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[lightsdark]

extra info
(I was going to ask her to homecoming and nobody knew exept my close freind)
(I'm 5'7 and 145 pounds)
(other guy was about 250 pounds and 6'0)





see ok here's the thing I met this pretty cool girl about a month ago at school. I was walking through the main area to get to my next class (I'm in high school) and put my stuff away (during a 15 min break thing) and she pulls me aside and says "you look like kurt cobain" then I said "ook" and she stood there smiling for a sec then asked if she could have a hug and I said "sure I dont mind" then she gave me a hug then introduced me to her friend she was cool then she gave me a hug then the other girl gave me a hug again and we hung out for the rest of the break.(next day on the break) she pulls me aside again and we hang out for the break then at lunch too.and pretty much I've been hangen out with her at the 15 min. breaks and at the lunches that I can with her (she has second lunch all the ti'me I have it every other day)but recently I've been having a hard ti'me finding her and when I ask her friends they give me a sorta weird look like why would you wanna know and then after a second they say "I don't know hmm" then they look around and I don't now then they ask another friend and they say "she's in the bathroom" then they tell me and I go ok and wait for her and she never shows up. then today after I found her she just said hi to me and then turned around then her ex pops up and says ahh there she is then all a sudden she runs off with a friend around the corner and so I go over there and wait for her then one of her friends that were standing with her before comes up and says hey come here and I take a couple of steps closer and then he says closer and I take a couple more steps closer and he (I dont now hi'm at all) puts his arm around me and says lets take a little walk (see I thought at first he was gonna start somethin) and says "ok heres how it is I've been told that your scarin ppl away from the bathroom (I was thinkin what the hell is he talkin about becuase I was far away from the bathroom and I'm really nice) so were still walkin and he looks back over his shoulder and says ok you see this hall right here that were about to walk into I'm gonna stop walking and you keep going (ok since like none of you guys know me I dont like it when ppl think they can boss me around just becuase there bigger than me(he was pretty fat)so I said ok what ever and walked down the hall (also if your afraid of me you got some porblems). so what I'm thinkin is that the freinds other than the first one  I met don't like me that much.


what do you guys/ or girls think



srry this was so long but I needed to ask

[Gargar]

hmm verry long and confusing I dident get the hole scaring people away from the bathroom thing but w\e lol just do what I do(not the best thing to do  ) but just go and ask the people that you think dont like you ask them "whats you problem with me"

[lightsdark]

I'm temted to do so see when I first meet ppl I dont really talk that much becuase I'm seeing what there personality is like(I'm a very good judge of character)

o yeah see I think her friends dont like me.
or she ovioding me ( I woulndn't know why besides here friends making her)
unless its both of them becuase her friends dont like me for some reasone there trying to keep her away from me
thats the only things I can think of besides that everything was cool between us

and I also asked her ex once were she was and after he said I dont know he said oohh yeah you must be (then he said my name. keep in mind I've met hi'm before)

Edited by lightsdark, 21 October 2004 - 04:55 PM.

[Gargar]

or the other thing I would think of is that she has a boyfriend and is trying ot avoid you and using her friends to avoid you and maby she got that guy to get you to go away to

[lightsdark]

oh yeah that too but I havnt got to ask her yet becuase she hasnt called me back yet(called her at 4:30 its now 5:56)left a message

[Gargar]

well all I can say is dont keep calling her dont call her annymore than once or you will start looking a bit obsesive just wait untill you see her at school and ask if she dosent call her back or ask her friends

[lightsdark]

I only called her once and I only planned on calling her once today I know about all that stuff.(my close friend says the same thing and I new that before he told me)

[Gargar]

lol yeah but this chick when was the last ti'me you saw her?

you have aol would be easyer to talk on that

[lightsdark]

got yahoo but not aol and a saw her for like 30 sec today thats when that hall thing happend

[Gargar]

ok pm you yahoo name ill talk to you on there

[lightsdark]

alright don't know how long I can for though(about 30 min or so)I'm gonna leave with my friend to his girlfriends house (gonna do some work for her dad (they live on a farm) for some quick cash)

[Gargar]

you ganna tell me it? and next ti'me you see her just say hi and she if she ignors you

[jillian]

Okay, firstly, please speak in sentences. Punctuation is really a lovely thing, it lets people not have to squint and wonder what you're trying to convey.

Nextly... she was just being a flirt... if she doesn't want to talk to you anymore, is it a big deal to you? Girls tend to do those sorts of things. You have to learn to live with it and get over her, ya know? And don't call her if you only talked to her twice a few weeks ago or whatever.... she probably will get freaked out...

[Gargar]

well jillian dose give better advice than me.
and I think it was a big deal to hi'm because he wanted to ask her to homecomming. I dont like to use punctuation lol but I can if I want to.

[jillian]

Oh... see, now, I totally missed that part. *smile*

[lightsdark]

see trever can understand it I'm no stupid. I write funny no you think I good lol. I was really really hungry when I wrote that becuase I hadn't eatin at all so I was screwin up really bad(low blood sugar thing)