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[Xwee]

So, blaze came over this morning and told me that nini had decided that I was leaving tomorrow and that was final.
I talked to nini about it, nini said that blaze told her I was going to leave no matter what. I'm tired of the drama shit so I AM leaving, I am packing with no idea of what will be waiting for me when I reach my destination.
I don't know if/hwhen I'll be able to get back on neocodex. I just want to let you guys know that I haven't quit neocodex, and I intend to return when I'm able. First I need a job, then a place, then I'll work on the internet and a cell phone. How long this will take IDK, but I'll do my best to get back as quick as possible.

I realize there is a thread for this, but I also realize nobody reads it really (lol). so this is for those of you who will miss me and wouldn't have seen my farewell otherwise.

This Goodbye won't be forever
Kat

P.S. I'll never forget the smiels I had here.

[iargue]

Hurry back.

[Boggart]

This is just so sad Not only you being absent, but what's happening in your life! It's just so much!

[luvsmyncis]

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[iargue]

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Hey bitch... Your not on irc.

[talbs]

not quite sure what is happening, since i havent been around a lot recently

maybe PM me or hit me up on AIM

[iargue]

not quite sure what is happening, since i havent been around a lot recently

maybe PM me or hit me up on AIM

She cant. Stupid. SHES GOING AWAY FOR A WHILE.

[WakaWaka]

She cant. Stupid. SHES GOING AWAY FOR A WHILE.

Literally.
Not just away from keyboard.

[Georgina]

Aww Xweee

well its all for the best, a fresh start will help you in the long run. Come back soon! Even if you have to use an internet cafe!

[Drakonid]

Not trying to be a dick or anything, but:
http://www.neocodex....active-notices/
You better be back soon

[WakaWaka]

Not trying to be a dick or anything, but:
http://www.neocodex....active-notices/
You better be back soon

if you read her whole post, specially line 5, you'll know why.
But thanks for the input.

[iargue]

Not trying to be a dick or anything, but:
http://www.neocodex....active-notices/
You better be back soon

She already mentioned that she new it existed, and that no one looks in it, which is true.

Then she posted this in Chit-Chat so she doesn't gain any post count for it.

You were just being a dick, thats all.

[Drakonid]

Or it's my cover up for the real post, which you read since you quoted it.
But this thread is not about me being or not a dick, so lets drop it.

Edited by Drakonid, 12 September 2010 - 06:33 PM.

[Xwee]

Made it safely to my destination. Staying in a hotel room for like $40 a night which is a major drain but its a place to stay while I search my arse off for a shelter and/or job. Apparently there are like 4-5 different shelters for misplaced women and from what I've heard they sound nice, only problem is I haven't found an available room yet. Anyways point of this is.
1. I'm safe
2. I'm very very happy.
3. Things are in the process of improving. ^,^

Anyways, it'll still be a while before I can get back for good but I felt you guys would appreciate an update especially after all the support y'all expressed.

I'll keep ya updated.

Missing y'all
Xwee

Edit: Double post.

Edited by Xwee, 20 September 2010 - 07:32 AM.

[Boggart]

I do appreciate the update! Come back as soon as you can!

But get everything else straightened out first

[Noitidart]

Aw dang xwee. So blaze just said he doesn't want you anymore and told his mom you're leaving? Is that what you mean by leaving? A split?
What about your kid?

[Georgina]

Aww im so glad xwee

it will be the best move you make!

Glad your safe!!

[artificial]

I don't know you, but if you need some cash drop me a line and I'd be happy to lend you some.

Hope you get back on your feet soon.

[Frizzle]

Who are you?

[Frank274]

You can come sleep on my couch if you want

[Xwee]

Aw dang xwee. So blaze just said he doesn't want you anymore and told his mom you're leaving? Is that what you mean by leaving? A split?
What about your kid?

No, blaze was more or less telling two different stories. Yes I did break up with him. Blaze told me that they wanted me out, then told his mom that I wanted out. We had already broke up by this point though.

As for noob-noob. She's staying with her grandparents cause I don't want to drag her around in the unknown like for example if I had to sleep in my car of if I run into someone that wouldn't be safe to have around her. I'll go get her when I have a dependable residence and job. So that I can provide for her.


Couch is a sweet offer, but its probably pretty far from Memphis, TN. also no offense but idk you lol.

As for cash, again thanks, but I'm already in debt to my friend on the money part. (hopefully a boyfriend, *crosses fingers* he's like.. everything I've wanted in a man. *dreamy sigh*)

[luvsmyncis]

 

Couch is a sweet offer, but its probably pretty far from Memphis, TN. also no offense but idk you lol.

Frank's pretty. That's all that matters, right? But I think he has a girlfriend.

As for cash, again thanks, but I'm already in debt to my friend on the money part. (hopefully a boyfriend, *crosses fingers* he's like.. everything I've wanted in a man. *dreamy sigh*)

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Uh. I dunno. Just seems like the last thing you need is to be under the thumb of ANOTHER guy. But I don't know the whole situation, so I don't mean to judge you.
Wish you nothing but the best, of course.

[Noitidart]

I wouldn't recommend a new boyfriend either. You don't want to end up treating him like a rebound. Rebound without a guy. Why do you need a guy? Be on your own. Feel better. You can leave noob-noob with the grandparents while you're on your own, it's probably best for noob noob. There's always going back to blaze but is that a complete and total no? I dont know the whole situation so just putting out general ideas.

Honestly i think blaze was awesome. But i wont go on because you probably don't want to hear it right now. Maybe some day.

[Turtleboy]

Sorry, I don't mean to be creepy or anything but I HAD to clarify. What's your kid's name?

[Xwee]

No, I'm not going to be going back with him until I have myself figured out all good and everything. He's a sweet guy and all but I'm not planning to rebound to him just keeping him in mind for when I am ready to date again. I'm just hopeful he'll be interested in me as well..

Blaze doesn't want me, and I could never forgive him for all the shit he's done to me. He censored everything I said on here, if he didn't like what I was saying then it didn't get said. He's hit me, choked me, and then mentally abused me so I think of myself as worthless. (still like blaze?) My friend is there supporting me not just with getting a place and such but he's there in moral support as well.

My daughter's name is NOT noob-noob. But when she was first born her father said that she was his little Newbie (new born.. get it?) and eventually the nick name evolved to be n00b-noob. I just feel more comfortable calling her n00b-n00b when I'm talking about her in an area where randoms could read it.