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[Yung]

There's more to life than sex, and no one should ever feel like the HAVE to do it just because other people are.

I can sum up why I lost mine...

I was horny.

[Rocket]

No regrets, but defo didn't love the person I lost it to, but wasn't a one night stand-ish either.

I was 18 when I finally lost my v-card, partially by choice and partially because I was an ugly duckling.

[Nonexistent]

I guess the good thing about being a virgin is that regret can't be felt yet

[luvsmyncis]

I guess the good thing about being a virgin is that regret can't be felt yet

Don't worry, there's still room for you to have regrets. You can regret the time you didn't do it with that one hot chick when you could have. And you can regret letting that one dirtbag boyfriend rub all up on you when you were uncomfortable with it even though it didn't end in intercourse. *thumbs up*

[artificial]

Everyone places too much importance on it. I was drunk, can barely remember it, do I care? Not at all.
Just like I don't care when I took my first steps, spoke my first word, started school, got my first girlfriend, broke up with my first girlfriend(actually I was shattered), finished school, got my first job, etc. Just another thing to check off the list before you die

[Nonexistent]

Don't worry, there's still room for you to have regrets. You can regret the time you didn't do it with that one hot chick when you could have. And you can regret letting that one dirtbag boyfriend rub all up on you when you were uncomfortable with it even though it didn't end in intercourse. *thumbs up*

That's true I suppose. I do regret sometimes of the opportunities that were open, not necessarily sex, but just relationships that could have developed but of which I just let slip away.

[Indigo]

No regrets, I'm still with him and he's been nothing but a gentleman

Same. Sweetest boy I've ever met. Not dating though...still riding the "friends with benefits" thing because we're happy with it. And I think that's all that matters in the end.

[Applepi]

Same. Sweetest boy I've ever met. Not dating though...still riding the "friends with benefits" thing because we're happy with it. And I think that's all that matters in the end.

Hey whatever works. I have one of those gushy super cute makes most people want to vomit relationships but its all I could ever want. We've been through a lot together including long distance and I couldn't ask for a better man in my life. He truly does make me a better person Its pretty awesome to have that bond and a sexual connection only brings us closer together. I've never been one to put a huge amount of emphasis on sex and didn't even have my first kiss till I turned 21 (with said boy that I eventually traded V-cards with). I personally put more weight on the strength of relationships over how much sex (or when the sex happened). If a relationship is strong, it shows.

[Boggart]

Well, excuuuuuuuuuussse me that I waited until I was a rational thinking adult not motivated by teenage wiles. I remained virtuous and untarnished into my 20's.
I don't believe in virgin-shaming. There's nothing wrong with being 20-something and being a virgin. There's more to life than sex, and no one should ever feel like the HAVE to do it just because other people are. I think that's actually what leads to bad experiences.

Haha I was 19 so it's not like I just threw it away I don't really wanna get into it and I enjoyed it at the time because it meant something to me then. Just now looking at it almost 2 years later me regret it kinda deal. If that makes any sense at all.

[Sage]

Me and him are still very close friends, and he's getting married in July. He asked me to be his best man (teehee best man) and unfortunately I can't, because it is expensive as fuck to fly to California in the summer. Boo. ._.

[Strategist]

Lost mine at 17 to my girlfriend-now-wife and have absolutely no regrets.

[Boggart]

Lost mine at 17 to my girlfriend-now-wife and have absolutely no regrets.

We get it. You're happily married. You have an adorable son. bla bla bla god...

If you didn't have DAT ASS

<3 <3 <3

[Strategist]

We get it. You're happily married. You have an adorable son. bla bla bla god...

If you didn't have DAT ASS

<3 <3 <3

[artificial]

You've only slept with the one person!? How do you know she's the one if you don't have any perspective?

[Scot]

You've only slept with the one person!? How do you know she's the one if you don't have any perspective?

Nowhere did he say his first was his only ;-)

w00t 3000th post

worth it

Edited by Scot, 19 April 2012 - 10:10 PM.

[Boggart]

Nowhere did he say his first was his only ;-)

w00t 3000th post

worth it

why does it show that you edited your post? o.o

[Scot]

why does it show that you edited your post? o.o

I wanted my milestone post to be genuine for once jeez

[ShadowLink64]

You've only slept with the one person!? How do you know she's the one if you don't have any perspective?

If you're with someone that things works well with, why search for someone else?

[Boggart]

If you're with someone that things works well with, why search for someone else?

ePeen! What else is more important?

[Strategist]

If you're with someone that things works well with, why search for someone else?

This.

Grats on 3K posts too Scot

[artificial]

There's over 3bn people in the world, how do you know you've met the right one?

[Strategist]

There's over 3bn people in the world, how do you know you've met the right one?

So you're saying i have to sleep with 3billion people to know which one is the right one? Obviously I'm very happy where I am, so why should I NEED to bother thinking about finding someone else?

[artificial]

So you're saying i have to sleep with 3billion people to know which one is the right one? Obviously I'm very happy where I am, so why should I NEED to bother thinking about finding someone else?

I wasn't saying anything at all. I was genuinely asking a question, which I thought was quite fair seeing as how you're happily married with a child. No need to get defensive.

[Strategist]

I wasn't saying anything at all. I was genuinely asking a question, which I thought was quite fair seeing as how you're happily married with a child. No need to get defensive.

Why ask the question then? Sorry I may have come across harsh in my reply. Forgive me please.

[ShadowLink64]

There's over 3bn people in the world, how do you know you've met the right one?

You don't. You know that you've met someone that you're compatible and comfortable with.

With that said, I don't think "the right one" exists. There's lots of potential "right one[s]".