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#1 ToxicS

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Posted 01 May 2011 - 05:36 PM

St. Petersburg, Florida - A St. Petersburg attorney says Facebook and social media are used in 90 percent of her divorce cases.

"You get a little bit of everything that happens on Facebook," said Carin Constantine.

"Everything from clients coming in with pictures of the opposing party doing a keg stand with high schoolers... to teenagers drinking alcohol served by a parent... to a picture of a husband at a nightclub dancing with a babysitter."

A recent survey by the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers found that Facebook is cited in one in five divorces in the United States. Also, more than 80 percent of divorce lawyers reported a rising number of people are using social media to engage in affairs.

"There are times when my paralegal and I sit in this office and laugh because people are stupid. They put things out there on the internet that can last forever," Constantine said.

Divorce attorneys are becoming internet gurus. Because websites like Yahoo and Google cache images as soon as they're put online, Constantine says she can find pictures from Facebook accounts that have been deactivated.

She simply goes to www.images.google.com, types in the person's name and searches through every single page of returns.

"Those pictures are still accessible by us, and we can still print them and we can still use them as evidence in your divorce case," Constantine said. And that printed piece of paper can be attached to a motion within the hour.

The best advice, aside from deactivating your Facebook account, is asking friends and family not to post any pictures of you online, even if they don't tag you.

"The problem is, if you've got 400 friends, I assure you one of those friends [doesn't] have all the privacy settings correct," she explained.

And she, along with thousands of other lawyers, can find it.


http://www.wtsp.com/...f-divorce-cases

Basically this article is saying, don't do anything you might regret or it will end up on facebook and get you screwed eventually

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    #2 Guest_jcrgirl_*

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    Posted 01 May 2011 - 05:41 PM

    There is a way to deactivate your facebook permanently. It's what I did. It takes 2 weeks and if you log in, even just once. It doesn't get deleted. That whole deactivation thing is such a load of crap. As of a few months ago, I've actually realized how idiotic I've been visiting that website. I no longer want to contribute any of my personal information to anyone, ever.

    I had everything set on private, and you couldn't find me in searches but it didn't help. You can still google my name. It makes me pretty uncomfortable. Makes me glad I didn't use my real name when I first made facebook. But still, <_<.

    #3 AyoForYayo

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    Posted 01 May 2011 - 05:43 PM

    There is a way to deactivate your facebook permanently. It's what I did. It takes 2 weeks and if you log in, even just once. It doesn't get deleted. That whole deactivation thing is such a load of crap. As of a few months ago, I've actually realized how idiotic I've been visiting that website. I no longer want to contribute any of my personal information to anyone, ever.

    I had everything set on private, and you couldn't find me in searches but it didn't help. You can still google my name. It makes me pretty uncomfortable. Makes me glad I didn't use my real name when I first made facebook. But still, <_<.


    ^

    Not true, I deactivated mine for like 3 months and it was still there. Ayy

    #4 Noitidart

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    Posted 01 May 2011 - 05:57 PM

    I hate facebook. It's a newspaper of your life. Anyone that gets involved can expect some kind of divorce/divorces coming up.

    #5 Frank274

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    Posted 01 May 2011 - 06:28 PM

    I hate facebook. It's a newspaper of your life. Anyone that gets involved can expect some kind of divorce/divorces coming up.


    You just need to be smart with what you put on Facebook. There are a lot of pictures/comments I would LOVE to put up there, but I know how easy it is for others to find them. Maybe Facebook is God's way of ensuring stupid people can't be happy.

    #6 Sovie

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    Posted 01 May 2011 - 07:08 PM

    Yep, this is why I avoid doing anything stupid in the presence of other people, because I just know someone is going to upload it to Facebook and tag me in it.

    #7 Guest_jcrgirl_*

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    Posted 01 May 2011 - 07:49 PM

    ^

    Not true, I deactivated mine for like 3 months and it was still there. Ayy


    http://www.facebook....gid=16929680703

    You need to make sure you dont log in to your account at any point in time. Derp.

    #8 jonahfinn

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    Posted 01 May 2011 - 07:54 PM

    Hrmmm... i'm not tagged in any pictures where i'm doing stupid shit, as I work with kids.
    But the pictures are on facebook on a friend's account. If paralegals can find it, what do you suppose the chances of my kids finding it?
    Keep in mind, that they're not tagged. =p

    #9 AyoForYayo

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    Posted 01 May 2011 - 08:34 PM

    http://www.facebook....gid=16929680703

    You need to make sure you dont log in to your account at any point in time. Derp.


    I didn't.
    Derp.

    #10 simplicity155

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    Posted 02 May 2011 - 05:32 AM

    the people who actually have this used against htem in a court of law must be flaunting the uses of facebook. obviously everyone who uses it knows that it is open to the world to see
    if you dont want to be tagged or that just dont use facebook.

    #11 ToxicS

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    Posted 02 May 2011 - 05:33 AM

    yep

    http://openbook.org

    #12 GeorgeBright

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    Posted 02 May 2011 - 11:50 PM

    Anybody that posts incriminating things on facebook deserves to have it shoved back in their face.
    When you post crap like that online, you are saying to the world "Hey, look at me!" unabashedly.

    #13 Jenken

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    Posted 03 May 2011 - 02:26 AM

    Ahh, Facebook. Where you can stalk your boyfriend and find him tagged in pictures making out with your supposedly best friend.

    #14 Pyro699

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    Posted 03 May 2011 - 02:32 AM

    When we catch people stealing items in the store im working at; we use facebook to track the people down. Once we have their name and information we send that off to the police and proper action is taken :)

    #15 simplicity155

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    Posted 03 May 2011 - 05:34 AM

    Ahh, Facebook. Where you can stalk your boyfriend and find him tagged in pictures making out with your supposedly best friend.


    lol is that from experience? because tahts one stupid boy. untag? why the hell would you let a picture like that end up on the internet just asking for trouble

    #16 Jenken

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    Posted 03 May 2011 - 12:28 PM

    lol is that from experience? because tahts one stupid boy. untag? why the hell would you let a picture like that end up on the internet just asking for trouble


    He looked pretty wasted, so he probably didn't notice someone took a picture. I guess he got tagged when he wasn't online so it was a bit too late when he saw the pic was online.

    #17 Rooshy

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    Posted 03 May 2011 - 02:06 PM

    That's hilarious. xD

    #18 Neoquest

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    Posted 03 May 2011 - 02:10 PM

    I've gotten some really bad lies posted about me on facebook, and tagged me in the post, good thing the person who posted them knew I was really pissed off and deleted it, before anyone could directly see it, it's a dangerous place.

    #19 anbeezy

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    Posted 04 May 2011 - 02:29 PM

    It's okay. It weeds out all the dumbies from the rest of the population. :funone:

    #20 RWS

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    Posted 11 May 2011 - 05:30 AM

    That's hilarious. The internet/social networking sites really are changing how we go about doing these things xD

    #21 thoragon

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    Posted 11 May 2011 - 01:22 PM

    ^ agreed.



    #22 sharky

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    Posted 11 May 2011 - 06:41 PM

    Yep. You can be extremely smart with what you put out there, but your friends might not be ~ and it can still screw you over. I just deactivated my Facebook recently, and I see it's a growing trend to do so. A lot of people are moving over to Twitter, where these privacy issues aren't so rampant.


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