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#1 Hydrogen

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Posted 04 May 2011 - 08:39 AM

I'm usually more of a lurker on the boards these days, but today I have some good news to share with everyone.

I'm engaged!

A month or so ago, I traveled to India with my parents partly for business and partly for a vacation. While there, I met a wonderful girl named Saarah and we got talking. It turned out that we were incredibly similar and both enjoyed each other's company. I kept in touch with her when I got back to the states and three weeks ago, my family sent her family a proposal for marriage. She accepted, and last Thursday, we were engaged to be married!

It might be a little strange to you that I got engaged so quickly after meeting Saarah. As many of you know, I'm a Muslim. Islamic courtship is a bit more traditional than western tradition. We don't really date or live together before marriage like western culture prescribes. Instead, engagements are typically where the couple gets to know each other. Our engagement is likely to last a couple years. She's a bit younger than me and I'd like for her to finish school.

Just wanted to share the good news with you all :p.

Note: for those of you who have sent me PMs... I'm sorry for taking so long to get back to you. I'll get to them this weekend - the week is generally reserved for work and family :p.

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    #2 Random

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    Posted 04 May 2011 - 08:44 AM

    Congratulations bro!

    #3 tak1968

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    Posted 04 May 2011 - 08:45 AM

    Congratualtions. May your lives be filled with health and happiness :)

    #4 Lychee

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    Posted 04 May 2011 - 08:49 AM

    Congratulations! I wish you both the best.

    #5 Boggart

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    Posted 04 May 2011 - 08:50 AM

    Wow Hydro! Congratulations! :D

    #6 Sweeney

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    Posted 04 May 2011 - 08:51 AM

    Congratulations Mr. H.
    Here's hoping the engagement is as enjoyable as your first month ^^

    #7 Pyro699

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    Posted 04 May 2011 - 08:52 AM

    Ive already congratulated you ;) But i suppose i can do it again!

    Congrats man! and best of luck :3 Guess this means your off the market :(

    #8 Ali

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    Posted 04 May 2011 - 08:56 AM

    Congrats love! All the luck in the world to you, it was by far the best decision I ever made, hope it works out the same for you. :)

    Oh aren't we all growing up, I remember you going to prom.:p

    #9 huevoquilmes

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    Posted 04 May 2011 - 09:01 AM

    Wow congratulations :D

    #10 ilovepolkadots

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    Posted 04 May 2011 - 09:02 AM

    congratulations :D
    & as-salāmu `alaykum

    #11 Waser Lave

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    Posted 04 May 2011 - 09:07 AM

    Congrats.

    #12 Snowiesh

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    Posted 04 May 2011 - 09:17 AM

    Wow congrats! :D

    #13 Jake

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    Posted 04 May 2011 - 09:53 AM

    It's good that it lasts a couple of years, you can really put it to her on how to run the household.

    lolz

    #14 ToxicS

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    Posted 04 May 2011 - 11:06 AM

    Grats!!

    #15 anbeezy

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    Posted 04 May 2011 - 11:07 AM

    Congratulations! Best of luck, yo!

    #16 WharfRat

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    Posted 04 May 2011 - 11:18 AM

    Oh my god! That's amazing hydro! I'm super happy to hear that for you. :D

    Sending love and well wishes for your future marriage! :)

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    #17 Trichomes

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    Posted 04 May 2011 - 11:19 AM

    How exciting! Congratulations and good luck to you both. :D

    #18 Brennon

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    Posted 04 May 2011 - 11:46 AM

    Congrats Hydro! Out of curiosity how is Saarah's name pronounced?

    #19 ArticTheTiger

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    Posted 04 May 2011 - 11:48 AM

    Congratulations :D

    I wish you all the best in the world :)

    #20 CuriousOyster

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    Posted 04 May 2011 - 12:22 PM

    Congratulations!
    My girlfriends father is Muslim and he's been married, divorced, and re-married almost 10 times in the past 10 years.
    Hope it doesn't turn out that way for you; I'm sure it won't.
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    #21 Xwee

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    Posted 04 May 2011 - 12:48 PM

    Way to go ^,^

    I feel so very sorry for you... :( but hey whatever right lol but then again i had a bad engagement.. still want to get married one day myself, but.. yeah don't envy you tbh. Hope yours is better than how mine went XD

    Edited by Xwee, 04 May 2011 - 12:50 PM.


    #22 Boggart

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    Posted 04 May 2011 - 12:55 PM

    Way to go ^,^

    I feel so very sorry for you... :( but hey whatever right lol but then again i had a bad engagement.. still want to get married one day myself, but.. yeah don't envy you tbh. Hope yours is better than how mine went XD


    He doesn't seem to be bitter about it. So I don't think anyone should be feel bad for him, regardless if one doesn't support arranged marriage.

    #23 Adam

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    Posted 04 May 2011 - 01:08 PM

    Good Game sir. I hope your engagement goes well :]

    #24 Strategist

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    Posted 04 May 2011 - 01:09 PM

    wow congrats hydro! All the best for the future with your new fiance! Well done mate

    #25 Fresca

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    Posted 04 May 2011 - 01:13 PM

    Congratulations!

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