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#1 Raillery

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Posted 09 June 2007 - 12:59 PM



The accident wasn't nearly as bad as it looks, but it was scary was hell. I was making a right turn, going to speed limit and everything, and, well, I "lost control." That's the story that the girl that was with me and I are telling everyone at least. Anyway, I lost control and went up on the curb and immediately I was staring down a pole head on. I had probably, .25-.5 seconds to react and steer so that we wouldn't hit it right with the middle of the car. Somethign clicked in me, and I just spun the wheel to the left and was able to simply graze it.

However, as you can see by the pictures, a simple graze left a lot of damage. The poles are made to come down to reduce injury if you are to hit them head on, and it didn't come down so I obviously didn't hit it too hard. Got back on the road, turned the car off and just sat there in shock for like five seconds. Two aquaintances of mine ran up to the car and saw sarah, the girl i was with, first and asked her what happened. The girl aquaintence then ran up to me (I was still in the car) freaking out asking if I was sober (I was, 100%).

We decided to get out of the car as something was leaking in the front and we didn't know what it was. I called my parents, told them what happened and we just stood there for probably a minute and then the cops roll up. They asked what happened, I explained and they started accusing me of speeding. The one cop would not let it go, he must have asked me literally 7 times throughout the night if I was speeding. I wasn't. dry.gif

Anyway, Sarah then calls her parents and lets them know what happened and they are on their way. I get the officer my lisence, he asks for insurance and I remember that I didn't have recent insurance in the car and I had told my parents multiple times that I needed it and they hadn't done anything. I act like I'm looking for it, my parents pull up and I tell them the deal. They talk with the one cop and run home to get the insurance.

Sarah's mom and brother pull up and I just feel horrible at this point. She's hispanic and her parents can be very strict at times. They didn't want her riding in cars with teenagers for this very reason and they trusted me (She tells me all the time how much her parents love me) and now I believed that was all ruined. This is probably what, at the time, affected me the most. The whole reputation factor. The asshole cop leaves and it's just the two families and the cool cop.

We just are all standing there thankful no one got hurt, the cop gives us the low down of what's going to happen and he proceeds to go into his car to begin writing the tickets. Sarah and her family are about to leave and I give her mother a hug and then give Sarah a nice long one, felt really good. =]

That's basically it. The cop writes the tickets, I'm charged with failure to remain on the road, failure to reduce speed, and destruction to government property. I have a court date but I forget when it is.

This accident really did change me. It happened on the 7th and all I could think about yesterday was how lucky I am that no one got hurt. I can't imagine if Sarah would have gotten hurt what that would have done to me. I would have been a mess. She is one of the most important people in my life right now, and knowing that for a brief second, we were both staring down death and I was in control of her life, it's a weird feeling. I was given a ride home from a lan party yesterday from a friend who drives nearly the exact same car as me, and it was so weird looking at the passenger side and thinking "What if."

I'm so happy everyone is okay and the only damages are monetary (and maybe a little mental damages for me :-p). I appreciate life in a different way now, I cherish my friendship with Sarah to a whole new level and this accident could possibly bring about a lot of good.

Life is way too frail. People don't realize it. I wish everyone did.

Edit: Wow just looking at the pictures sends shivers down my spine =/

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    #2 Charmender

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    Posted 09 June 2007 - 01:10 PM

    Nice wreck, id be more pissed that my car was barked than anything.

    #3 Raillery

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    Posted 09 June 2007 - 01:16 PM

    QUOTE(CaluM @ Jun 9 2007, 05:10 PM) View Post
    Nice wreck, id be more pissed that my car was barked than anything.


    I'm definetly upset that I have such a monetary setback, but the reputation factor is huuuuuuuuuuge. Everyone is asking me how i allowed it to happen, if sarah is mad at me, etc etc.

    But, i'm so thankful we're okay that it balances out.

    #4 SupermanFTM

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    Posted 09 June 2007 - 01:51 PM

    Yeah, I guess so. I always get into those "life is too frail thoughts", but they wear off eventually tongue.gif Still, that sucks, sorry that happened. But...how DID it happen?

    #5 philywilly

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    Posted 09 June 2007 - 02:05 PM

    Don't really know you, but glad you're ok. You've been really lucky and it's good that this will give you a new perspective on life.

    #6 Raillery

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    Posted 09 June 2007 - 02:08 PM

    QUOTE(SupermanFTM @ Jun 9 2007, 05:51 PM) View Post
    Yeah, I guess so. I always get into those "life is too frail thoughts", but they wear off eventually tongue.gif Still, that sucks, sorry that happened. But...how DID it happen?


    Can't say whistling.gif . We were fooling around and something went wrong, wasn't my fault and she has a lot of guilt to deal with. unsure.gif

    #7 ToxicS

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    Posted 09 June 2007 - 03:09 PM

    Ouch.. I have your license plate number now, muhaha (Thinks of evil things to do)

    #8 Raillery

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    Posted 09 June 2007 - 03:29 PM

    QUOTE(Toxic-Snipe @ Jun 9 2007, 07:09 PM) View Post
    Ouch.. I have your license plate number now, muhaha (Thinks of evil things to do)


    Not much I bet rolleyes.gif

    #9 Black Flame

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    Posted 09 June 2007 - 03:41 PM

    Damn that's quite the "simple graze" you made! tongue.gif

    In all seriousness, glad you and everyone else is ok. However the accident happened, I guess the best you can do is learn from it smile.gif

    #10 Tetiel

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    Posted 09 June 2007 - 05:09 PM

    So you say that's what you're telling everyone 'anyways' is that the real story then? blink.gif I mean if it isn't though I do understand. But I do hope though for your sake that they find something wrong with the steering in your car and it'll all end up being a manufacturers error and not your own so insurance might cover it then or something sad.gif But it's funny how accidents always make you appreciate life. It's really scary but thank god no one got hurt. I'm just glad though that no one else's car was involved or you might have to go through what my sister did where this guy was faking back pains and tried to sue her sad.gif

    #11 Tim

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    Posted 09 June 2007 - 05:47 PM

    QUOTE(Tetiel @ Jun 9 2007, 09:09 PM) View Post
    So you say that's what you're telling everyone 'anyways' is that the real story then? blink.gif


    QUOTE('Raillery')
    Can't say whistling.gif . We were fooling around and something went wrong, wasn't my fault and she has a lot of guilt to deal with. unsure.gif


    I'd probably make up a story, too. Assuming fooling around was meant in a sexual way.

    #12 phalkon

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    Posted 09 June 2007 - 07:59 PM

    your battery got pwn'd.

    dude, i know *exactly* what you went through. about november last year, i got rear-ended by this stupid old bitch while i was merging on the freeway (yeah, i was giving someone in my platoon a ride to the dentist office). luckily, i was able to swerve enough that she only hit the corner of the bumper and i was literally able to pop the dent out, and snap it back into place. but the other person's car looked almost exactly like how your car looks, except her front bumper wasn't hanging off.

    yeah, it cost me a couple hundred bucks with ticket fees, but i'm just happy the lady didn't try to sue. even the officer said it was a bad spot!

    so yeah dude, i feel ya

    you'll get through this and i'm sure you'll be stronger for it. (hell, i still freak out some times when i merge and it's really busy sad.gif)

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    Posted 09 June 2007 - 09:15 PM

    By lost control do you mean you were drifting around the turn? 1we8.gif Cause thats something my friends would do 1we8.gif

    #14 Raillery

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    Posted 09 June 2007 - 10:08 PM

    QUOTE(Tim @ Jun 9 2007, 09:47 PM) View Post
    I'd probably make up a story, too. Assuming fooling around was meant in a sexual way.


    Haha, no it wasn't. I have to think of a new way to put it, everyone is thinking i was getting a favor while driving.

    QUOTE(Hawk @ Jun 10 2007, 01:15 AM) View Post
    By lost control do you mean you were drifting around the turn? 1we8.gif Cause thats something my friends would do 1we8.gif


    No i wasn't, I wasn't doing anything that would jeprodize myself or her.

    #15 Jakezilla

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    Posted 09 June 2007 - 10:46 PM

    Tell us, damn you!

    #16 Gnome

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    Posted 10 June 2007 - 07:40 AM

    Sigh 2 of my friends got in a drunk car accident last night. They flipped their car. I dunno if they're alright or not.

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    Posted 10 June 2007 - 07:54 AM

    Ouch is all I can say. I have to say though that I'm glad you're still here to post. smile.gif

    #18 Raillery

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    Posted 10 June 2007 - 11:14 AM

    QUOTE(//.Razor @ Jun 10 2007, 02:46 AM) View Post
    Tell us, damn you!


    Nope, can't do it. It's not even that big of a deal, but it goes with me to my grave. We decided.

    QUOTE(Gnome @ Jun 10 2007, 11:40 AM) View Post
    Sigh 2 of my friends got in a drunk car accident last night. They flipped their car. I dunno if they're alright or not.


    I'm assuming they were the drunk ones? I'm sorry to hear that, i really am. Hopefully they made it out alright and I believe being drunk gives you a better chance of surviving and accident so you always have that to hope for I suppose.

    QUOTE(jc301290 @ Jun 10 2007, 11:54 AM) View Post
    Ouch is all I can say. I have to say though that I'm glad you're still here to post. smile.gif


    Me too.

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    Posted 10 June 2007 - 11:24 AM

    If you don't want us to know, you would of not posted about it tongue.gif

    #20 XenoCyde

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    Posted 10 June 2007 - 11:28 AM

    Thats pretty sucky man, hope you get your car and everything you need to get sorted.

    #21 Hater_Boxden

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    Posted 10 June 2007 - 03:10 PM

    i actually got into an accident two weeks ago, it wasnt my car but it was totalled and i got pretty hurt =(. Well its just good that you are ok. Insurance rates are going to suck though.

    #22 ZERO

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    Posted 10 June 2007 - 04:46 PM

    Lmao wheres the damn insurance lizard NOW?!



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    Posted 10 June 2007 - 05:33 PM

    good, i hope they take away your license.

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    Posted 10 June 2007 - 08:20 PM

    eech.

    My first accident was with Carl, my big tough old ford. I was making a left turn across a lane, and some speeding bastard hit the back end of my truck.

    in this pic, you can see a bit of the little dent they made (my dad used his bobcat and straightened it out a bit)


    I drove away from the accident with that little dent, but the SUV that hit me was smashed right up to the windshield. XD

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    #25 Raillery

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    Posted 11 June 2007 - 11:27 AM

    QUOTE(Green Meanies @ Jun 10 2007, 07:10 PM) View Post
    i actually got into an accident two weeks ago, it wasnt my car but it was totalled and i got pretty hurt =(. Well its just good that you are ok. Insurance rates are going to suck though.


    Wait, were you driving another car or just riding?

    QUOTE(nox @ Jun 10 2007, 09:33 PM) View Post
    good, i hope they take away your license.


    Thanks for your support. I appreciate it. I'm actually a good driver dry.gif

    QUOTE(foogie @ Jun 11 2007, 12:20 AM) View Post
    eech.

    My first accident was with Carl, my big tough old ford. I was making a left turn across a lane, and some speeding bastard hit the back end of my truck.



    I drove away from the accident with that little dent, but the SUV that hit me was smashed right up to the windshield. XD

    FORDS RULE!


    Did your car spin out unsure.gif that would have scarred me beyond belief.

    And why didn't your insurance pay for the damage? If the suv was smashed up to the windshield, i doubt it could have driven away.



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