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[glamour]

What do you guys think is an appropriate age to give it up to? Do a lot of you regret your first time?

I lost mine this year at 19....i thought that was a good age..waited for the right person

[Bryan]

It doesn't matter. However old enough you need to be to understand all the consequences. That being said, I can understand this is going to turn into an e-peen thread.

[ilovepolkadots]

everyone is different
there is no "right" age

maturity and the soundness of the relationship are the factors that should contribute the most into the decision
& even this will vary from person to person

{edit}:: typo

Edited by ilovepolkadots, 24 December 2010 - 08:24 PM.

[glamour]

Just want to see others peoples view, thats all

Edited by r33zy, 24 December 2010 - 08:24 PM.

[Bryan]

Just want to see others peoples view, thats all

And you got two people's views.

I don't understand this post...

maturity and the soundness of the relationship are the factors that should contribute the most into the decision
& even this will vary from person to person

Soundness of the relationship? I'm sorry, if you're losing your virginity at 14, the 'soundness' of the relationship means shit.

[Dichromate]

As soon as you've read all your safe sex and family planning brochures, feel free to have sex, anytime, anywhere.

[glamour]

I think nowadays it's ridiculous how many people have meaningless sex

[Barophobia]

by meaningless sex you mean sex without the intention to procreate?


imo, virginity is overrated. D:

Edited by barophobia, 24 December 2010 - 08:35 PM.

[ilovepolkadots]

And you got two people's views.

I don't understand this post...


Soundness of the relationship? I'm sorry, if you're losing your virginity at 14, the 'soundness' of the relationship means shit.

it is all really subjective
do i think 14 is too young

but my grandmother was married at 15 and having children and her and my grandfather are in love
today is a different time, but you cannot pick and age and say "that's it!"

I think nowadays it's ridiculous how many people have meaningless sex

why is it ridiculous?
what tells you having sex with another individual simply for pleasure is wrong?
(considering that both persons are taking all of the proper precautions)

[Bryan]

I think nowadays it's ridiculous how many people have meaningless sex

Sex is meaningless. The only 'meaning' you find in it is merely fabricated by chemicals in your brain.

[DanDoesWork]

I think nowadays it's ridiculous how many people have meaningless sex

I agree, but hell who cares. I waited for the perfect time with my gf so it worked out here lol. It just stupid when kids dont play safe -_-

[glamour]

I mean if you're in a relationship and you guys have really deep feelings for eachother but your not married obviously you're not going to try and make babies. i mean it as "your so hot i wanna have sex with you..one night stands" kinds of things

[Barophobia]

Love is a by-product of sex.

Nature -wants- you to have sex. they want you to procreate.

ETA: If at any time sex is meaningless, is when you use a condom :3

Edited by barophobia, 24 December 2010 - 08:37 PM.

[ilovepolkadots]

I mean if you're in a relationship and you guys have really deep feelings for eachother but your not married obviously you're not going to try and make babies. i mean it as "your so hot i wanna have sex with you..one night stands" kinds of things

...
yeah, was this supposed to be a valid argument?

[Bryan]

it is all really subjective
do i think 14 is too young

but my grandmother was married at 15 and having children and her and my grandfather are in love
today is a different time, but you cannot pick and age and say "that's it!"

I'm not picking an age. Merely saying that 'soundness of relationship' is not something you should base it on. Mainly because your views are going to change based on your level of maturity. Soundness of relationship is looped into maturity. If you're ignorant and you think you're in love, it's not going to mean shit, regardless of how 'sound' your relationship is.

[glamour]

I forgot what channel I was watching but it was saying how girls are wanting to get pregnant just to be on the show 16 and pregnant, like wtf seriously?

[ilovepolkadots]

I'm not picking an age. Merely saying that 'soundness of relationship' is not something you should base it on. Mainly because your views are going to change based on your level of maturity. Soundness of relationship is looped into maturity. If you're ignorant and you think you're in love, it's not going to mean shit, regardless of how 'sound' your relationship is.

when it comes to virginity wouldn't you rather have it lost to someone whom you at least thought you loved
even if it was some figment created by immaturity

[Barophobia]

I forgot what channel I was watching but it was saying how girls are wanting to get pregnant just to be on the show 16 and pregnant, like wtf seriously?

wtf no?

Are people really that desperate to get on TV?

[glamour]

I just don't think you should use it for pleasure only.

[ilovepolkadots]

I forgot what channel I was watching but it was saying how girls are wanting to get pregnant just to be on the show 16 and pregnant, like wtf seriously?

okay also
clearly not someone who is sound of mind
they are not taking the proper precautions
(ie birth control)
and their aim is not to seek out physical pleasure, but instead to manipulate a situation

[Barophobia]

But having sex makes you feel all happy inside! Even if just for a little while.

[glamour]

Yes, when I heard that my jaw dropped. How stupid can people be?

[ilovepolkadots]

I just don't think you should use it for pleasure only.

...
why not?
simply repeating the same phrase over and over without a valid argument is just silly

[Bryan]

when it comes to virginity wouldn't you rather have it lost to someone whom you at least thought you loved
even if it was some figment created by immaturity

No. I did lose it to someone whom I thought I loved. Now I don't even remember it. It's not a big deal...

I just don't think you should use it for pleasure only.

That's all it is. If I need to fuck someone to say I love you, something's wrong.

[glamour]

Yeah it makes you feel all happy...wouldnt you feel used afterwards though?