51 replies to this topic

[sissy]

hey  I'm glad u signed me up !
right now it's 3:09 and my big bro's over dillon .
I hope your going to be on freakymama







                                                                                    love,sissy

[freakymama]

Hi Baby, go to your messages and try to talk to me there. If that doesnt work, then talk to me here.

Hey guys, sorry for this post being here, but sissy is 10 and new and we havent talked.

So please deal with it.

And sissy, remember to log out so Judy cant get in here and see what the heck is going on.

[sissy]

OK mom love u
miss u too          

[freakymama]

Go to top right corner and hit messages. Then go to where you can put my name in and add subject. Then type me a message. Hit send.

Hpoe this is right.

If not did Dillon get his presents and $$$$. 
Also did Dillon get his Birthday presents with THE LETTER we wrote hi'm? And did he get it at Ralphs?

Just stay here if that works best for you. And let me know when you have to log off, if someone makes you get off the comp.

Hi Hydro, I see you down there!

Sissy R you there? Type faster!

Edited by freakymama, 28 December 2004 - 03:32 PM.

[Noitidart]

oh and when you login make sure you don't select the "Remember Me" check box. so if someone enters the room u can just hit close and it automatically logs you out

[freakymama]

We live together, but we have to send her down to her grandmas house, 375 miles away, for visitation, per court ordered.  I am sissy's step mom and have raised her for 5 years. She is at her biological moms, moms house. (her grandmas).
And it isn't a good place for children to be.

The grandma had 6 children and all have been in serious trouble with the law.
And this is where my baby girl is right now!

[sissy]

I can't figure it out , I evenwent under help but  it didn't :ermm: .

[Hydrogen]

do you see that thing on the top right that says 0 new messages? thats what you click...then on the left side, click compose new message...its just like sending an email after that

[ShadowLink64]

hmm.. this is the first thread NeoCodex has ever had of this kind.

[freakymama]

Hi Baby girl, I know your not on here right now, as I don't see you in the names of people who are listed at the moment. :ermm: .

While we were talking the site went down and, well, I guess the rest was history. What bad ti'ming .

When you do get on here, keep in touch. I'm sure it is ok for us to B right here posting for all our community to read, because nobody has yelled at us yet . Thanks Guys! .

I will B off and on here throughout the remaining ti'me you R gone, so just keep posting me anyti'me you can .

I miss you and love you the mostest, and give Bran a hug and kiss from Daddy and me. Please also tell me every  thing is fine or not, as you know I worry .

Can't wait to hear from you, please hurry home.(Sunday)     

[ShadowLink64]

It is perfectly fine for this thread to stay here. We have no problems and I understand your situation

[freakymama]

Thanks Shadow .

And NBU, you can spam all U like on this one .

I just got off the phone with my baby girl, and for once her grandma let us talk to her with out a problem.

Usually we call down there and they never answer the phone. They just let it ring and ring. So we have to call the police to do a well child check to make sure they R ok. And we call the police for good reason.

It wouldnt B so bad if the house had good people inside of it., but seriously, the grandma had 6 kids, they are all over 18 years old. Every one of them has been in jail . Everyone of them is or has been involved in drugs . Three of the 6 have been in PRISON , one is still in there . They R in there for things such as: being the shooter in a drive by shooting, Drugs and trafficing, stealing credit cards and trying to use them, etc...  .

And this is where we have to send our 2 children. Sis is 10, and Brandon is 5.
The same Judge that has put 3 of this grandmas kids in prison, is the same Judge that makes us send our kids into this house .

What is wrong with this picture?

[Sean]

wow why doesnt the judge let them stay with yall?

[Neo]

'Tis very wacko

Does the judge want some young children ending up in trouble or something, I mean seriously, couldnt their grandma to your house?

Then you could have peace of mind that they are ok, and not getting any bad influences etc.

[KillerPrince]

Now That's just F***ed up.

[freakymama]

If only life was so easy .

We have been fighting this battle for about a little over 4 years now .
I met my hubby 5 years ago and he had his daughter, the mom came and kidnapped her and gave her to the grandma and then she went back to bad living and ended up in prison. But the grandma was raising the little guy so we went through the court system to do it right and we got full becausetody of them both after thousands of dollars and 8 months in court.
Now although we have full becausetody, the Judge granted the grandma visitation at her house, even years spring break (1 week). 1 month every summer, even years Thanksgiving, and every year Christmas break starting Dec.26th to the Sunday right before school.

It wouldnt be bad if the grandma had good kids that were Good! But every single one of them has been in major trouble. Maybe one of them works, none of them graduated. They have cops at the house on a regular basis, the youngest was just arrested for theft and they have major drug problems that this judge knows about. It is FREAKIN insane!

Get a load of this,
First is the oldest. She is aprox 35 yrs old and she has had herione fed exed to the house while living with the grandma. No sh*t! That was quite along ti'me ago, but I guess her life is still messed up.
Next is the mom of the kids. She is about 29 and is currently in a treatment hospital for 4 months of not being able to leave the hospital. She is in inpatient treatment for Meth (drugs). Not to mention, she has bought pot right in front of my daughter with her brother . The reason she is in treatment is because she peed dirty for her parol officer. She was just released from prison in June for trying to use stolden bank cards. She was also in prison before that on drug related charges and some other stuff. And she has 3 children, two of which we have and take care of, but the oldest isn't my hubs, or we would have hi'm too.
Next is I believe is a guy who is 27. He is currently in prison for charges that I believe have to do with drugs and other stuff. I believe his sentance is for 8 years, but am not positive. He has 2 children.
Then there is a girl who is aprox 26. She is living at the grandmas house and just had her second baby. That makes two. She is very bad into drugs and drinking and has been to jail a numerious amount of ti'mes.
Then is the next guy. He is 22 and has been in and out of jail constintly.He to lives at grandmas and is to have NO contact with either child. He was released from prison about almost 2 years ago for being the shooter in a drive by shooting. Since released, he has been arrested about 3 ti'mes. For breaking and entering, drug parapanilia, assult etc...
And last but surely not least is the youngest girl. She is 18 or 19 and started doing Meth at the young age of 15, when my kids' mom introduced it to her. She is now in the same footsteps as the others and was arrested for theft earlier this year. Plus she had her boyfriend living with her at grandmas house dealing drugs out of the basement.

AND WE R COURT ORDERED TO SEND OUR KIDS DOWN THERE FOR VISITATION!

[Bahbuu]

wow wut the heck is wrong with the judge still granting the evil grandma havin a few days with ur children!?

I mean..datz some screwed up grandma indeed O.o

the grandma has such bad family record... why would the judge do that!?

wut the heck!?  :blink:

I feel bad for u freakymama... and ur children...

lets hope the evil grandma dun influence ur children to do any evil stuff....

Edited by Bahbuu, 30 December 2004 - 04:11 AM.

[Vega]

Law ... It really stinks, my nephew of 8 years old has to live with his father who is always drinking and doesn't work, and his mom is just as normal as us (most of us). No one understands why the hell he has to stay with his father.

[xx_WLT_xx]

Wow! A whole family of bad people! and sending kids over there? No way, I even wouldn't let my little bro learn things that aren't needed at the right age

[Leo]

Family at neocodex, can u feel the love?

[freakymama]

There is lot's of love around here .

And who knows what the judge is thinking?

But believe it or not... The Grandmas son, who was the shooter in the drive by shooting, used to date the Judges daughter :ermm: . Yeah...go figure .

They even got in trouble with the law before together .

By the way everyone, I made it so Sissy can't get on here while down there now. I think it B best .

If the grandma hasn't already figured out a way to get on here and see what is going on in our little community.

Lord knows, she is an awfull person with no sence of morals or how to raise children with them.

[Vega]

That really makes me sad. I hope I won't get into a situation like that when I'm older.

[freakymama]

Life is full of things we don't understand . And there is alot of bad and evil in this world , it just makes me sad that children have to deal with so much, while so young and can't speak out for themselves till there 13 years old.

In the long run, I believe God will take this matter and do what is right. I do believe in God. I don't always understand God, but I do always trust in hi'm. Now if he would just hurry it up!

I'm waiting...........

[Hanneh]

Can I just say one thing : Druggies aren't always bad.

[freakymama]

I can also say one thing...Show me a good one   .

I myself have known many, and I can honestly say I would trust NOT ONE of them in my house or with my children.

They dont call it DOPE because it makes you SMART.

And if your talking about just pot, well that is the lesser of all the evils. But this family isn't into JUST pot. I would trust a pot head, but by far not a meth-head, crank skank, or a cracker...I mean who really would?

If you would, well good luck out there in that world. I've seen it first hand and it's hell!  I'll pass on thoes people in my life or around my kids! :ermm: