56 replies to this topic

[Sean]

Okayy.... There's this girl at my school wants my bod (lol, exaggeration, but it sounded good), and she's pretty cute. I was thinking about getting with her or something.. but a couple of my buddies told me she has a weird ear. Personally, I haven't seen it, and have gotten a different story from everybody who I have asked, but it's pretty much completely turned me off of her, even though I've never seen it.


Does that make me terribly shallow and horrible?
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Whats a good way to get a look at a girl's ear who always wears her hair down?

[Lemonblood]

Wow you're shallow, /cough /asthmaattack

[Kitchwa]

Looks don't count for everything, but they do help . Personality is another good thing to look out for. If she has a good personality, and that ear or whatever isn't as weird as your friends say, go for it .

[Sean]

Looks don't count for everything, but they do help . Personality is another good thing to look out for. If she has a good personality, and that ear or whatever isn't as weird as your friends say, go for it .

She's pretty nice, I guess. I haven't really taken much time to get to know her.

[Bryan]

Well, easiest way is to convince her you have an ear fetish, than let it rip.


You're young. Youngen's demand perfection! Hah, I made myself laugh. Get drunk, ear fuck her, and then move on to the next one =)

[Kitchwa]

Well, easiest way is to convince her you have an ear fetish, than let it rip.
You're young. Youngen's demand perfection! Hah, I made myself laugh. Get drunk, ear fuck her, and then move on to the next one =)

What you just said, was ever so disturbing
ANd not all youngins demand perfection. Nobodys perfect , so we demand near perfection or something like that

[Bryan]

What you just said, was ever so disturbing
ANd not all youngins demand perfection. Nobodys perfect , so we demand near perfection or something like that

Lies! I'm Asian. I am perfection.

[Alex]

Lies! I'm Asian. I am perfection.

You dont look asian in your pictures

If you think she's cute, don't let some weird ear thing get in the way. Cut off the ear I say.

No but seriously, if you like her go for it.

[Bryan]

You dont look asian in your pictures

If you think she's cute, don't let some weird ear thing get in the way. Cut off the ear I say.

No but seriously, if you like her go for it.

You've caught me =( I'm only a poser Asian. Filipino/Pacific Islander . I still am perfection though.

[jillian]

You haven't talked to her but you are pretty sure you want to hook up with her, barring the fact that she has a weird ear? Wow.

First off, if you're gonna just hook up to hook up, don't be a jerk - tell her you're not into anything serious before you do anything. Maybe it's just cause I'm a chick but that works more often than you'd imagine, and saves a lot of pain in the long run. And if you're silly enough to be weirded out by ears you've never seen, forget about it anyway, forgive me for saying this, but it is possible to be too shallow for a one-night stand.

If you're honestly looking for a relationship, her ear shouldn't matter.

[foogie]

dude. that really IS a bit shallow.

for christ's sake, you're not fucking her ear...

and she is obviously self conscious about it if she wears hairstyles that conceal it, so you're not gonna have to be staring at it all night anyhow.

god.

[Redblade]

You haven't talked to her but you are pretty sure you want to hook up with her, barring the fact that she has a weird ear? Wow.

First off, if you're gonna just hook up to hook up, don't be a jerk - tell her you're not into anything serious before you do anything. Maybe it's just cause I'm a chick but that works more often than you'd imagine, and saves a lot of pain in the long run. And if you're silly enough to be weirded out by ears you've never seen, forget about it anyway, forgive me for saying this, but it is possible to be too shallow for a one-night stand.

If you're honestly looking for a relationship, her ear shouldn't matter.

Agree.
Perhaps you could try hanging out to see whether you feel good having her around, hanging out with her etc. Yea, and you'll need to make it clear before all this that you guys will not be getting serious at the moment

[nox]

gotta be like "u haff sumsing in ur hairs!!" ten take a peak at them big dumbo ears.

yer friends are prolly jealous cause they are stuck with their hand

for the topic question, yea you're as shallow as it gets

[Frizzle]

Bang her and leave.

[shabba]

gotta be like "u haff sumsing in ur hairs!!" ten take a peak at them big dumbo ears.

yer friends are prolly jealous cause they are stuck with their hand

for the topic question, yea you're as shallow as it gets

HAHAHA!

Yeah just take a peek tell her a secret and whisper it in her ear and take a sneaky look but yeh are pretty shallow

[cara]

Okay well first off, if you're a virgin (I dont fucking know, if he is or isnt so nobody come in here all OMG HOW CAN YOU NOT KNOW!? >_> ) you shouldnt even have those thoughts, in my deepest opinion. If you've never had sex before, why waste the first try with some chick who you dont know that "wants your bod"?
OKOK I know Ive heard it before and said it, losing your virginity all specially is overrated, but I dunno, at least get to know her and date her for a while. Maybe youre even making all this shit up in your head and she wants you physically but before anything like that she wants to actually get to know you?
You should also take into consideration if she's a virgin. If she is, shame on you for wanting a one night stand with this stranger, as much as its her problem for wanting it, you shouldnt give it.
Unless this thread was actually saying how you want to date her then fuck her. You werent very clear so w/e. /shrugs

And also go what with Jillian said, imo. She may be looking for a bit more then a one night stand and letting her know before she has sex with you would be nice. I like boys who are up front about their motives, even if they sound pervy or shallow.
And yes. Being turned off by something that you cant even see does make you shallow.
And imo, just to throw in here, one night stands are also way overrated. I dont seriously see why men have a problem with being and fucking one girl and also having a meaningful relationship. Mentally emotionless sex is no compare to meaningful sex with someone you actually like for who she or he is.
And yeah thats it. -coughs- /walks out

Best of luck with her though.
edit; oh noses I wrote a lot. Sorry if there's typos, no way Im rereading that.

Edited by cara, 04 January 2007 - 10:41 AM.

[Sean]

Yeah, I think I'll leave her alone. It would probably make me look bad in the long run.

[Jeff]

Same thing happened to me, Sean. When we were on a Washington D.C. trip for school, this girl that I'd liked for a while started to like me. While we were on the tour bus, going around and stuff, we always talked and stuff. Then my friends noticed a little spot on here head that didn't have a lot of hair and that just...totally turned me off. Eventually, I noticed that it really WASN'T a friggin bald spot, but it was the way she was wearing her hair >.>

[pieman]

ya that would make you a bad person in my eyes , its an ear for Christ's sake

[Jeff]

Okay well first off, if you're a virgin (I dont fucking know, if he is or isnt so nobody come in here all OMG HOW CAN YOU NOT KNOW!? >_> ) you shouldnt even have those thoughts, in my deepest opinion. If you've never had sex before, why waste the first try with some chick who you dont know that "wants your bod"?
OKOK I know Ive heard it before and said it, losing your virginity all specially is overrated, but I dunno, at least get to know her and date her for a while. Maybe youre even making all this shit up in your head and she wants you physically but before anything like that she wants to actually get to know you?
You should also take into consideration if she's a virgin. If she is, shame on you for wanting a one night stand with this stranger, as much as its her problem for wanting it, you shouldnt give it.
Unless this thread was actually saying how you want to date her then fuck her. You werent very clear so w/e. /shrugs

And also go what with Jillian said, imo. She may be looking for a bit more then a one night stand and letting her know before she has sex with you would be nice. I like boys who are up front about their motives, even if they sound pervy or shallow.
And yes. Being turned off by something that you cant even see does make you shallow.
And imo, just to throw in here, one night stands are also way overrated. I dont seriously see why men have a problem with being and fucking one girl and also having a meaningful relationship. Mentally emotionless sex is no compare to meaningful sex with someone you actually like for who she or he is.
And yeah thats it. -coughs- /walks out

Best of luck with her though.
edit; oh noses I wrote a lot. Sorry if there's typos, no way Im rereading that.

I think Sean's 13...no one night stands for him o.o

[Sean]

I think Sean's 13...no one night stands for him o.o

Yeah, I wasn't gonna sex her, I guess I didn't read your posts well enough

[Frizzle]

p1_1ssy. Don't take advice of a 12 yr old pre-pube virgin that is cara.

Edited by Frizzle, 04 January 2007 - 11:50 AM.

[cara]

Lmao. -snort-
Right because thats all very correct, lee dear.

Youre just upset I offended your one night stand nature.
Sue me.

And I liked meatball better, anyways.

edit okokok. leave me alone now. I cant be mean, I admit it. OK? Ok. Im trying this new thing where I attempt not to get warned on the boards. Only attempt to start with me after my current warns are gone.

Edited by cara, 04 January 2007 - 11:53 AM.

[Justin]

Okay well first off, if you're a virgin (I dont fucking know, if he is or isnt so nobody come in here all OMG HOW CAN YOU NOT KNOW!? >_> )

OMG HOW CAN YOU NOT KNOW?!

Sean, how old are you? I thought you were a bit young

[Frizzle]

Look cara, time to give up the charade. It's really old and immature, you haven't done half the shit you said you have done so basically what I'm saying is, go outside and get experience with the things we are talking about before ranting here.