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#1 Boggart

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Posted 14 October 2010 - 06:57 PM

Yeah yeah I know we have inactive notices,but w/e, this is going to be long.

Here it is:

I am bisexual

But what does this have to do with me being an absentee? Continue reading.

So basically all my life (well since I was like.... 13) I've known I was bisexual, but having very conservative parents/friends (my friends are mennonites hah), I thought I would never tell a soul, since I could go through life just sticking with girls and people would be nonethewiser.

As some of you may know, my best friend and I had a massive fight (and since made up sorta, we're talking, but we're not best friends anymore) so I went to find new friends. Where I met this really great guy and... well... yeah. We're now in a relationship and I'm learning so much about myself, life, and being in a relationship in general (yeah, this is basically my first real relationship). I learned that being in a relationship with someone of the same sex really isn't that big a deal. I thought I would care about what others thought, but I really don't (to a certain extent). I've "come out" as it were, to a few of my close friends and they all took it very well. This includes my sister, and it's so awesome to share basically everything about my life with her now (in its entirety, and not have to hide this one aspect of my life from her).

Through the last two weeks I"ve had doubts though, whether this was the right thing to do and stuff. We talk on the phone for hours; he calls me so I'm the first voice he hears when he wakes up and the last one before he falls asleep (usually he falls asleep while on the phone :p). There's been quite a bit of drama in his life, and there's more to the story than I'm sharing, but that's more personal stuff which I'm not going to share so publically here :p Only Onlyme knows about it heh heh

Questions? Opinions? Verbal abuse? discuss.

I honestly spend almost 24/7 with him, when I'm not in class. I try to be on here whenever I'm free, which should be a bit more since I have midterms next week and will thus be glued to a computer (and will troll codex). I miss you all!

Boggart, aka Chris.


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    #2 Derriere

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    Posted 14 October 2010 - 07:01 PM

    How do you get to that point where you find yourself to be bisexual?

    Edited by Derriere, 14 October 2010 - 07:02 PM.


    #3 Boggart

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    Posted 14 October 2010 - 07:03 PM

    How do you get to that point where you find yourself to be bisexual?


    I've known it for a while. When most people went through puberty and found themselves attracted to girls... I found myself attracted to both

    I've just finally decided to act on it.

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    Posted 14 October 2010 - 07:14 PM

    i think its wonderful that youre getting to the point where youre comfortable enough to come out, and im proud of you :)
    honestly, fuck whatever the rest of the world thinks, if youre happy where you are, and doing what youre doing, then it shouldnt matter. any friends of yours that dont accept it were never worth it in the first place, so leave them behind. its good that youre sister is supportive aswell, its good to have someone in the family .
    anyway, good luck with your new relationship :p

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    Posted 14 October 2010 - 07:27 PM

    its like nick all over again......................

    #6 Boggart

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    Posted 14 October 2010 - 07:49 PM

    i think its wonderful that youre getting to the point where youre comfortable enough to come out, and im proud of you :)
    honestly, fuck whatever the rest of the world thinks, if youre happy where you are, and doing what youre doing, then it shouldnt matter. any friends of yours that dont accept it were never worth it in the first place, so leave them behind. its good that youre sister is supportive aswell, its good to have someone in the family .
    anyway, good luck with your new relationship :p


    Thank ya :D He's hopefully meeting my friends and sister soon (parents, not so much haha)

    its like nick all over again......................


    And not really sure what that means O.o

    #7 Noitidart

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    Posted 14 October 2010 - 07:54 PM

    its like nick all over again......................

    This




    Haha bog we've seen this a few times over our the life span of our board. Things will be ok. Judging by nick: we won't be surprised when you go all out gay.

    Im kidding :p Everyone is different.

    All though I dont get how you can go from this skank:
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    to a guy. was she just too skanky? ill take her if you're done with it.

    #8 Boggart

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    Posted 14 October 2010 - 07:54 PM

    This




    Haha bog we've seen this a few times over our the life span of our board. Things will be ok. Judging by nick: we won't be surprised when you go all out gay.

    Im kidding :p Everyone is different.


    haha well who knows? :p maybe I am. This is my first relationship after all.

    Although I dunno.... I've gotten quite a few boners from chicks... :o

    #9 Noitidart

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    Posted 14 October 2010 - 07:57 PM

    haha well who knows? :p maybe I am. This is my first relationship after all.

    Although I dunno.... I've gotten quite a few boners from chicks... :o

    haha well good luck man.
    just dont confuse that random boner for attraction towards the first thing you see after realizing you're hard.

    #10 Scot

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    Posted 14 October 2010 - 07:57 PM

    All though I dont get how you can go from this skank:
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    to a guy.


    Yeah this. The guy you're seeing better have rock hard abs and a 10 inch dick.

    #11 Noitidart

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    Posted 14 October 2010 - 08:00 PM

    Yeah this. The guy you're seeing better have rock hard abs and a 10 inch dick.

    or just less psycho bitch/estrogen.

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    Posted 14 October 2010 - 08:02 PM

    All though I dont get how you can go from this skank:
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    to a guy. was she just too skanky? ill take her if you're done with it.


    Lmao we never dated :p She was just a friend who's photogenetic haha. I did really like her though :o

    Yeah this. The guy you're seeing better have rock hard abs and a 10 inch dick.


    No way in hell I want a guy with a 10 inch dick. That'd just be way too much to handle. In all definitions of the word.

    #13 Noitidart

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    Posted 14 October 2010 - 08:03 PM

    Guys and girls can never be friends. Im sure you can get your dick down that throat. Or wait isn't that friendship?

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    Posted 14 October 2010 - 08:05 PM

    Guys and girls can never be friends. Im sure you can get your dick down that throat. Or wait isn't that friendship?


    haha I have lots of friends that are girls :p And no, she's very much in a relationship.

    Oh and I guess none of you know me in a very personal way, but I'm not huge in physical attractiveness (in other people I mean. I know I'm not exactly a sight for eyes, sore or not). While it helps for them to be attractive, it's not necessary

    It's more like I'm asexual than bisexual... eh, either way :p

    #15 Derriere

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    Posted 14 October 2010 - 08:05 PM

    Lmao we never dated :p She was just a friend who's photogenetic haha. I did really like her though :o



    No way in hell I want a guy with a 10 inch dick. That'd just be way too much to handle. In all definitions of the word.


    Cmon man, he's a dude and ASIAN.
    The tightness and dude-ness will just add to the pain factor.
    LOOOL

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    Posted 14 October 2010 - 08:06 PM

    was she just too skanky? ill take her if you're done with it.



    or just less psycho bitch/estrogen.


    Fuck man. I love you so much. :)

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    Posted 14 October 2010 - 08:08 PM

    lol argue i love you more! lets start our own little fag bang in bogs topic.

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    Posted 14 October 2010 - 08:10 PM

    Cmon man, he's a dude and ASIAN.
    The tightness and dude-ness will just add to the pain factor.
    LOOOL


    Oh he's white btw, if that makes it any ... better? worse? different?

    And one of the reason's this is awesome is because I've been "the guy" in a relationship without actually being in a relationship. Tired of being crazy psycho bitches

    And now we're equal. We both pay for meals and text and call without the traditional gender roles. It's refreshing, really.

    #19 Derriere

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    Posted 14 October 2010 - 08:11 PM

    Oh he's white btw, if that makes it any ... better? worse? different?

    And one of the reason's this is awesome is because I've been "the guy" in a relationship without actually being in a relationship. Tired of being crazy psycho bitches

    And now we're equal. We both pay for meals and text and call without the traditional gender roles. It's refreshing, really.



    my girl hates when i pay for everything
    and she knew from day one that I wasn't going to let her freeload off me

    white/asian/black/brown you can still have a 10inch dick LOL
    and hope it works out for you though

    but I bet you'll miss the occasional pussy

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    Posted 14 October 2010 - 08:14 PM

    its like nick all over again......................

    What ever happened to him?

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    Posted 14 October 2010 - 08:16 PM

    my girl hates when i pay for everything
    and she knew from day one that I wasn't going to let her freeload off me

    white/asian/black/brown you can still have a 10inch dick LOL
    and hope it works out for you though

    but I bet you'll miss the occasional pussy

    I dont think indians go past 4 bro. Maybe 3?

    :p

    #22 Boggart

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    Posted 14 October 2010 - 08:16 PM

    my girl hates when i pay for everything
    and she knew from day one that I wasn't going to let her freeload off me

    white/asian/black/brown you can still have a 10inch dick LOL
    and hope it works out for you though

    but I bet you'll miss the occasional pussy



    Asian with a 10 inch dick? Pics or it didn't happen

    Occasional pussy? Seeing as I've never had any, I won't know what I'm missing :o

    Although I've always wanted to eat out a girl... *awkward*

    #23 Noitidart

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    Posted 14 October 2010 - 08:16 PM

    What ever happened to him?

    Im pretty sure whatever happens to gays. I hear STDs are more prevalent in them.

    #24 Boggart

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    Posted 14 October 2010 - 08:17 PM

    Im pretty sure whatever happens to gays. I hear STDs are more prevalent in them.


    Our old sex-ed teacher told us that AIDS started because gay men had sex with monkeys then sex with married men, who then spread it to straight people.

    Not a word of a lie

    Edited by Boggart, 14 October 2010 - 08:17 PM.


    #25 Noitidart

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    Posted 14 October 2010 - 08:18 PM

    Although I've always wanted to eat out a girl... *awkward*

    O______________O

    Our old sex-ed teacher told us that AIDS started because gay men had sex with monkeys then sex with married men, who then spread it to straight people.

    Not a word of a lie

    Haha probably. I believe it.


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