Ani and Daisy have been best friends for a few years now, they do everything together and they never spend a minute apart. I sorta had a 'thing' with Ani, and of course Daisy being the jealous girl that she is, had to cockblock my every move. We would go to Daisy's softball games, as soon as the game let out Daisy would run up to us just to make sure I had as little alone time with Ani as possible. I kind of thought Ani and I had a connection, so I asked her out and she said "No, Daisy would get mad at me if I had a boyfriend and she didn't. I know this is really cleche, but it's seriously not you." That was the end of that. I kept my professionalism in the work place and tried not to let my emotions(or lack of) get in the way of us doing our job.
We were fine for about a month or two, and all of the sudden BAM, the bitchy attitudes came on. Daisy, being Ani's personal guard dog, would say shit to just get a rise out of me, "You have no balls. Stop being a faggot. No, I'm not taking that item out from the warehouse." Mind you, I'm their supervisor, and up until recently we were really good friends. They kept blaming all of the 'awkward' moments on me, and I'm not even the one starting the drama. When I get mad I usually walk around fast, don't talk to anyone and do everything myself. They took that as me being a little bitch or something and would start saying shit to me. Ani would go home and tell her brother things and fabricate lies about me whom would post on Twitter things about me, thinking that I can't read. If I tried to not talking to them other then make sure they were doing their job correctly, they'd ask me what was wrong and if I told them then all of the sudden I needed to 'Grow up' or 'Grow some balls'. I'm the one being a grown up and trying to smooth things out instead of continuing to drive on the bumpy road, and I get called out again.
Today at work, after what I like to call 'Group therapy' we said our peace and said we'd be nice and respect each other from now on. A few hours go by and then on our down time we play a mini game of baseball in our warehouse. It was my turn to pitch, and mind you I'm a terrible pitcher but I can bat fairly decent. I threw some wild pitches that went either above the batters head or on either side of them. Both Ani and Daisy have a smile on their faces and we're all laughing having a good time. I come home and check my twitter and notice the comment "you shouldn't wear a cup if you don't have the balls to fill it." which is obviously directed towards me. Over the past few months I've learned to ignore their comments and continue to befriend them and forget about the shit they say. Today I figured that the easiest way for me to deal with them was to delete my twitter so I could do my job to the best of my ability without my thought process being compromised. Of course, I get a text message with Ani bitching at me for 'deleting her', which I didn't delete just her I deleted my WHOLE account.
Do I have the right to be bothered? Am I being as much of a little 'bitch' as they make me out to be? How do I deal with these two continually ganging up on me without cracking?
inb4 "they're bitchy because it's that time of the month again."
Edited by Adam, 30 May 2011 - 02:28 PM.
