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[Waser Lave]

I think I said a few times that this isnt an option right now because of how busy we are. My semester is loaded and I would never have any time to take her out.

There's no reason that you can't spend time together and revise too. You could study together or if you're doing Shakespeare in school for example you could go see a play together or other bollocks like that.

[Ali]

There's no reason that you can't spend time together and revise too. You could study together or if you're doing Shakespeare in school for example you could go see a play together or other bollocks like that.

Is that how you get all the laydeez?

[Frizzle]

Is that how you get all the laydeez?

If he's taking them to Shakespeare and plays then obviously not getting any "laydeez".

[Waser Lave]

Is that how you get all the laydeez?

Totally, can't beat a bit of Henry V for getting the laydeez going. You knows...

[Sida]

There's no reason that you can't spend time together and revise too. You could study together or if you're doing Shakespeare in school for example you could go see a play together or other bollocks like that.

Lol, my ex was helping me revise for an exam (obviously wasn't my ex at the time). Whenever I got an answer right on the practise tests I did, she'd reward me I think that's the only time I've managed to do more than look at the first question.

[Ali]

If he's taking them to Shakespeare and plays then obviously not getting any "laydeez".

He might be getting the intellectual ones.

Totally, can't beat a bit of Henry V for getting the laydeez going. You knows...

I don't know, was never a fan of the historical ones.

[Waser Lave]

I don't know, was never a fan of the historical ones.

I suspect it was the tights which did it.

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I find they give my legs a wonderful shape, they just can't resist.

He might be getting the intellectual ones.

I never really saw the point to the stupid ones tbh, besides the obvious.

[Frizzle]

He might be getting the ugly ones.

[Ali]

Oh, I don't know, there's some pretty and clever girls out there. Natalie Portman for instance.

[Frizzle]

I stand by my point.

[Ali]

I stand by my point.

Ermmmm...Kate Beckinsale? Rachel Weisz? Emilia Fox? There's definitely some out there.

[Tetiel]

Some people have extremely high ideals on what love actually is and she obviously thinks you're just infatuated with her as opposed to love which is probably true considering the time amount. I mean hell, they've even found that there is a chemical difference between love and infatuation. You should just believe what she's said like other people have told you to. If she says she really likes you, then she really likes you. Why would she go to prom with you if she didn't? She's just smart enough to make sure she doesn't use the word love unless she's absolutely sure she knows and she doesn't want the same for you. It takes relationships places sometimes where they're really not ready to go (especially if you guys aren't even going out for goodness sakes!)

[Vegas]

From what you wrote I think she likes you.

One thing I think every guy knows is that what a girl shows on the outside, could be the exact opposite on what she feels on the inside. Right now she might be feeling the same exact things as you, nervous and shit, but seems cool and calm.

It seems you don't know her that well yet, cuz u said you only started to like her at the prom so just try to slowly build upon things(talking/trust). Don't try to force something but doesn't mean pussying out on asking her out/chill.

In my experience, the start of relationships is the easy part. Its the maintaining the relationship after you guys been going out for a bit that I think becomes sometimes tricky.

[saif]

Depends on the age really but you seem 14-17?
Should be alright man just chill down a bit and not let your testosterone take over your mind to be honest. Cos we you really like someone, you can really think an apple is a banana and a donkey is a monkey...
Just hang out more, go for dinners, watch movies together etc... As you progress you'll know what to do without others giving advice they probably may lead you to fault.
And really to be honest, you gotta differentiate between lust, like and love.
Love is really hard to truly find imotbh.

Take it easy man! Don't let your thoughts warp your reality!
I think you guys can be together~

[ShadowLink64]

Yeah, I think a lot of inexperienced people (and experienced?) succumb or dwell too much on the flood of thoughts like "Will this last forever?", "What changes will I need to make in my life because of this?", etc...

The reality is this: live the life the way you did before, except spend time with them obviously. Relax and don't worry about too much shit. It doesn't have to be every day either, since that might even get unhealthy (everyone needs their own space). With school and stuff you guys can still be together, it just maybe won't be as often as you both hope?

And also, about those thoughts, if something comes up and there is a change that you're not comfortable with or school really is too time-consuming, you can always end the relationship. At least you tried it out and saw what it was like. A fair number of people remain friends after coming to that understanding.

[Noitidart]

Shoot I throw out love like it means nothing to me So when I really need to say it... It's gonna be hard proving I mean it rofl!! I say I love you to every other person walking down the road. Even guys Its funny as heck

Oh I read your story muse. It was an awesome night it looks like. Don't try to throw yourself on her. Get her to come after you. This is done by not throwing yourself on her
It depends on the girl really but from what I read I think yeah don't chase her
Go on with your life and have some interaction with her when she's there. Let things lead

[artificial]

Why are Amerifags fucked up?

Just bone the bitch and move on like all hetro men. Unless you homo.



Oh god, it's worse then I thought..

Darwinism proved wrong.

I call virgin.

[ShadowLink64]

I call virgin.

Is there something wrong with that?

[artificial]

Only if you act like Frizzle.


I was taking the piss. Nothing wrong with it.

/leaves for a while.

[Tetiel]

Only if you act like Frizzle.


I was taking the piss. Nothing wrong with it.

/leaves for a while.

Hi XthCannon/Alex

[ShadowLink64]

Only if you act like Frizzle.


I was taking the piss. Nothing wrong with it.

/leaves for a while.

You know, it's really hard to tell when people are joking on the internet...

[rockage]

There's no reason that you can't spend time together and revise too. You could study together or if you're doing Shakespeare in school for example you could go see a play together or other bollocks like that.

you say bollocks and pillocks too...nooooooooooooooooooooo

[Sunset]

Long story short, you said the L word when you have only kissed the girl and she still is into dating you or whatever yeah then she likes you by the sounds of it. I was going out with a guy 3 days he told me he loved me I called it off (mind you the huge teddy bear saying i love you didn't help either) just take your time date her a little more, if you still like eachother ask her out and in time maybe say it again. The End

[Germ]

Alright well, thanks for the help guys, but I just have a few more things to say. In her message she says that she doesn't beleive in it and will not for a long time. I actually did not mean 'love' as in actual love but as in I like you too. My mistake. However, when she says she does not beleive in it, does that mean she is not looking for a relationship or perhaphs she can't see us in a relationship? A week before prom she went out and partied. She got drunk and made out with a different guy at 3 different parties. I was obviously upset and she apologized to me because she cared for me. She told me what happened even though she did not need too because she is single. Though if she cannot see us in a relationship, I am unsure if it is because im not the right kind of person or she likes another guy whom she hasen't said anything about.

Im taking her out this weekend to the movies. I plan to move in a little closer. Her best friend sits behind me in my English class and I was wondering if I should ask her if Rey can ever see us in a relationship. Is this a good idea? im gonna ask her to keep it between us two but she may go and tell since they are best friends.

What do you guys think?

[ShadowLink64]

Alright well, thanks for the help guys, but I just have a few more things to say. In her message she says that she doesn't beleive in it and will not for a long time. I actually did not mean 'love' as in actual love but as in I like you too. My mistake. However, when she says she does not beleive in it, does that mean she is not looking for a relationship or perhaphs she can't see us in a relationship?

Yeah, they just can't quite pick up context though. Love is only a strong word if you make it out to be one, and 9/10 times they attach it to the "strong" connotation.

Well that's vague of her, lol. Believe in what?