A person doesn't need the same qualities. When you fall in love, you fall in love with the person, not their body, mind, personality etc. The person himself/herself. The person's personality or appearance may change, but they are still the same person. Even though there's nothing someone can identify them by.
When you fall in love with someone sexually/physically, it's lust. When you fall in love with someone due to their personality or traits, it's infatuation. When you fall in love with the actual person due to no reason undue to their traits (even if you do ordon't like their habits or traits) it's love.
Love is a confusing thing really, been deeply into someone too. Total workaholic and dead serious. I've never seemed interested in people like that since I'm a total opposite; fun-loving and love to joke around, but for some reason I guess I started to get along with people like due to them reminding me of him. And even now even though he's moved on with someone else and so have I, I still have a soft spot for him. I guess that feeling was much different than the others I had.
Edited by Cassy, 11 April 2009 - 02:49 PM.