Uhm.. Congratz? My condolences? XD?
Condolences. It was nasty... I have pity of my tongue...
CONFESSION THREAD~!
Started by Derpious, Nov 08 2014 04:25 PM
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Adam
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Posted 09 February 2016 - 04:20 PM
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That's how it works apparently. If you're nice you get walked on. Source: Certified friendzoner.
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Katya
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Posted 09 February 2016 - 04:27 PM
That's how it works apparently. If you're nice you get walked on. Source: Certified friendzoner.
Being treated like shit and being considered a friend by someone you want to date/kiss/fuck/whatever, are two very different things e.e
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Adam
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Posted 09 February 2016 - 04:29 PM
Being treated like shit and being considered a friend by someone you want to date/kiss/fuck/whatever, are two very different things e.e
There's a little bit of overlap between the two.
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Katya
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Posted 09 February 2016 - 04:39 PM
There's a little bit of overlap between the two.
Hm. Isn't being "friend-zoned" someone that wants to have a relationship when the other person only wants to be friends? How can not having someone interested in you like you are in them, can be an attack? So, unless the person you're interested in tells you they only want to be friends and starts to mistreat you, I don't see how they are the same.
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Posted 09 February 2016 - 04:42 PM
Hm. Isn't being "friend-zoned" someone that wants to have a relationship when the other person only wants to be friends? How can not having someone interested in you like you are in them, can be an attack? So, unless the person you're interested in tells you they only want to be friends and starts to mistreat you, I don't see how they are the same.
There are people out there who will cling onto a relationship (whether it's romantic, or not) even though they're being treated like shit. The two situations are different, but like I said in my previous post there may be similarities between the two.
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Posted 09 February 2016 - 04:46 PM
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Definitely not. Everyone deserves a modicum of decency and respect simply by being human. But anything more than that is just bonus. If you're their friend and they are mistreating you, tell them that you're not okay with that. Clear boundaries are super important, and everyone makes mistakes. Sometimes people need to be reminded. If they learn to treat you better, great. But if they are a chronic abuser, they can fuck off. You don't need to take that kind of shit, especially given how nice you are.
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Yeah but not everyone likes that kind of relationship dynamic. xD I mean, my husband and I have that playful/hateful and bitter banter. But that's because we've established healthy boundaries and we take care of each other when it's needed.
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Rocket
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Posted 09 February 2016 - 04:50 PM
I really shouldn't google my illness symptoms... now I think I'm dying...
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Posted 09 February 2016 - 04:57 PM
There are people out there who will cling onto a relationship (whether it's romantic, or not) even though they're being treated like shit. The two situations are different, but like I said in my previous post there may be similarities between the two.
Yeah, makes sense. it's not a dating thing, it's a friend I made in London, but it still makes sense. 
Thanks guys. Just been feeling a little down lately because of it. Trying to cheer myself up again because I was super happy before all of this.
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Emily
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Posted 09 February 2016 - 04:59 PM
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Yeah, makes sense too, but there's a difference between a friend saying "hey shithead!" when they see you and actually treating you like crap.
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Posted 09 February 2016 - 05:02 PM
@Rocket Are you okay?
oh yes I'm ok lol, I just found out that I'm 99% sure I have HFM Disease atm that I somehow contracted from my 2 year old nephew who was recently at my parents house (who I never actually saw). They obviously didn't clean something and I came in contact with it and now I'm suffering.. but googling just leads to horrible things I'm glad I said sent pictures of what I look like to my family because I was curious and they confirmed it. I just have a shitty immune system and get sick easily.
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Posted 09 February 2016 - 05:03 PM
oh yes I'm ok lol, I just found out that I'm 99% sure I have HFM Disease atm that I somehow contracted from my 2 year old nephew who was recently at my parents house (who I never actually saw). They obviously didn't clean something and I came in contact with it and now I'm suffering.. but googling just leads to horrible things
Be thankful it's not Foot & Mouth Disease instead.
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Posted 09 February 2016 - 05:06 PM
Be thankful it's not Foot & Mouth Disease instead.
I'm quite thankful that I am not a farm animal
Thought I'm sure I've had foot IN mouth disease at some point 
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Posted 09 February 2016 - 08:02 PM
I'm so fucking frustrated with Aurora and I knew taking this trip with her was a bad idea. She told me that there was a drink package with the trip and I was interested until unforseen financial obligations came up (Beyonce tickets) and she never told me that this package was $160 per package plus gratuity. I'm already paying damn near $400 for the cruise and paying $172 on top of that just to get drunk every day (something I can do at home for way cheaper) doesn't make any fucking sense to me. I'm not the kind of person who needs to get drunk to have fun. Now she's trying to tell me that if I don't buy the package then she can't get it. I'm trying to tell her she shouldn't get it anyway because it's a rip off. We only get 2 full days on the ship, one of those days are in Mexico where drinks are cheap as fuck so you're paying $172 for 24 hours essentially. That's fucking stupid. She doesn't get it because she's never been on a cruise before. I've been going on cruises since I was 8, I know what I'm fucking talking about. Plus she doesn't even know if she gets motion sickness or what so drinking that much every day is a terrible idea. But she wants to be mad at me but at this point I don't give a fuck. She can just be mad. I'm a fucking professional she needs to just listen to me and stop trying to fight me over something she knows nothing about.
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Posted 09 February 2016 - 09:37 PM
Even though my boss treats me and the night fill team in general like a piece of shit, I honestly don't see myself ending up leaving. I see myself being here the rest of my life... Ugh...
Unless I get offered or accepted to work somewhere with the same amount of job security and is something with far kinder hours and is more or less something I'd enjoy doing moreso than what I do now, which I enjoy a fair bit, I am pretty sure I'll stay a Coles, Night Fill and Load Splitter 
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Posted 09 February 2016 - 11:34 PM
I'm quite thankful that I am not a farm animal
Thought I'm sure I've had foot IN mouth disease at some point
Make no mistake, my mother-in-law lost all her teeth at 14 when she was tending the sick cows at their farm
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Adam
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Posted 11 February 2016 - 06:48 PM
Sometimes I go into TC just to check my hair.
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Posted 11 February 2016 - 11:59 PM
I don't understand why you won't just send me selfies. I'm really good at judging hair.Sometimes I go into TC just to check my hair.
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Edited by Mishelle, 12 February 2016 - 12:00 AM.
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