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Posted 07 January 2015 - 07:37 PM
Page not found. Why do you tease me like this.
Sorry, edited the original post.^^
http://www.worthytos...-a-rich-husband
Posted 07 January 2015 - 07:39 PM
I don't have nearly this amount of money, but you bet your ass that my wife is signing a prenup before we get married...if I ever get married. There's so many scandalous people out there; trust no one. If she doesn't want to sign a prenup...welp CYA.
You should likely never get married then since more prenups are thrown out than are upheld. The average person would be laughed at if they asked for a prenup as well. Best bet is to live in a place where common-law marriage isn't observed and simply never marry your partner.
I found a quote that may put it into perspective.
That speaks best to the principal of it all, I definitely agree =)
Posted 07 January 2015 - 07:43 PM
I'm starting to feel that way too. Lots of good points in this thread, despite some of them being written in an inflammatory way.I find nothing wrong with rejecting the money
Posted 07 January 2015 - 07:44 PM
You should likely never get married then since more prenups are thrown out than are upheld. The average person would be laughed at if they asked for a prenup as well. Best bet is to live in a place where common-law marriage isn't observed and simply never marry your partner.
My thought behind that is as such; if you're not with me for the money then what's the harm in signing the prenup? Why would I be laughed at for asking for one, other than most of them are thrown out in court.
Posted 07 January 2015 - 07:49 PM
My thought behind that is as such; if you're not with me for the money then what's the harm in signing the prenup? Why would I be laughed at for asking for one, other than most of them are thrown out in court.
Because most peoples assets aren't worth getting a prenup for.
I would never sign a prenup or ask someone for one. If I am prepared to make that commitment to someone and it fails I deserve to lose at least half. Save for things like fraud, infidelity, etc. Those things are typically frowned upon by judges and they take it into consideration with the split of marital assets.
I'm not saying you personally would be laughed at btw, it was more of a general comment. Not a personal attack btw :3 just wanted to clarify!
Posted 07 January 2015 - 07:53 PM
Because most peoples assets aren't worth getting a prenup for.
I would never sign a prenup or ask someone for one. If I am prepared to make that commitment to someone and it fails I deserve to lose at least half. Save for things like fraud, infidelity, etc. Those things are typically frowned upon by judges and they take it into consideration with the split of marital assets.
I'm not saying you personally would be laughed at btw, it was more of a general comment. Not a personal attack btw :3 just wanted to clarify!
I know it's not a personal attack, the words "you", and "your" etc are used loosely :].
So if you've done nothing significantly wrong that warrants a divorce, you'd be perfectly fine losing half of everything? I don't get why a court gets to determine how much something is worth to me. (ex) $20,000 over the next 5 years may not be a lot to a judge, but it sure as hell is a lot to me.
Not-so-secret Edit: I found these little facts that will invalidate a prenup.
Sauce: http://www.forbes.co...ght-be-invalid/
I guess my distrust in others, and hatred for the institution of marriage has made me bitter about even entertaining the idea of ever marrying someone.
Posted 07 January 2015 - 08:01 PM
I know it's not a personal attack, the words "you", and "your" etc are used loosely :].
So if you've done nothing significantly wrong that warrants a divorce, you'd be perfectly fine losing half of everything? I don't get why a court gets to determine how much something is worth to me. (ex) $20,000 over the next 5 years may not be a lot to a judge, but it sure as hell is a lot to me.
That is exactly what I am saying. I think reasons like 'we grew apart' or 'we don't love each other like we used to' you know the typical things you hear are complete and total BS. You made vows, you agreed to be married. If you can't stick to your commitment than you shouldn't be able to just walk away from it. That's just my personal opinion. I think people get married too soon, too young and to people they don't really know well enough.
Eh I don't really know. I mean honestly if I married a rich person I wouldn't want their dirty money unless he screwed me over than I'd go to the ends of the earth to burn them
Posted 08 January 2015 - 05:19 AM
For me, asking for a prenup brings-to-light a lot of signs why you shouldn't marry the person asking for one. Mind you, there are always the three big issues that affect every marriage. Money, family, and fidelity. I feel that, someone who asks for a prenup, may have insecurities that can greatly affect the marriage, trust issues, and issues with sharing. BUT, I have many friends who have married people that have a complete 180 when they decided to get divorced. False claims of domestic abuse, infidelity, and child neglect.
Posted 08 January 2015 - 10:40 AM
I wouldn't have any issue signing a prenup, even though I'm broke. In the event that something would happen, I'd want to hold onto my house so my kids wouldn't be homeless no matter what.
Posted 08 January 2015 - 12:51 PM
I would never want a pre-nup in my marriage. In my mind, if you're entertaining that idea then you're also entertaining the notion that you're marriage will fail, which I would never want to think. I have no plans to ever jump in a marriage, and I plan on being with someone for at least two-three years before we get married so I know I really want to be with them. I understand that signing one is just covering your bases in case things go wrong, but when you're planning on marrying someone the only thought you should have is how wonderful it's going to be spending the rest of your life with the person you love.
Posted 08 January 2015 - 01:19 PM
UNTIL THEY TURN INTO A CHEATING LYING PIECE OF SHIT AND TAKE HALF OF EVERYTHING YOU OWN AND LEAVE YOU IN A CARDBOARD BOX AND A TRASHED VAN.
Posted 08 January 2015 - 01:20 PM
Posted 08 January 2015 - 01:21 PM
Nah, premonition.
Posted 08 January 2015 - 01:36 PM
Posted 08 January 2015 - 01:37 PM
I would never want a pre-nup in my marriage. In my mind, if you're entertaining that idea then you're also entertaining the notion that you're marriage will fail, which I would never want to think. I have no plans to ever jump in a marriage, and I plan on being with someone for at least two-three years before we get married so I know I really want to be with them. I understand that signing one is just covering your bases in case things go wrong, but when you're planning on marrying someone the only thought you should have is how wonderful it's going to be spending the rest of your life with the person you love.
That's all fine and dandy of course, and maybe -your- idea of marriage is being happy forever and ever, but what about the other person? Who knows their 'true' feelings, and their agenda.
Posted 08 January 2015 - 05:45 PM
That's all fine and dandy of course, and maybe -your- idea of marriage is being happy forever and ever, but what about the other person? Who knows their 'true' feelings, and their agenda.
Posted 08 January 2015 - 05:55 PM
While I think it sounds ludicrous at first that she would reject this cheque there is a lot to take into consideration.
Why they settled on this amount?
Giving her more would potentially cause him to have to dissolve certain assets which could force him to lose majority in his business. (Haven't read about this case in months but that was the case at first.)
I fully agree that she should have rejected it. However, she is also the one to file for the divorce so that is something else to take into consideration in the matter.
In my eyes, once you are married whatever you once had is no longer 'yours' it is 'ours.' Therefore, I don't care if he had all 18 billion before they got married, if he didn't want to part with half his money he never should of married (he didn't have the 18 billion but he had quite a substantial amount.)
I'll continue to avoid being with people of certain socioeconomic circumstances because I can't imagine being ripped apart like this woman is and the butt of jokes because she is fighting for what she deserves on principal.
I'm sure a lot of rich guys sign prenups to protect whatever they had before their marriage. I do believe whatever they earned after the marriage should be shared though.
Posted 08 January 2015 - 07:00 PM
I don't like thinking that entering into a marriage means agreeing to forfeit half my prenuptial assets if something goes wrong down the line.In my eyes, once you are married whatever you once had is no longer 'yours' it is 'ours.' Therefore, I don't care if he had all 18 billion before they got married, if he didn't want to part with half his money he never should of married (he didn't have the 18 billion but he had quite a substantial amount.)
I mean I understand where you're coming from, really I do. Buut...I don't have nearly this amount of money, but you bet your ass that my wife is signing a prenup before we get married...if I ever get married. There's so many scandalous people out there; trust no one. If she doesn't want to sign a prenup...welp CYA.
Women are held to a higher standard when it comes to responsibility for their offspring. The law compensates them for that in ways that cannot ever make up for what they do. I mean get real - you came out of someone's body.Divorce laws are set to be in favor of women, and more often than not the man in the relationship will end up with less parental rights than the woman does. This is another reason why I'm so hesitant on even entertaining the idea of marriage when it comes that time. Where's feminism to fight for equal rights for both men and women?
Posted 08 January 2015 - 08:36 PM
That's all fine and dandy of course, and maybe -your- idea of marriage is being happy forever and ever, but what about the other person? Who knows their 'true' feelings, and their agenda.
Breh, you got some trust issues.
Posted 08 January 2015 - 10:01 PM
Posted 08 January 2015 - 10:05 PM
Dunno how I'd feel about a pre-nup. I'd have to actually be successful and make some money that could potentially be taken from me first. However, I don't like the idea of thinking about a divorce before even getting married. At the same time, people can be realllyyyyy nasty when it comes to divorce. You could be married to and love someone for years and end up being screwed over in the end. Baffles me how you can do that to someone you claim to have loved, even if you don't anymore.
Posted 08 January 2015 - 10:52 PM
Or he's just realistic and pratical. Can you ever really know somebody? No, not at all. People get screwed over daily, so if you're particularly wealthy, it's a good idea.
But what's a marriage if you're wondering your partner's 'true' feelings? Difference between being realistic or being insecure/paranoid. If you have thoughts about getting a prenup just to protect yourself from a possible nasty divorce later on you probably should not be getting married in the first place. You can't know everything that goes on in your partner's head. But if you can't trust them enough to know they always have your best interest in mind then don't put yourself in that situation.
Posted 08 January 2015 - 11:02 PM
Posted 08 January 2015 - 11:20 PM
Fortunately marriages today are moving away from one person being the bread-winner while the other becomes the homemaker. A lot of couples are consisted of both people having jobs so the financial loads are shared equally. My wife and I both get paid exactly the same, our bills are split evenly, and we each have one of our two cars in our name. Our assets, combined, probably only equal out to a little over $100k because we still live in an apartment. We both have access to each other's bank accounts and are always upfront about how much we're saving and spending. So not every marriageBut I have always told my wife, jokingly, if we ever get a divorce she could take everything. All I need is my gaming computer, truck, and the dog. Although a lot of marriages go sour not all of them crash and burn.
Posted 09 January 2015 - 12:55 PM
That's human nature unfortunately, it's why people suddenly kill themselves after 20 years of marriage with no note, it's why people have affairs.
I've seen it first hand with my uncle, this bitch was saving up money behind his back and almost got him kicked out of his own house (he had paid off the mortgage on his own and with his ex-wife) because she had two kids from her pervious marriage that had minor learning difficulties
Sounds like my uncle. His ex wife is an evil bitch... and he just got remarried to someone just like her. Thankfully, he bought his house before he married the first one so she couldn't claim that - even though she tried - but she pretty much got everything inside the house as well as most of his money. He also hasn't seen his kids in a year.
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