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[Boggart]

I'm pretty sure he can have whatever attitude he like towards his virginity.
Sex isn't a super special sacred rite of passage for everyone. For some people, it's just fun.

Fair enough. But it's that attitude that can lead to mistakes, regrets etc. more than for other situations. Generally speaking of course.

[Sweeney]

Fair enough. But it's that attitude that can lead to mistakes, regrets etc. more than for other situations. Generally speaking of course.

More accurately, it'd be a change in attitude that would lead to regret, which applies just as well in the opposite direction.

[Boggart]

More accurately, it'd be a change in attitude that would lead to regret, which applies just as well in the opposite direction.

True as well. Well just because of my personal experience with that mentality, I just hope others don't succumb to the same fate is all

[EveMazing]

I don't really know what I consider to be losing my virginity. My first sexual experience was when I was 13 and I was "dating" my now ex-best friend, who is a girl. We had been best friends for a year or two and dated for a couple months and then were best friends for like 5 more years. We were both so young at the time and didn't know what a relationship really was let alone sex or how to do it. Besides the fact that I felt extremely uncomfortable because I didn't actually like her that way so it felt very wrong to me. Also she made me feel like shit all the time about it too. So I'd take all that back if I could. My first time with a guy wasn't much better. He lied to me about his age and the state of his virginity. Plus I jumped into it too quickly because I wanted to get it over with, I didn't care about it being special I just wanted it to be done with. I was 16 and he told me he was going to be 16 but really he was 14. He also told me he wasn't a virgin (later I found out he was lol) so I thought he knew what he was doing and I felt more comfortable about it. The sex wasn't good. It happened like one time and didn't last very long at all, and it wasn't enjoyable. We had only been dating for three weeks before we had sex and then I found out he was a lying asshole. And now I'm fully gay xD

[shrouded]

18 years old with my current girlfriend of a year. We met at the very end of high school at a few parties. She was a good friend of mines prom date, but they didn't have feelings for each other. We ended up crashing at my house repeatedly when we first met right before we got together. It wasn't long after that we started trying to have sex in a very awkward and unsuccessful manner. We finally managed to have sex when we were fooling around unprotected. A stupid mistake that only happened one time and thankfully because of modern drugs turned out well. Needless to say it was the worst sexual experience we've ever had. Things could only get better from there and the entire time since we've had sex like fiends. I guess that's what happens when you're 18-19 years old. Prior to me she'd never been with anyone at all. I found that shocking because she's honestly very attractive and a likable person. I dated an asian girl prior to her and we never attempted to have sexual intercourse but we messed around. Not nearly as good or fun. So the first time sucked and is definitely regretted. The person I had sex with the first time, no regrets. No matter what happens between us I'll never regret it.

[Junsu]

YOU ONLY GET ONE VIRGINITY (YOGOV)

[Elindoril]

BUT I don't regret it because it taught me a lesson. Never sleep with a man that has a tiny penis.

Hey whoa, just because he didn't know how to use it doesn't mean the rest don't.

[TamerVirus]

NOPE, Virgin. Not changing anytime soon ........ ;_;

[NapisaurusRex]

YOU ONLY GET ONE VIRGINITY (YOGOV)

Actually, you get two. One with men and one with women.

[Elindoril]

Actually, you get two. One with men and one with women.

Derp.

[NapisaurusRex]

Derp.

What? It's actually better this way. If you totally fuck up one gender, there's still the other one. Unless you are just a giant screw up, you're bound to have at least one good first time.

[Turnip]

Mmm, yeah I do regret it :V It's a long and dumb story but basically my ex is the rudest thing on the planet and I'm still not entirely sure why I dated him in the first place~ More than likely to not disappoint him or anything like that

BUT I don't regret it because it taught me a lesson. Never sleep with a man that has a tiny penis.

Actually, small dicks are really good for sucking on You don't choke or anything!

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Totally not speaking from experience or anything like that!! Ahahaha...

[Elindoril]

Actually, small dicks are really good for sucking on You don't choke or anything!

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Totally not speaking from experience or anything like that!! Ahahaha...

Kids these days.

[Turnip]

Kids these days.

Whaaaat?~ I can't help that they are! :3

[Jewbert]

Mmm, yeah I do regret it :V It's a long and dumb story but basically my ex is the rudest thing on the planet and I'm still not entirely sure why I dated him in the first place~ More than likely to not disappoint him or anything like that

My ex was probably one of the foulest people I could have dated. Blamed ME for him being fat (because I shoved a whole pound of bacon into his gullet), called me all kinds of names, made me cry because he liked it, etc. I have no idea what made me want to date him, either. Maybe because I was in 9th grade and was grateful for someone showing me attention. ( I was really shy.)

[Turnip]

My ex was probably one of the foulest people I could have dated. Blamed ME for him being fat (because I shoved a whole pound of bacon into his gullet), called me all kinds of names, made me cry because he liked it, etc. I have no idea what made me want to date him, either. Maybe because I was in 9th grade and was grateful for someone showing me attention. ( I was really shy.)

Ah geez, I'm so sorry Why on earth do people like that exist, ugh...


My ex was really overprotective and a stalker (he pretty much just sat on all the IRC channels/forums/other places I went to so he could yell at people for hitting on me.. when we weren't even dating..), and just couldn't accept that I was in love with someone else And so he told a bunch of bullshit to said guy and caused lots of drama, guy I was in love with believed all of it and overreacted to it and still, two years down the road, flips out if even my name is mentioned near him... Months later he reappeared and claimed he still liked me! Then things happened from there.

Worst seven months ever :c But hey, at least I got a free monitor and Gamecube off him~ (which he wants back but fuck that )

Edited by Turnip, 30 April 2012 - 08:11 PM.

[Plunk]

The girl I lost it to cheated on me with three guys in the course of a week. I definitely regret it.

[Domehades]

no regrets here. for the experience..

[EveMazing]

What? It's actually better this way. If you totally fuck up one gender, there's still the other one. Unless you are just a giant screw up, you're bound to have at least one good first time.

neither of mine were good xD

[Jewbert]

Ah geez, I'm so sorry Why on earth do people like that exist, ugh...


My ex was really overprotective and a stalker (he pretty much just sat on all the IRC channels/forums/other places I went to so he could yell at people for hitting on me.. when we weren't even dating..), and just couldn't accept that I was in love with someone else And so he told a bunch of bullshit to said guy and caused lots of drama, guy I was in love with believed all of it and overreacted to it and still, two years down the road, flips out if even my name is mentioned near him... Months later he reappeared and claimed he still liked me! Then things happened from there.

Worst seven months ever :c But hey, at least I got a free monitor and Gamecube off him~ (which he wants back but fuck that )

Sounds crazy! I think I said it earlier, but in a way I'm kind of glad my ex was the way he was because it taught me not to take shit from people anymore. Like that I don't have to tolerate things like that. From what I heard last, he still lives with his grandma and is a hermit. Same as he was 7 or so years ago. Pffffft.

[EveMazing]

Worst seven months ever :c But hey, at least I got a free monitor and Gamecube off him~ (which he wants back but fuck that )

lol @ exes wanting shit back, amiright?

[luvsmyncis]

Actually, small dicks are really good for sucking on You don't choke or anything!

That is a plus. Also, they're really good for pointing and laughing at.

[Turnip]

Sounds crazy! I think I said it earlier, but in a way I'm kind of glad my ex was the way he was because it taught me not to take shit from people anymore. Like that I don't have to tolerate things like that. From what I heard last, he still lives with his grandma and is a hermit. Same as he was 7 or so years ago. Pffffft.

Hehehe, yeah, I'm kinda glad things turned out the way they are ^^ I've learnt a lot from it~
(And oh wow, welp )

lol @ exes wanting shit back, amiright?

>w< He gave both of them to me as a gift, and I haven't really heard of anyone asking for gifts they've given to people back... Whether they were dating or not~

[Adam]

Lost it a week after my high school graduation. Me and 2 other classmates were in a club at school called FBLA (Future Business Leaders of America). We all made it to the finals in Anaheim, California in our respected categories (mine was Cyber Security). I met an Asian girl down there and we clicked right away, after a few days being there with her and hanging out all the time we sorta 'eased' into it. The whole situation felt terribly wrong but right at the same time, and we both knew we'd never see each other again. I think her name was Nina...