importantly just enjoy his company while you have it.

[Rhiann]

Hrm.
Take naps together? xD
I do that alot.

Uhh. Watch tv and go to a park and walk around? x__x
I'm pretty darn clueless myself, lols.

[BillyMays]

to everyone his or her own.

be happy with the time you spend together and that's all you can really ask of yourself or him

[Rhiann]

Snowball fights
If there's snow of course.
Snow related stuff.

Um, build a fire and roast marshmellowsssss.
Ya

[Valkyrja]

I wanted to have a snowball fight and he was all "I'll win" haaaa he's no fun. xD
Also he's never been ice skating, he seems scared. I wanna try that.

[Kyle]

Rent a shit load of movies, and maybe some video games if that's your thing?

[Rhiann]

I wanted to have a snowball fight and he was all "I'll win" haaaa he's no fun. xD
Also he's never been ice skating, he seems scared. I wanna try that.

Lawl, he's no fun.
You could always tackle him and shove snow down his shirt and pants xD
That'd be fun.

And I think that'd be cute.
Tell him he can hang onto you, and if he falls, you can fall on him, lewls.

[Tetiel]

Ummm... okay first advice: Meet in a public place I'm sure he's safe, though. From personal experience things will be rather awkward between you two. At least at first anyways. Once you understand that he's actually him, you'll click well I'm sure Honestly who cares what you do? Just hang out, talk, watch the tube. Enjoy each other's company while it lasts.

[Cory]

Ummm... okay first advice: Meet in a public place I'm sure he's safe, though. From personal experience things will be rather awkward between you two. At least at first anyways. Once you understand that he's actually him, you'll click well I'm sure Honestly who cares what you do? Just hang out, talk, watch the tube. Enjoy each other's company while it lasts.

HEY BISH, STOP MOCKING ME!

[Cory]

There's plenty to do with limited money. Freak already mentioned a few of them but I'd strongly recommend planning something you can do together on the first day that will take away some of the awkwardness. Believe me it'll happen

Just getting comfortable talking face to face is your best bet after the first day. Try doing things that involve a lot of communicating so that you're forced to get comfortable

And just ignore the haters, I know internet relationships work if you've done it like you have (webcam, phone, parents). You can't live live being afraid.

I wish you all the luck for your first meeting

It should be illegal for people like you to say "haters".