18 replies to this topic

[DanDoesWork]

So here is my friend...please be nice.

 

SO this has got me so freaked out. I was in a relationship with a man
for 5 years. After some time he decided to move out and move in with
his ex-wife and husbamd which inexplicably ended the relationship. A
year or so later I found another man to date. Long story short he found
out I was talking to someone else after he saw my phonebill, and
facebook.

Since then he has been vindictive. He has since called dyfus with
false accusations of abuse, and alcoholism. He has also asked for a ring
that was given to me on Hannukah which now he is claiming is a
engagement gift( I have paperwork showing otherwise). Now he has served
me papers from superior court demanding 14K in items, and attorney fees.

He has requested I give him back 2 twin beds, a king size bed(beds he
bought for my daughters and myself), a cat, and other things that were
given as gifts to our daughter and myself. He has tried to push me too
by saying if I didn't give him the ring, and cat that he would auction
off a storage unit that was holding all of my personal
belongings...again that has been a recorded phonecall.

Does he even have a chance in court? I cannot afford a lawyer either
since I'm currently unemployed. Aren't gifts just gifts and not
conditional? I even have recorded phonecalls with him stating he left
me, and how I killed my ex rabbi husband who dropped dead of a heart
attack I live in NJ. Can anyone please help? He is just completely
jealous, and mad. He has lied about my character, and is trying to take
things away that children should have...What do I do?

[Scot]

The answer is simple. You must kill him

[DanDoesWork]

Ehh I suppose. He will probably do it after he finds out he got the aids from fckin all the hookers...true story

Edited by DanDoesWork, 26 January 2013 - 08:53 PM.

[Drakonid]

Tell your "friend" to get a fucking job.

Edited by Drakonid, 26 January 2013 - 08:56 PM.

[DanDoesWork]

Tell your "friend" to get a fucking job.

Well fuck maybe she will just go get it then because obviously she hasn't been looking. best advice evar

[Habanero]

Is it even legal that he could auction off your stuff without your permission?

[DanDoesWork]

Is it even legal that he could auction off your stuff without your permission?

I'm not so sure. If my items are in HIS unit that he pays for It might be legal? He just hasn't given me the chance to remove the items.

[Unseelie]

Your friend, who got caught talking to another man online... Dan, might you be the interloper?

[Georgina]

If they have proof that the belongings in the Unit aren't his then no, he can't sell them. Also if there is proof, why doesn't she just go get all the stuff and store it elsewhere?

 

He she spoken to the police previously about the harassment hes been giving her?

[Chowder]

-.- Why this hole story . 

[Waser Lave]

http://www.neocodex....-it-was-a-gift/

 

Is this the same thing?

[Boggart]

Okay so I saw this under "active new content" and thought someone was served for 14000 NP worth of items and was really confused.

 

I have no advice.. Sorry to hear about all this!

[Pilot]

Conditional gifts can be taken back legally (ex. engagement rings). Your friend can keep the rest of the items (provided there is proof they were gifts) unless she  wants a Battle Royale on her hands or a clusterfuck at small claims.

[Strategist]

http://www.neocodex....-it-was-a-gift/
 
Is this the same thing?

I was thinking the exact same thing when I read the OP here.....

[Taylorrish]

Jealousy much? 

[luvsmyncis]

The ring was worth $10,000... so that means the cat is worth $4,000?

Holy fuck just give the goddamn ring back. This shit has been going on for months. Or whatever. Go to court. I suppose you should get lawyers involved when two parties are so blind with greed. You'd rather lose your kids' beds than give the fucking ring back? You should be ashamed of yourself. How much could a ring given to you by a total dickwad even mean? *spits on the ground in disgust*

Am I the only one who just about died laughing when it was revealed as a Hanukkah gift? 

[Waser Lave]

Am I the only one who just about died laughing when it was revealed as a Hanukkah gift? 

 

Whatever happened to just getting a dreidel and being (relatively) happy about it?

[DanDoesWork]

Your friend, who got caught talking to another man online... Dan, might you be the interloper?

Lol I cannot not say it wasn't me but I know for a fact he was out of the picture for a year. The only kind of contact they had were a storage unit which he has since refused to give back the contents of.

 

If they have proof that the belongings in the Unit aren't his then no, he can't sell them. Also if there is proof, why doesn't she just go get all the stuff and store it elsewhere?

 

He she spoken to the police previously about the harassment hes been giving her?

She has actually filed a report to the police. He hasn't been bothering her since then. As far as the unit goes the man has changed the combination to go past the gate, and the lock.

 

http://www.neocodex....-it-was-a-gift/

 

Is this the same thing?

Indeed. It is The ring will go back as of now. But he is still filing for the other items. The cat that she has raised since day 1, 3 beds, chairs, cutting board, a bookshelf, a VHS OF FREAKING RUSH HOUR, coffee table, and about 2500 for legal fees.

 

Conditional gifts can be taken back legally (ex. engagement rings). Your friend can keep the rest of the items (provided there is proof they were gifts) unless she  wants a Battle Royale on her hands or a clusterfuck at small claims.

Yep we agreed to let the dirty mole to just get the gifted ring back. We are now in the talks of wondering if we can countersue, and hit him back for stealing a pair earrings, and a a legit hank ketcham drawing that was made just for her, and legal fees back.

 

The ring was worth $10,000... so that means the cat is worth $4,000?

Holy fuck just give the goddamn ring back. This shit has been going on for months. Or whatever. Go to court. I suppose you should get lawyers involved when two parties are so blind with greed. You'd rather lose your kids' beds than give the fucking ring back? You should be ashamed of yourself. How much could a ring given to you by a total dickwad even mean? *spits on the ground in disgust*

Am I the only one who just about died laughing when it was revealed as a Hanukkah gift? 

The ring as of now if being given back. BUT the issue is he is following through with getting the girls beds, Wii, and a couple gameboys. So maybe I should fix what I wrote or read better.

[Georgina]

Not sure if typo....or insult....but it made me smile xD

 

Yep we agreed to let the dirty mole