142 replies to this topic

[Boggart]

heyyy bra, don't even trip, at least you didnt get yourself arrested =)
I got arrested for being half naked in front of a church lying next to baby jesus in the middle of winter
just think of that
think of some crazy kid being approached by police...
half naked
in the middle of winter
twacked out of his mind
after peeing in someones yard

doesnt that make you smile?

wow soooooo not the point

Please, please. Forum Rules

[Warriors]

Hahahaaha..That thread was awesome...Most of his replies have been nonsensical garbage..bah it starts all over again.

[Shadowfool]

He sexually harassed you... I assuming you gave him ample warning... If so then you shouldn't feel guilty.

[Frizzle]

1. It could be that it doesn't matter she's over the age of consent, the fact that she's still a minor allows for it to still have the possibility to be classed as child abuse here.

2.http://www.bbc.co.uk...plex_crime.html
1 in 20 British women claim to have been a victim of rape since the age of 16 (and so the overall figure will actually be higher if we include abuse below the age of consent) with a conviction rape of just 6% for reported cases. Once you factor in attempted rape and lesser sexual assaults, people who don't even realise or admit they're a victim, you're looking at something worryingly common. So it almost certainly will (have) happen(ed) to someone you know.

Here, it would have to be proved that your mental state was weak enough after your experience that you couldn't physically be in court.

A few things first.

1. She is not a minor in the sense of sexual activities as she's of the age of consent so there would no be "child abuse" case here. Whilst true that under 18's are classified as children here in the UK, the only difference in reporting the crime is that an additional child report will go on to alert certain authorities such as parents, schools, social services etc

2.Claim is the first big word there. Alot of women cry wolf and will continue to do as they see it as an act of revenge and with our current skewed justice system which allows the media to print ACCUSED details in papers and online, even just reporting a ficitious attack is dangerous enough.

Also, your stat of 6% of criminal convictions in sexual assault is misleading. Only 6% of those accused are convicted yet over 70% of those charged (i.e because there is enough evidence for the CPS to advocate a charging decision) are convicted within court.

You're not innocent, though, Adina. Do you realize that? You were smoking and presumably drinking underage, which is a federal crime here in the states. I'm sure it's illegal in Canada too. Your parents would have every right to get mad at you for comprising yourself and the law in that manner.

Regardless of troll or not, compromising your personal security and safety at your age will put you in situations like this.

All in all...I don't believe you anyway, seeing as there is no proof.

[equitatus]

You're right.


Wait, you're wrong. As always. Don't worry though, I'll give you a one up (+1) so you can try again.

Topics probably going to be closed anyway. Not really going anywhere.


Never make assumptions until you get all of the details...

It's a dead point. Meh indeed.

Wait i'm not sure i understand. How does you giving people people a +1 encourage them to try again? Seems to me (+1) is just a math symbol followed by a number....wouldn't a pat on the back be more encouragement?

What kind of advice did you possibly give?
so lemme see if this is how it goes.......
Wait you're wrong....though i'll give you a math symbol and a number (-3) so you can try again.....or wait does that only work when you do it? Not too sure can you reply to this with an explanation of how it works? You know so I can get it right in the future.

[Homer]

Well, it looks like Homer has jumped ship anyway...guess he's watching alone.

My girlfriend jumped on me and raped me so I couldn't post a reply. I'm still recovering, but I'm okay.

Anywhoo... I think the general consensus is she did the right thing, so some of you guys stop trying to be heroes.
I think the internet calls it "white knighting"? Because you ain't getting any. That is all

[equitatus]

My girlfriend jumped on me and raped me so I couldn't post a reply. I'm still recovering, but I'm okay.

Anywhoo... I think the general consensus is she did the right thing, so some of you guys stop trying to be heroes.
I think the internet calls it "white knighting"? Because you ain't getting any. That is all

well first of all, if you need help with the girlfriend thing I'll be happy to take her off your hands.

Secondly you have misunderstood this is not white knighting, this is simply the beligerent nature that the Internet bestows people. We're not arguing for the girl's sake, we're arguing cause we think someone's wrong. You don't seem to understand the spirit of the Internet at all, tsk tsk expected more from you man.

[Nunc]

I must have repped 10 of Bryan's posts in this thread alone. It's scary how right he is.

[ilovepolkadots]

I was sexually harassed at school by someone who used to be my friend. He's 18.
I made the mistake of telling a teacher, who told a vice principal, who called the cops, who arrested him. I preferred to have a teacher know, then to have his ass kicked by all my friends who happen to be guys who really do give a shit about me.

Discuss.
I feel so shitty for the guy. His life is fucked over.

thoughts:: 16year old girl talking with an 18year old guy who was your "good friend"
you have lots of other friends "who happen to be guys"

i think what he did was wrong.
but i also get the feeling that you seek male attention through negative means, like many young teens seem to be doing these days.

not to mention the general need for attention you are exhibiting by posting this thread when there is relatively nothing to discuss.
you said no - he should have stopped.
the police were called and there is nothing you can do to reverse your actions.

the general feeling of guilt you seem to have over the issue leads me to believe you got a little far over your head with leading this guy on.

*meh* just my personal opinion.


{edit} typo

Edited by ilovepolkadots, 16 January 2011 - 10:01 AM.

[Ziz]

It is sad how a lot of people prefers to criticize rather than help.
If someone is speaking about a bad experience on internet, you don't loose anything trying to be supportive instead of bitching at her.
It is true that on internet it can be a little hard to tell if someone is seriuous or not (at first glance), but even then it's better not posting than criticizing without knowing.

[sircomflix]

you don't loose anything

Anyways, you probably did him a favor. If he's sexually harassing girls in high school and is engaged at the age of 18, he probably needs a wake up slap.

[Inver]

Jeez. I just read all of that. I'm sorry girly... Some people don't know when enough is enough. You do have supporters out there. What he did was wrong, and though perhaps your behavior prior to the situation was questionable, the main issue here is that you said No and he pursued. Don't back down in this, you have every right to be offended. Your parents will come to this realization as well. So often controlling parents prefer to harp on a smaller situation so that they spare themselves the pain of dealing with the real issue. Because they can at least try and make you quit smoking while as... abuse... can't ever be erased. Stay strong. You'll get through it. There are lots of other strong ladies out there that have.