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[Icey Defeat]

I don't feel like talking so a quick summary...

Lost my license
have to get a job where i make 500-600$ a month
cant play high school sports anymore
my gf cheated on me (same day i lost my licese)
and my parents are going to lose their insurance because a cop screwed me over

Bye everyone

[XenoCyde]

Losers lay in the dirt and die. Winners never quit.

[Icey Defeat]

O ya, and I miss my senior homecoming

[Mystical]

lmgdao... Icey you've been busy! and you are only in high school.. the futurue looks bright for you kid... JP thats life... learn from your mistakes and don't repeat them.

[Mystical]

Life gets better Icey. Chin up mate At least you still have your looks.

maybe he lost his license because he wrecked and now has a giant scar across his face too...
Icey you sound depressed maybe you should ask your parents to if they will let you see a psychologist it would help you.

[cara]

What doesnt kill you makes you stronger?

I hope everything works out for the best, dearie.

[Tim]

Hope everything works out. I think you'll be able to get past this.

[Lemonblood]

Don't give up icey. Never give up.

[Mr. Hobo]

Bye everyone

Bye from Codex? Now to point out that the bad days are what makes the good days good

Edited by Mr. Hobo, 07 October 2006 - 07:36 AM.

[Jeff]

Icey...you can't just quit. All in one week:
My parents told us they were getting divorced
Found out my brother was gay
Grandma died
Got kicked out of a basketball league for fighting

I know it's not as bad as you but I got through it.

[Lemonblood]

Seriously though. Don't give up. I lost my grandfather and grandmother from my dads side , my grandfather, aunt from my mothers side in one week. ETC;..

Ok, I can't talk. =[

[otherworld]

like every1 said, things will get better

In life everyone goes through highs and lows. This is a low.

[Generic Nolander]

Life does some pretty nasty shit to people - consider this:

Have you got two working eyes? Are you worried about them failing you any time in the future?
Are you spending countless hours worrying whether you'll be blind for the rest of your life or not?
Do you have an ailment that could possibly ruin what you love doing best for the rest of your life, and that's completely irrepairable?

Life has thrown that all in my face. I've coped with it. Coping is the hardest thing to do in a situation like this. Chin up, and look at tomorrow as a new day. A new day that could potentially hold the cure to every problem you've endured over the past few months.

You also haven't screwed over your life. Okay sure, a few mistakes have been made - the reprecussions not so nice. Lost your licence? Dont worry about it. You'll eventually get the chance to reapply for it - and this time round you know how not to screw yourself and avoid the police. Girlfriend cheated on you? Who needs the wench? Good riddance to her and pity the guy she's with. If she feels you're not good enough for her, you're obviously too good for her. Cant do sports anymore? Hell, you've got us - you've got the wild world of MMORPG's where you can do whatever the hell you want to do. Life isn't constrained by what is real - believe me on this.

Take each day as it comes. A solution to any of these problems will come along any time now. Dont wait for it, just carry on with life. Let these problems make you stronger and wiser as a person. I guarantee you'll benefit from it later on in life.

[foogie]

lost your license? your own damn fault. if you were doing something that warranted a license removal, then I should damn well hope it does get taken away. No offence, but you don't only put your own life on the line when you drive, but you put everyone else's around you as well on the line.

insurance is only a byproduct of the stupidity.

girlfriend? psh. shit happens. now you can go out and find a better woman, one who can keep her legs closed.

sports? find some non-school related teams to join up with.

Job? stay in school, and some day you shall have that job.

I myself have a job where I make that much in a day. lol


things will get better, the shit you step in doesn't only serve to make other people smell better... it also makes you stronger.

[Shin]

Icey, it seems like everything is collapsing onto you right now, but in fact, in the scope of your whole life, it will be nothing. Bad things (really bad things) happen to everyone, but quitting trying to improve and instead just living with it is not the only option. I understand your depression, but guess what - everything that you mention can be renewed. There is nothing that cannot be reversed. You can always get a new license, you can always get a higher-paying job, you can always play sports, you can always get a new girlfriend, and you can always get new insurance for your parents. I'm sorry to hear that all of this happened to you at once, but it is important for you to understand that just because these things happeend, it is not the end of the world. There is always time to improve and change. Heck, you're only high school! Give yourself a few days to think about how you can make changes. You can, and will get yourself out of this.

Is this one of the most difficult moments you've had in your life? Probably. But will you get over this and become a better, stronger person? Definitely.

[Raillery]

As most people have already said, although things look horrible now on a much larger scale, this is nothing. This is just a small blotch on your life in the long run. Think of all the years you still have to come

I was going through some rough stuff also,
Got complety wasted, cheated on my girlfriend with 2 girls, lost my virginity
Girlfriend broke up with me
Grounded for 6 weeks
No homecoming
Aunt diagnosed (sp?) with cancer
Phone + Ipod ($600) stolen from me at school
Got incredibly sick 103 fever, I didn't have any energy, missed about a week of school
No one to trust, lost a lot of friends

All happened in the course of a week =/

Things are better now though =] you just have to look on the bright side and stick it out.

[Nick]

Shit happens. It's life, nothing is going to be perfect. Instead of reflecting on the bad times get up and start thinking about the good times and the future. If you're pissed off at your GF take pictures of her naked and post them around your school.

[Hawk]

Shit happens. It's life, nothing is going to be perfect. Instead of reflecting on the bad times get up and start thinking about the good times and the future. If you're pissed off at your GF take pictures of her naked and post them around your school.

And then get in more trouble?

Dude, your in a tough spot, but dont quit man.

[Generic Nolander]

Shit happens. It's life, nothing is going to be perfect. Instead of reflecting on the bad times get up and start thinking about the good times and the future. If you're pissed off at your GF take pictures of her naked and post them around your school.

*sigh*

Last thing he needs right now is someone trying to stoke sorrow into malice. It'll only cause more problems for him right now.

[Ilya]

wow...

Thats aint the whole life... shit happens...and you have to go along the road...

Everytime you feel down/angry/upset get that out of your head and think of something else, something fun/funny or a good memmory.. or just go to the gym and work out, works everytime..

Thats aint your whole life...

[Icey Defeat]

lost your license? your own damn fault. if you were doing something that warranted a license removal, then I should damn well hope it does get taken away. No offence, but you don't only put your own life on the line when you drive, but you put everyone else's around you as well on the line.

insurance is only a byproduct of the stupidity.

girlfriend? psh. shit happens. now you can go out and find a better woman, one who can keep her legs closed.

sports? find some non-school related teams to join up with.

Job? stay in school, and some day you shall have that job.

I myself have a job where I make that much in a day. lol
things will get better, the shit you step in doesn't only serve to make other people smell better... it also makes you stronger.

It wasnt my own stupidty, you dont know the whole story so dont say anythign, i cant play sports because ih ave to work every day of the week, i HAVE to get a job, my parents can no longer afford to drive, cops need to callibrate their damned cars

[Plew]

wow that is a lot of stuff that happened to u. i am sorry that happened it is just a big speed bump in life. u will get over it eventually.

[Hawk]

It wasnt my own stupidty, you dont know the whole story so dont say anythign, i cant play sports because ih ave to work every day of the week, i HAVE to get a job, my parents can no longer afford to drive, cops need to callibrate their damned cars

Than can you please give us the whole story? We may be able to offer suggestions on what to do then