Well it all started around 2 and half months ago when I went to prom with this girl. Some of you may remember a topic I posted then about dating her and all. Well we started dating and everything was going fine. We would meet at lunch time, after school, and whenever we could see each other and we would do some talking, but mostly just make out. This is very early on in the relationship. As time went on, she wanted to get a little bit more rowdy and we moved forward a little bit. We never had sex as we are both Muslim and cannot do such an act until marriage. Now one day decided to go swimming with me. It old my parents where I was going, but she decided that she would lie to her parents and tell them that she is going swimming with her friend, rather than me. So we went, and by the time we were finished, her mother came and actually spotted me with her. Her mother was furious and they both left.
She got grounded for a week and half. She could speak to no one, she could not go out, not use her cell phone or computer. There was no contact for a week and half. Then she got ungrounded, and a few days after that she had to go on vacation for 2 weeks to see family. Now ever since she got ungrounded, the first thing she told me was how many lectures she got from her parents and her older sisters. After that she simply told me that when we see each other now that she wants to slow it down on the action and talk more. I respected her decision and I agreed that we would definitely sit down and talk more. Couple days passed by, then she had to go on vacation to see family for 2 weeks. That is 2 weeks without contact again because she was out of the country.
Now ever since she got grounded, she basically lost her parents trust. She was only allowed to see me every 2 - 3 days, and when I did get to see her it was usually for a max of 2 hours. Also, remember she said she wanted to slow down on the action, so the most we ever did was a kiss her and there. This went on for about a month and to tell you the truth, I was miserable. I don't want to sound like a horn dog or anything, but I truly did miss the affection and when we got rowdy. It didn't mean everything to me, but deep down I thought that affection was something that kept the fire burning between us. The fact that I could only see her every 2 - 3 days for 2 hours max also made me miserable. I wanted to see her and spend more time with her, but her parents would not allow it. Also, getting grounded for a week and a half and then leaving for 2 weeks after that made me sad because I missed her.
All in all, with no affection and only being able to see her every so often made us grow apart. I was tired of it, and the expression on her face ever since she got back from vacation clearly showed me that she was tired of it. A relationship is supposed to be fun and this one was not, however we both really cared for one another. She wanted to meet with me 2 days ago and she sat down with me and told me that she does not see us together in the future. She said that the feeling she had for me before and now gone and that she cannot return the same amount of love that I give her. I agree that we were miserable because of how things were going. I realised it, but I waited because I thought things would change. She broke up with me and I was devastated, but now I am not that bad. I miss her, but I am not as sad as I thought I would be because deep down I knew it was coming and I was already miserable. I still care for her though, a lot. I was curious to know if I should give it some time and try again with her. I mean space between us was what made us grow apart in the first place, and her parents were big obstacles.
What do you guys think, should I move on or wait and see if I can get back with her. If I get back with her do you think that things would still work out the same before? I care for her so much and I know that if I give it time that I can move on, but I really care for her and I am unsure of what to do. Should I move on, or wait and see if I can get back with her?
