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[jcrdude]

Plus you can't have sex for...how long, after giving birth? All I know is that it's too damn long.

From what I've been told, it's less time than you think it is.

I have no sauce, but I don't see any reason (well... besides the hormones of course, but maybe they just need to get laid) that sex can't continue right up to the point where you're having the baby.

And if the pregnancy is relatively complication free, I don't see why the porking couldn't resume the next day.

[chipmunk]

If it's a boy, we bro it up with video games or something and have a blast.

If it's a girl, I just move to the Arctic.

Simple.

I have a son........ I still wanted to move to the arctic

God should get off his lazy, non-existent ass and give us a system upgrade.


I'm not sure I would get over the trauma of having organs falling through tears into my vagina. Ever. It's the sort of thing I that would hit me at random moments and make me do this:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NC2RYn5Z3Og


Plus you can't have sex for...how long, after giving birth? All I know is that it's too damn long.

I don't think its physically possible for organs to do that, where did you get that bit of info from? >>> Just answered my own question with google.... I guess your right, there is a possibility do to childbirth.


It's 4 to 6 weeks for vaginal intercourse....... sex! now that's a whole different story

Edited by chipmunk, 20 January 2012 - 02:31 AM.

[Ashlee]

Plus you can't have sex for...how long, after giving birth? All I know is that it's too damn long.

You'd probably be too damn tired to have sex after having a new baby anyway!

Edit: Reworded so that it didn't sound wrong.

Edited by Ashlee, 20 January 2012 - 04:19 AM.

[Sida]

You'd probably be too damn tired to have sex after having a new baby anyway!

Edit: Reworded so that it didn't sound wrong.

/curious

[Lychee]

I don't think its physically possible for organs to do that, where did you get that bit of info from? >>> Just answered my own question with google.... I guess your right, there is a possibility do to childbirth.

It's 4 to 6 weeks for vaginal intercourse....... sex! now that's a whole different story

Yeah, my source was the NHS and doctors and midwives.

You'd probably be too damn tired to have sex after having a new baby anyway!

All the more reason to not have a baby.

[Nymh]

From what I've been told, it's less time than you think it is.

I have no sauce, but I don't see any reason (well... besides the hormones of course, but maybe they just need to get laid) that sex can't continue right up to the point where you're having the baby.

And if the pregnancy is relatively complication free, I don't see why the porking couldn't resume the next day.

You can boink up until the point that you spit the kid out unless you have a high risk pregnancy and your doctor tells you not to. An active sex life actually helps you in labor. Sex can induce labor too (which is why high risk preggos are put on "pelvic rest").

After you have the kid, the general rule is closed-door policy for 4-6 weeks (not just limited to penii).

You'd probably be too damn tired to have sex after having a new baby anyway!

Edit: Reworded so that it didn't sound wrong.

You can't be too tired forever; eventually you will want to do it. You will need to do it. You will be pissed because when you want to do it, you technically can't because the doctor said so. But you'll do it anyway.

"You" being general here of course.

[Hawk]

I go to a computer engineering university doing software engineering, they also do shit like games programming, animation, robotics etc. They also do a course for nurses, but they spend all of their time at the local hospital and start the year much later than everyone else. Before the nurses moved in the ratio of boy/girl was 46:1. Still want to complain about 4:1?

Yes, I would love to. The only reason my school is at 4:1 is due to the nursing school. They aren't in any of my classes, and you never really see them. While there are hundreds of guys my age/major, there are only a handful of women. You think your situation is so special, yet we're in the exact same fucking spot. (Except you happen to get the joy of working with the SEs/CEs. They're a whole different breed...)

[chini]

Maybe, but not until I have a secure good paying job and a semi-permanent place to live. No way I am gonna have 5+ kids like my parents did.

[Ladida]

I'm not sure I would get over the trauma of having organs falling through tears into my vagina. Ever.

What?! I can't even... I don't even... HOLY FUCKING HELL!!!!!!!!!! Words cannot even ever begin to describe how fucking disturbing this is!!!

[Poptart]

I have a 5 month old boy. Do I want MORE kids? Heck no. Lol.

Childbirth is not as traumatic as some people make it out to be. I was in labor for THREE days, which was rough, but not horrible. (Didn't sleep for those three days and about a week and a half after that. My blood pressure was off the roof and was having horrible chest pains. XD Finally I knocked some sense into my boyfriend and he started helping me so I could sneak in little hours of sleep here and there.) I looked in the mirror the whole time giving birth and was joking with everyone. I truly enjoyed all of it. I had an epidural, but I could still feel pressure when I was having contractions so I knew when to push. When the moment finally came and I heard his cry, it was the most overwhelming, beautiful moment I've ever felt in my life.

About the sex thing... I tried after my 6 week appointment to have sex and it hurt too bad. Around 8 weeks or so I started having sex, but it still hurts a lot. (5 months later!!!) I don't enjoy sex like I used to, but I've never enjoyed it much to begin with. I always wonder if I'm subconsciously a lesbian. O.o ANYWAYS. Being a parent is tough. It's constant, 24/7. No more sleeping in ever, no days off. You are constantly doing, constantly caring for another human being. It takes getting used to, but it's wonderful nonetheless. (:

[mobster281]

Yes, but with the right person. Ive seen so many people my age just get a random girl they don't even have feelings for pregnant

[Sneakily]

Most likely eventually but been learning a lot about the environment and population in one of my classes hah and other then the constant parenthood it costs $240K aprox till 18 which is definitly worth it but still I'd have to wait till I'm in the right situation in life with money and what not.

[imishyou]

I like the idea of having children (i've even made up names already lol) but I honestly think it's just not for me. im a bit pessimistic when it comes to being... responsible for another life. i don't think i'm just up for it :x

[cibomatto]

having kids is about commitment and being responsible.

i can't even take care of myself so, i guess no. not now at least.


and is sellfishh if my biggest fear is to deal with a mini-me ? :U

[Maeghan]

I always thought I'd never have/want kids.

But in Decemer of 09 I found out I was pregnant. It was the scariest thing I had ever faced.
But I can't imagine it not happening.

Watching a child grow, is the most amazing thing. To see them for the first time, is like meeting someone who should have always been there to begin with. The first smile, the first laugh, the first time they talk. Everything is the most amazing triumph youve ever seen. My Lily is only 19 months old, and I'm completely in love with her. She makes me laugh at least 10 times a day, even when I'm in the worst mood.

Being a mom is really hard, but entirely worth it.

I want more! Sooner than later tbh. But I'm going to wait until I'm more stable, of course.

[Lychee]

About the sex thing... I tried after my 6 week appointment to have sex and it hurt too bad. Around 8 weeks or so I started having sex, but it still hurts a lot. (5 months later!!!) I don't enjoy sex like I used to

For some reason, I've suddenly remembered that my fiancé has offered to have the snip.

She makes me laugh at least 10 times a day, even when I'm in the worst mood.

That's really sweet. I do like babies, I just...don't like how they come out.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kpl0sMmuL6U

Another of many reasons I don't ever want to give birth. Watch from 4:43. (Her fucking pussy exploded!)

[sarah.]

I didn't originally plan on having kids until I was older, had a decent job and would be able to provide for them properly, but then I fell pregnant at 19. My daughter was born on my 20th birthday, and I now have two gorgeous kids. It's not easy, and I don't expect it to get easier as they get older from what I've seen of my friends kids, but I wouldn't change them for anything.

[Turnip]

Heheh, I would love love love to have a kid someday! I wasn't into the whole oohh I have a baby doll time to take care of it!!!!! as a little girl, but that part of me has changed and having a little kid, watching them grow up and have fun and experience their firsts... It all seems really appealing to me now!

It'll all have to wait until I'm older and have a stable income and have my own place though, and healthier! I'm not sure how much a heart problem (wooo self diagnosed because all the doctors I've gone to about this are shite!) could affect child birth, but yeah, I'm kinda afraid of my body not being able to handle it or something D: Not to mention that my fiance had some reoccuring nightmares a few months ago where I was giving birth to our kid and then dying shortly afterwards, heheh..... ;_;
I know the chances of that are really, really slim, but the worry is still there! Sob

[sarah.]

It'll all have to wait until I'm older and have a stable income and have my own place though, and healthier! I'm not sure how much a heart problem (wooo self diagnosed because all the doctors I've gone to about this are shite!) could affect child birth, but yeah, I'm kinda afraid of my body not being able to handle it or something D:

I'm sure if there was a problem, and you fell pregnant then your midwife would class the pregnancy as "high risk", and that way they keep a closer eye on you. My daughter was born at 5lb 10oz, they said she was a "small baby" at that weight and that I needed extra scans/check ups with my second, to make sure my little boy was growing properly and that there were no problems. He came out at 6lb 11oz, and they'd predicted his weight to be 8lb+

[Faerhii]

I'm havin' kids some day. It'll happen.

I've wanted to be a mom since I was 16, but have always understood the need of a good foundation. I want to finish school and be stable first.

Gotta tell you now though, I am NOT having one of those spoiled rotten brats that you can ALWAYS find shrieking in the toy section of Walmart.. I will start at a young age and keep my kid in line. Despite what the locals here believe you CAN have a well behaved child AND a strong parent-child relationship.

It'll all have to wait until I'm older and have a stable income and have my own place though, and healthier! I'm not sure how much a heart problem (wooo self diagnosed because all the doctors I've gone to about this are shite!) could affect child birth, but yeah, I'm kinda afraid of my body not being able to handle it or something D:

I know what you mean. I have early on-set degenerative bone disease. So sadly, my baby-making safety is on a time limit. If I wait too long, the weight of the baby could affect my back/pelvis, and I could even fracture my pelvis during child birth. You just have to weigh your options, and get yourself a good doctor. I happen to have gotten lucky and found one, and I'm sure when you're getting closer a little research for a specialist in your case will help you find one too.

Edited by Faerhii, 04 February 2012 - 06:42 AM.

[NapisaurusRex]

I have one, but I want some more. I want to have as many as I can afford. I love kids.

Edited by Napiform, 04 February 2012 - 09:42 AM.

[onlyme]