Bryan

Are you really that retarded that your going to tell me that a discussion is the same thing as asking for advice?

Dont just be like, "OMG YOU WRONG. I'm Right" and think that will work. Your clearly wrong if you doing to quote two definitional that are seemingly close to each other and pretend the words mean the same thing. They do not.

She never asked, "What should I do!" she said, "Discuss".

Ugh you know what. I'll just put you on my ignore list and relieve a bit of stress. Good Bye

To satisfy the great one, I'll change my statement to:

Don't ask for a discussion when you don't provide all the details. Then you're going to get a discussion that is skewed based only on the information provided.

I fail to see how using a synonym is means to denounce a true statement. But whatever.

You're right, I'm wrong as always. I think I'm going to have sex with my girlfriend on the subway while everyone watches to cool down.


Also, haven't I been on your ignore list like 4 times already?

She never asked for advice.

You're right.

Discuss: an act or instance of discussing; consideration or examination by argument, comment, etc., esp. to explore solutions; informal debate.

Advice: a communication, esp. from a distance, containing information

Wait, you're wrong. As always. Don't worry though, I'll give you a one up (+1) so you can try again.

Topics probably going to be closed anyway. Not really going anywhere.

I really felt there was enough detail originally to infer that it was a sexual assault... but meh... arguing a dead point, I think...

Never make assumptions until you get all of the details...

It's a dead point. Meh indeed.

She was at school and not drinking... Also, it is NOT a federal offense to possess or consume alcohol or tobacco under age. The federal government doesn't set tr age limits, it is actually the state governments that set them. The states all have taken what I consider bribe money in order to have some form of uniformity to the law.

Also, attempting to compare sexual assault to smoking a cigarette is absolutely absurd.

Still on my mobile, but to respond to you Bryan, it is rather common to feel empathy for the attacker or the future of their lives. I think that there are levels of trauma, but tbh, it's really not relevant if the man is guilty, he's guilty. I also think it's wrong to assume tha adina would lie or have intentionally left out key details. Yes, this is the Internet... The benefit of the Internet being anonymity. If anything, I think it would be safer to assume that she hadn't left out key details in order to get better advice... And even if it was felt that more info was needed, I do think that acting with some form of diplomacy is only fair... Especially considering that she is the victim of a sexual assault...

Too lazy to wall of text on my cell phone.. So cheers!

I don't care what the situation is. If you ask for advice, provide all the details. Otherwise you get skewed advice based only on what you've provided.

There's a big difference between I think, and she is.

This is victim blaming. Even if she chose to sleep with a hundred people, it doesn't mean that anyone has any right to touch her without her permission. I also wish I lived in your world where guys that age didn't feel up someone underage when they're "in their right mind". It's pretty commonplace in mine. And before you insist that everyone I know who has been groped without their consent is a slut or the guy thought they were a slut so that made it okay - no. Quite the opposite.

No, it'd be victim blaming if I said it was absolute. I said probably. If she chose to sleep with a hundred people, she'd be a slut. I never said anything about giving the right to do anything. You live in this world. It's obviously illegal to feel someone up when they're underage, hence why if you do it you're not using your cognitive thought process. I said nothing ever about making it just, right, or okay. Get off your fucking high horse and quit putting words in my mouth.

To also quote Adina: "I was in a panicked state, and told a teacher everything."


But I have taken your advice, bar unblocking this response. We disagree on a pretty important point - RE: whether or not sexual assault is serious fucking business.

panic: an overwhelming feeling of fear and anxiety

traumatized: Subject to lasting shock as a result of an emotionally disturbing experience or physical injury

Don't attempt to argue semantics with me, especially when you're so miserably wrong.

And @ Bryan, the next time you think of "these forums aren't what they used to be" maybe you should consider yourself as part of the reason why. Instead of being supportive and asking for more info, you attacked somebody simply asking for help/advice.

If I was a new member here I'd see this thread (it has the kind of title to draw people into it), see the responses many of you have given Adina and simply think, fuck this place I'll take their programs and go.

I really don't know what place 'these forums aren't what they used to be' has in this topic whatsoever. I've stated numerous times I don't care if these forums change. So once again, I really don't know how that statement fits in place here. Instead of being supportive and asking for more info, I said fuck and slut, questioned the validity of the statement and then offered help/advice after I got it. Maybe I didn't tip toe around in fear of hurting her feelings, but I was direct, to the point, and got what I was looking for.

I'm sorry, I was hardly attacking anyone. If you read my two 'negative' posts in this thread, you can see I never once directly attacked anyone in this thread.

Grow the fuck up and tell everybody the truth. Chances are he thought you were a slut anyways, which is why he was 18 and feeling you up. Of course I don't know how you guys went out for a smoke and he just randomly thought it was okay to feel you up but whatever. If the only thing you're worried about is having to tell your parents you smoke cigarettes and going to court, you're probably not too hurt about the situation that happened.

You feel bad for him? Hardly. I think you feel bad about what's going to happen to you because everyone is going to find out that you told.

Basically you hadn't seen the guy for a month, he's 18, the moment he touches you anywhere you should be saying no. I don't see how he 'tried to get in your pants', 'bit your neck', and 'groped you everywhere' in a place where people traffic frequently without you saying no. I'm sorry, guy's aren't stupid sex fiends. If it was malicious, more would've happened. And the fact that you're not hurt or anything makes me feel like it was more mutual than you're letting it play out to be.

Being too lazy? If that's my only vice in this topic, I'm sorry. Minus brownie points for me for not taking the time out of my day to help a girl who chooses not to provide relevant details in a 'serious' matter.

Grow up? Is that an attack? It's a statement, and a valid one in fact. Chances are he thought you were a slut. If that's an attack I'm sorry, saying I think someone thought you were something. Oh no. What I mean by that statement is no guy in their right mind would be 18 and feel up someone underage, especially if it wasn't mutual. And the rest of it is my skepticism questioning the validity of the statement.

Because when she's traumatised she needs some guy on the internet telling her that her attacker thought she was a slut?

Traumatized? Hardly, to quote Adina herself:

I'm not hurt

For all of you thinking I'm attacking, not being emotional enough, being a douche. Go fuck yourselves really. Don't pull the fucking traumatized card, don't pull the fucking 'sexual abuse is serious business' card. It's the fucking internet. I don't even know if she's a girl in the first place. I don't know shit about her, so why the fuck should I believe what she's saying is truthful? I'm going to be skeptical.

And the major reason I was a dick, was because you mentioned that it was 'too late to tell your parents'. That, plus the "I drink on occasions" to me just screams immature little girl. Immature little girl brings to mind the girl who cried wolf.

My best friend is a therapist for sexual offenders on probation. I know a lot about this issue. You see certain signs when people are lying/not telling you the full truth. I saw those signs, I called her out, I got the full truth.

Really, I'm tired of people getting butthurt over stupid shit. If you don't like what I say, fucking ignore me. Don't pull this holier than thou attitude and try and argue morality and emotions. I might be abrasive, but I'm generally right.

surreee, if helping means me posting much less. helps a lot.

Surreee, it means having posts with substance as opposed to I LIKE SEX tapered to the end of every other post. When you grow up, you'll realize why I said it. We've already had a couple members of this forum be openly gay, and they grow out of the sex thing fast. You will too, just tryign to speed along the process.

All I can say. Welcome to the internet, where the only thing we can go off is what you type in the little posting box. If you want accurate advice, post accurate details and then you'll get an accurate response. It's pretty simple with guys, if you say no, then it's no. If they continue past it, something's wrong with their cognitive thought process.

I'm not as nice as everyone else on the boards and I'm tired of senseless drivel. Don't think I'm passing judgment because I'm a dick. I'm a dick because it's a lot easier to be a dick than to post something like Cody when we're pretty much wanting the same thing (a more accurate recount of the story). I'm sorry, but when all you give us is

I got someone arrested...
I was sexually assaulted...
I don't want him to be in trouble...

You're going to get a bunch of dickish answers because you can't draw a single answer from what has been given. If your post would've contained the information your last post did, I can guarantee you the responses to this topic would be a lot different (Nunc would probably be the same).

Listen, I'm the most respectful guy in the world when it comes to women. I'm not going to ever want to intrude into an area where there's even a chance she'll say no. But when you're on the internet and you read about this shit all the fucking time, you're going to question the validity of things if the whole story isn't there. Especially coming from a girl who gets 'durnk' on occasion.

I never said I was hurt. I feel bad for him, I didn't want him to get in trouble, I never meant to tell a teacher but shit happened and now I'm dealing with it.
I haven't talked to him in like a month, except for one time that he called me to sneak out and I said no.
He randomly texted me asking to come out for a smoke, I said sure. We were waiting inside the stairwell at the exit where everyone goes for a smoking, hoping someone will have a lighter. He asked for a hug, I didn't see a problem. Then he started groping me.

You feel bad for him? Hardly. I think you feel bad about what's going to happen to you because everyone is going to find out that you told.

Basically you hadn't seen the guy for a month, he's 18, the moment he touches you anywhere you should be saying no. I don't see how he 'tried to get in your pants', 'bit your neck', and 'groped you everywhere' in a place where people traffic frequently without you saying no. I'm sorry, guy's aren't stupid sex fiends. If it was malicious, more would've happened. And the fact that you're not hurt or anything makes me feel like it was more mutual than you're letting it play out to be.

Grow the fuck up and tell everybody the truth. Chances are he thought you were a slut anyways, which is why he was 18 and feeling you up. Of course I don't know how you guys went out for a smoke and he just randomly thought it was okay to feel you up but whatever. If the only thing you're worried about is having to tell your parents you smoke cigarettes and going to court, you're probably not too hurt about the situation that happened.

How is this topic about sex? O.o

In this topic, here's some excerpts from your last posts

I'm like the least slutty person I know. Besides the 4 friends who want to wait till marriage before bowchickabowwow (and they've been dating for 1.5 years now O.o)

I guess, but even sluts have standards I would think I mean, I do, and I'm the sluttiest person I know.

Glad so many people here were looking for sex.

But if you do hook up with somone here, please post about it here:

And one of the options:

Came here looking for sex

I could list more, but that's just this topic. I get it, you're young, hormones and what not. But seriously, try not to make the majority of your posts relate, in some way, to a form of innuendo. It's just a bit annoying.

Boggart. I've already had to sit through Ian and Nick discovering/accepting their gayness on Codex. I understand you're young, but can you please not turn every effing topic into sex. Jfc.

I have a Droid, I like it. To be honest, just get whatever is cheap for phones. You're going to be replacing it every 2 years anyways. And with this 4g nonsense coming out, you're probably gonna be looking to switch soon anyways.

For the laptop, just find something on sale with a warranty. Costco, Best Buy whatever. You're not really gonna net too much performance for that price anyways.

Why do you always use "I'm high as an excuse" You where an asshole. And you where just like, "I was high, forget it" If I say, I only ever come on codex when high, are you going to forgive me? Of course not. Dont be an asshole and then just say, "I'm high" as an excuse. You where an asshole, and you know it, you got called out on it. Admit you where high without making excuses, and I'll respect you a little bit more.

And I love how you guys think you can downvote every single one of my posts. The admins know you are planning this. They will just undownvote them, because I dont need to spam. I have enough posts. I post to help people, or because I have something to say on a matter. Thats it.

You can hate all you want, but I help the community more then you do, no matter what you said. My programs have brought plenty of people here, and plenty of people will use it. I will always make new programs. And all your going to do is attack me. I dont even care anymore. Attack me a thousand times over. I will still be here, programing for neocodex.

Dear dickfuck,
You need to redefine your definition of an excuse. I say I'm high because I'm high. Much like it'd do you better to end all your posts with 'I'm retarded'. I was an asshole, cool. I don't need to be high to be an asshole. I do that plenty enough already. I could really care less if you respect me. You've yet to do anything on this site that I can call respectful, all you do is busy work for the admins. Let me know when you do anything to this site that hasn't been done before. Let me know when you code something original. Let me know when you do anything that requires more than listening to Kway and throwing in a couple lines of code. Fact of the matter is, you're a fucking prick dude. Not only are you a prick, but you demand respect for it. 'I program for Codex' 'Post count doesn't matter' blah blah blah. Do you see me denouncing the work of any of the other programmers on this site? Do you see me hating any other staff members? No. You know why? They're doing their jobs and not being pricks. And herp derp, I said I was high before I got 'called out on it' then when I was sober, I apologized. How I'm using that as an excuse is beyond me.

The fact that you actually believe we think we can downvote all of your posts is ridiculous. Trust me, we know the administration would never let us abuse that. Doesn't mean we can't still have fun with it, because in all honesty, that's really the only use that I can find for it. I don't read the Neopets forums, I don't read the posts that say 'Help me with abrosia'. I'm sure that's what the main use for that shit is. You post to help people? You're usually a condescending prick. The difference is, when I'm a condescending prick, I'm usually right. If I'm wrong, I apologize. Unlike you, who, instead of admitting you're wrong, continues to believe that it's okay to be a prick and be wrong.

I said I was done making fun of you. Thing is, you really make it so I don't want to stop. I guarantee you kid, if all of our staff wasn't too busy doing professional work and obtaining degrees, you would have no active role in this community. Thank you for being the Codex work mule, I appreciate all your hard effort.

I'll admit, I was a bit harsh on you at first but eventually over time I've grown attached to seeing you contribute to this site. Don't get me wrong, I don't see every post you make as interesting or relevant to my interests but I believe if you left the site it would be for the worst.




Don't take it personally. I never go out of my way to insult or harass a user simply for who they are, what they do or how they live their life. I simply attack what they post on this board because let's face it, thats all we have to go on. I call people on forum bullshit and will continue to do so, it's simply my prerogative to do so and that's why I criticised your posts. Like I said, don't take it personally, I actually look foward to your posts and threads and think "Hmm, Mishelle's posted, let's see what she has to say" and personally I enjoy what you've bought to the site, and it's quite comendable especially seeing as you're a new poster. Just don't think I'm going to change and start being nice for the hell of it, that ain't my style.



Dude, 13,000 posts! I think my PPD average is still in double digits!




Just for show, it's not like we actually believe in that kinda pre-1990's bullshit.




I used to think "Who's this dickhead and why is he staff?" when you was promoted to mod. I changed my mind. I now think "Who's this dickhead, and why isn't he staff?"

Ok, that's my nice post for the year. Fuck you all and Merry Christmas you bunch of pricks x

WHO ARE YOU AND WHAT HAVE YOU DONE WITH MY FRIZZLE?

All older members are going to seem intimidating. Maybe cause they've been here for 5+ years and have seen this nonsense countless times. We've seen the highs and lows of Codex and in all honesty, this is one of our higher low points. Sure we have an active community, but most of us "older" members again have graduated beyond posting like it's the NeoBoards. Codex used to be an active community with tons of staff, was it better then? I don't know. I'd hardly consider myself an active member of the community. It's just we used to have conversations beyond what the typical "I got frozen" and "I just discovered sex". I remember when we used to argue Politics, Physics, etc. I remember when posts had SUBSTANCE. At least I don't see it anymore. Maybe once a week or so. Us 'older' members are cynical only because we know what this Forum used to be, and although we drag ourselves off the couch to post, we really have nothing to look forward to as far as posts go. There's a reason PRBM is the only new retired member, THAT's what our community used to be. A group of friends who had semi-intellectual posts. Now we have some blonde chick who thinks DD's on a 200 pound frame look attractive and a bunch of people that worship a retard that can barely code programs and thinks he's the shit.

I'm not grumpy, I'm just high. Don't take offense to anything I say, it's the truth, at least in my book.

More people should rage at me (: Opinions on this are niceee



I assume this is where people get acquainted with members?

You shouldn't really care about getting acquainted with members. Just don't look like a fucktard and no one will care. It's really not hard to see the groups. We have a bunch of kids that play Neopets and a bunch of old bitter grumpy people. Normally we have room for an iruleatants, just not at the moment.

The only people bitching about you getting to 500 posts to use programs are the people that play Neopets (and let's face it, they're not the cool kids anyways). The rest of us only complain because it really seems like everytime you log on, the first 2 pages of 'New Content' are posts by you with 10 words or less. Sorry, I really only log on to have a nice discussion (seems like it's dwindling as the days progress) or to troll some kids. I really can't troll you because you either do it yourself or you write posts too short to troll.

I think nowadays it's ridiculous how many people have meaningless sex

Sex is meaningless. The only 'meaning' you find in it is merely fabricated by chemicals in your brain.