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[Noitidart]

When you said stuff did you go over the top and like exaggerate? Maybe thats why he censored? Does blaze have an account on here?
All people are great, I know your relationship had problems but that doesnt mean I should stop liking someone. Probably the two involved in the relationship will stop liking each other though. The chat I had with him and you about love was all the interaction I had with him and I loved that convo.

[Xwee]

No, it wasn't a matter of exageration, it was a matter of it was something he didn't want others to know. Like how he's living in his parents house right now, he threw a fit if I joined in on any of the playful flirting in IRC (which is semi-understandable) I'm not asking you to hate him, just giving my reasons why I wouldn't continue talking to him if it wasn't for the child I had with him.

Also, yes he had an account here, but the only thing he gets on anymore (last I checked) is mabinogi. Go download that, join the Alexina server, and look up blazey19 if you want to keep in contact with him.

[Georgina]

Blaze doesn't want me, and I could never forgive him for all the shit he's done to me. He censored everything I said on here, if he didn't like what I was saying then it didn't get said. He's hit me, choked me, and then mentally abused me so I think of myself as worthless. (still like blaze?) My friend is there supporting me not just with getting a place and such but he's there in moral support as well.

Been there too hun, its a shame because half of the guys personality is lovley and sweet and would do anything for you, and the other half is an over protective abusive control freak. Stayed with mine for 6 year, break up was hard but best thing i ever did! No baby involved though thank goodness - must be hard for you. <3

Edited by Georgina, 25 September 2010 - 05:39 AM.

[Xwee]

Latest update, I had been saying to blaze since before I left that I would visit on christmas to see my daughter.
So... They are going to Louisiana for Christmas and nothing pissed me off more than that.
I then asked if I could go by Thanksgiving or pick her up so she could come visit me. They are going to Texas for thanksgiving and never said that I could pick her up.

I'm fairly certain I'm going to have to fight a very fierce war to get my daughter to be able to live with me.

On the bright side, a surprise visit is planned in the future. Like as soon as possible.

Still think blaze is awesome? I think he's a #?*!ing conniving d#?*! that likes to win people over just so he always looks like the good guy.

Edited by Xwee, 29 October 2010 - 01:21 PM.

[Xwee]

Job fair coming up, also have a couple of other jobs that I hope to get something good from.

[Noitidart]

Aw dang Xwee. You should get to see your daughter.
Relationship issues are separate. Someone can be a great chat but a horrible spouse etc. I am rooting for you to be able to see your daughter though. I would love to chat with blaze some time though.
Why would you have to fight so hard to get your daughter to live with you. From where I'm from the kids always go with the mom in divorces. It might because of the multiple wives though.
Good luck at the job fair! I missed one yesterday. Be sure to take lots of resumes with you.

[luvsmyncis]

 

It might because of the multiple wives though.

Whut.

[InsertRandomNameHere]

Why would you have to fight so hard to get your daughter to live with you. From where I'm from the kids always go with the mom in divorces. It might because of the multiple wives though.

XD From what I know, the children is mostly decidedly on whether the mom/dad is mentally stable, have a stable income, etc

[MiladyM]

Children under 18 always go to the mother here as well, except in extreme cases. But thats ofcourse only in a perfect world.. very often doesn't work that easy Keep on fighting, she's worth it in the end right
Good luck with everything. Hope the job fair turns out well for you

[Xwee]

If you want to talk to blaze, join Mabinogi get on the server Alexina (the server at the top of the list) then look for Blazey19 and that will be your best bet.

No, I never married him, thank goodness for small favors. There was a time I wanted to, and he once proposed to me but kept trying to convince me not to marry him. Eventually I let it go. So though he called me his wife and I called him my husband, we didn't even qualify for legal marriage.

I'm going to miss the job fair, but I'll explain why that is at a later date. I sort of don't want to say anything yet but I will soon. Sorry for the suspense.

[Xwee]

Now, apparently they are going around saying I signed my rights away. I lived in my car for a month, came back to oklahoma once it got towed am staying at my bipolar mother's house cause no more funds to keep me in memphis, TN. Looking for a job, wishing my car was more reliable so that I can just go back to memphis cause I know I'm going to need will when/if it turns out that I will have hell getting my daughter.

On the bright side, I'm applying to return to college, and with those funds I'll get a laptop with a small portion of the money to use for college and talking on chat and getting back involved in the small minor social life I had online.

[iargue]

Good luck then


All are all awaiting your triumphant return!

[sonic]

This thread and its responses could be some of the dumbest shit ive seen on codex. ever.

[dolphinbomb]

This thread and its responses could be some of the dumbest shit ive seen on codex. ever.

I didn't know it was possible, but I actually agree with you. Holy shit.

[sonic]

I didn't know it was possible, but I actually agree with you. Holy shit.

dolphinbomb.
beeeeeoootccch.

You be steady lurking

[Xwee]

Okay, another update (though some of you aparently don't care.. oh well):

I decided to go visit Krysta and see about letting her stay the night. Short story, Chase's brother intended to come at me with a metal baseball bat. Now Blaze's brother Brian is about 6 ft, and somewhat muscular, he could have taken me out without the bat. Luckily an approaching officer had him on the ground otherwise I'd have been pulverised before I even knew that I was in any danger. Found out that they are saying I've been making threatening calls, sending threatening texts/e-mails. But as you all know I can't get on the internet on a regular basis. As for calling them, they changed their number (i guess.. since the number I had no longer worked and apparently they were supposed to be getting the phones back that day..) not long after I left.

Looks like a custody battle, hopefully me being young and gullible might make them realize that what I did wasn't entirely my fault. That I thought I was making the best choices, thought that they were just going to watch her for a little bit, and thought that the family and I were friends. Apparently not..

I hate him more each time crap like this happens.

[iargue]

This all sounds extremely horrible

[Xwee]

So the first monday after that, he then goes and files for a restraining order.. using the threat card again. When I went to fight it in the court-room, I was told it had been dismissed. The reason he dismissed it was he thought he had seen my car driving back and fort in front of his house, then realized it wasn't my car but a similar car. HELLO! My car has quite a distinctive little dent on the side that could be seen from a fair distance. Kind of retarded and annoying, but that's the current update.

Also I am going to college to study psychology, maybe one day I'll understand him.. who knows.

My plan of action now is to go see Krysta again when I can, then as chase's dad what is REALLY going on.. assuming he knows and will tell me the truth. I can't trust any of them anymore...

[Lineage]

So the first monday after that, he then goes and files for a restraining order.. using the threat card again. When I went to fight it in the court-room, I was told it had been dismissed. The reason he dismissed it was he thought he had seen my car driving back and fort in front of his house, then realized it wasn't my car but a similar car. HELLO! My car has quite a distinctive little dent on the side that could be seen from a fair distance. Kind of retarded and annoying, but that's the current update.

Also I am going to college to study psychology, maybe one day I'll understand him.. who knows.

My plan of action now is to go see Krysta again when I can, then as chase's dad what is REALLY going on.. assuming he knows and will tell me the truth. I can't trust any of them anymore...

This sounds horrible honey.
I am so, so sorry because no one deserves to go through all of this.
Hang in there!

[myob12345]

I don't know who you are, and I don't know how many people know you irl. Assuming any of the things you've been saying are even true, maybe you should go talk to a professional rather than a forum? You know, since you've been beaten and lived in a car? Especially since your alleged mother is allegedly bipolar (hereditary). There are free clinics/places where people can help you out and refer you. Have you tried that?

Edited by myob12345, 16 November 2010 - 04:04 PM.

[Noitidart]

Myob if any member is comfortable venting here without breaking rules then we are there for them. But thanks for giving her the tip on the professional options.

[Xwee]

okay, come monday I'll be going into court over the custody battle. Right now I get visitation and am going to college, when my grants/loans come in around feb. I should be getting a laptop if nothing comes up. So then I'll be able to get back on codex chat. Not sure how their reaction will be when i get custody back, but I just wanted to swing by and let those that know me and are wondering where I've gone what's been going on.

I miss all my codex chat friend. I wish you all a late merry christmas, happy new years, and a great day ^,^

(also, for them that says I should see a councelor, yes this is all true (with a bit of exageration on my mom at the start, didn't realize she's got in under control now) and this is mainly to keep those that are worried, concerned, curiouse, etc updated on whats going on. I used to be a semi-familiar face especially in irc. With all this going on, its been four months since I could be regularly active on here and I don't want anyone thinking I've abandoned them.)

I miss you guys and hopefully in a month or less I'll be back in the irc laughing with you guys once again.

Missing Everyone,
Xwee <3

[Lychee]

Good luck with the custody battle! I really, really hope you win. Do you have any friends or relatives who knew how abusively he was treating you? If so, try to get them to testify in court - no child should be left with someone so dangerous.

[Xwee]

I'm loving college, though starting to understand what people mean when they say "lonely in a crouded room" I hardly know anyone and though its hard to imagine, I'm quite shy in person lol. The court date was posponed but now I get over-night visits with my daughter. Today is supposed to be a visiting day but the roads were bad so it was agreed to change it to Saturday. I hate her not being here with me but I'd rather have her safe than for her to be endangered. Also found out that her aunt susan is now enganged to be married to some guy she met just a month before I left, the wedding is in july as well as her due date. I'm ASSUMING that the guy she's engaged to is the baby's father, but knowing susan its probably some other guys. (Since she's white and her fiance's white, it'll be hilarious if the baby is black. Especially since her parents are prejudiced ROFL) I know this because the past three times susan, michael, or both have been in the car.

Anyway if any of you are in the Oklahoma area it'd be cool to know, feels like all you guys live 3 or more states away.

Take Care, IRC in February (not sure EXACTLY when, but sometime early in the month)

Xwee <3

[Xwee]

since this is chit-chat i doubt it'd hurt if I bumped this up so an off-site friend can find it.