So, I basically have been doing the no contact rule for 6 weeks and I don't feel fully healed yet and I have the urge to try to talk to my former SO.
Did any of you guys have any luck with the no contact rule?
"What is The No Contact Rule?
The no contact rule simply means not contacting your ex. Let’s just assume your ex is a drug that you are addicted to and the only way you can stop addiction of this drug is go cold turkey. That’s exactly what you are doing here. You are going cold turkey on your ex. Because in many cases people are addicted to their ex and they do need a cold turkey approach to break their addiction."
Do you find easier to overcome a relationship by stop talking to the person altogether - at least while you are still hurt - or becoming friends?