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Why do people think that being a mother/wife is a job?


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#1 8143FF763271

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Posted 03 October 2012 - 10:33 AM

It's never been one. Convincing women there's merit in sitting at home playing DVD's for your kids is just our culture's way of maintaining the gender divide. People just use this 'being a mom is da hardest job' rhetoric to alleviate the anxiety produced in women once they realize that they're dependent and parasitic creatures with no means of sustenance of their own that have devoted their lives to doing shit-all. Doing laundry and leeching off a man's paycheck isn't anything to be proud of. Just being real.

#2 Guest_coltom_*

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Posted 03 October 2012 - 10:37 AM

Because it is. Why do people think water is wet, why do people think the sun is bright, why is working in the home a job.

Weak, weak, weak.

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Posted 03 October 2012 - 10:39 AM

*Walks in, sees first post, walks out*

#4 Guest_Kate_*

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Posted 03 October 2012 - 10:40 AM

Personally I agree. I have two kids and it's really not that hard.
Feed them, changed them, play with them, and then relax while they nap.

Most days I wish I could get a job outside of home, but the thought of my kids being raised by a daycare instead of me is unsettling.

I mean sure when they are newborns it's a little difficult, that only lasts a few weeks though, and then you get them into a routine.

#5 8143FF763271

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Posted 03 October 2012 - 10:42 AM

Because it is. Why do people think water is wet, why do people think the sun is bright, why is working in the home a job.

Weak, weak, weak.


Being a maid is a job. Being a housewife isn't.

#6 Guest_Kate_*

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Posted 03 October 2012 - 10:43 AM

To be fair, in a lot of ways being a housewife/stay at home mom, is like being a Maid.
In more ways than not actually.

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Posted 03 October 2012 - 10:45 AM

Talking to people about things they have no experience of, or expertise in, is boring.

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Posted 03 October 2012 - 10:46 AM

Talking to people about things they have no experience of, or expertise in, is boring.


Fair enough. I mean afterall, what are the chances he is a "Stay-at-home-Mom" XD

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Posted 03 October 2012 - 10:47 AM

Fair enough. I mean afterall, what are the chances he is a "Stay-at-home-Mom" XD


I don't believe he's ever had a job, either.

#10 8143FF763271

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Posted 03 October 2012 - 10:47 AM

To be fair, in a lot of ways being a housewife/stay at home mom, is like being a Maid.
In more ways than not actually.


The difference is that a maid gets paid for her services. A housewife's pay is mostly given to her as maintenance of sexual property. There's a big pay divide between a man's wife and his maid. What's the difference between the two? He fucks her former. A housewife's job is best compared to that of a prostitute.

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Posted 03 October 2012 - 10:47 AM

You are a sexist little shit. Go away.

#12 8143FF763271

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Posted 03 October 2012 - 10:48 AM

Talking to people about things they have no experience of, or expertise in, is boring.


Sweeney alias Master of Irrelevance strikes again.

You are a sexist little shit. Go away.


Nope. As a matter of fact, I'm very much anti-sexist. If you disagree with me, you are a sexist.

#13 Guest_Kate_*

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Posted 03 October 2012 - 10:48 AM

The difference is that a maid gets paid for her services. A housewife's pay is mostly given to her as maintenance of sexual property. There's a big pay divide between a man's wife and his maid. What's the difference between the two? He fucks her former. A housewife's job is best compared to that of a prostitute.


Haha you are making generalizations now.
You assume that every house wife is rewarded with intercourse?
Do you know how hard it is to have alone time with two small children? Of course you don't.
I only wish.

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Posted 03 October 2012 - 10:49 AM

Yeah because single stay at home moms don't exist, ever.

#15 8143FF763271

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Posted 03 October 2012 - 10:49 AM

Haha you are making generalizations now.
You assume that every house wife is rewarded with intercourse?
Do you know how hard it is to have alone time with two small children? Of course you don't.
I only wish.


You aren't only paid for intercourse, you are paid to be bred. ^_^

#16 Guest_Kate_*

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Posted 03 October 2012 - 10:51 AM

Yeah because single stay at home moms don't exist, ever.


Mishelle, don't be ridiculous, of course they don't! XD

You aren't only paid for intercourse, you are paid to be bred. ^_^


Yes because I am sure my husband wants a million little carbon copies of himself running around. ;)

#17 8143FF763271

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Posted 03 October 2012 - 10:51 AM

Yeah because single stay at home moms don't exist, ever.


Mishelle once again says something stupid.
Who's surprised? Single stay at home moms DUN GET PAID 4 BEING MOMZ and if they do... refer to my previous point.

Mishelle, don't be ridiculous, of course they don't! XD



Yes because I am sure my husband wants a million little carbon copies of himself running around. ;)


Most people want kids. Why else would all these institutions exist guaranteeing that people can have them?

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Posted 03 October 2012 - 10:53 AM

Weren't you told in your warning thread not to make any more debate threads?

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Posted 03 October 2012 - 10:53 AM

Mishelle once again says something stupid.
Who's surprised? Single stay at home moms DUN GET PAID 4 BEING MOMZ and if they do... refer to my previous point.



Most people want kids. Why else would all these institutions exist guaranteeing that people can have them?


Lol so if they're single who's paying them for sex?

#20 Guest_coltom_*

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Posted 03 October 2012 - 10:54 AM

Yeah because single stay at home moms don't exist, ever.


If they do, they're part of the 47% and we just don't care about them.

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Posted 03 October 2012 - 10:54 AM

Wait a minute, what about stay at home dads, are they dependent and parasitic creatures, too?

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Posted 03 October 2012 - 10:55 AM

Mishelle once again says something stupid.
Who's surprised? Single stay at home moms DUN GET PAID 4 BEING MOMZ and if they do... refer to my previous point.


I certainly don't get paid with sex for being a single mother, that's for sure. I wouldn't really liken my position to that of a prostitute.

#23 8143FF763271

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Posted 03 October 2012 - 10:55 AM

Weren't you told in your warning thread not to make any more debate threads?


Sorry this is a general chat thread talking about a general issue. If people disagree with me that's their prerogative. :)

#24 Guest_Kate_*

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Posted 03 October 2012 - 10:55 AM

Mishelle once again says something stupid.
Who's surprised? Single stay at home moms DUN GET PAID 4 BEING MOMZ and if they do... refer to my previous point.


Bahhahahah aww that's cute, you don't know how to respond to her putting a hole in your flawed theory.

#25 8143FF763271

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Posted 03 October 2012 - 10:57 AM

Lol so if they're single who's paying them for sex?


I made the point that they are also paid to be bred (i.e. they're sexual property). A wife is basically a man's guarantee that he will have children of his own.

Furthermore, child support (AS THE NAME SUGGESTS) is an addition to the institution of child-bearing and marriage that complicates the issue unnecessarily. It's basically our society's belief that both parents should be responsible for the child in one way or another. She isn't actually getting paid for a service she provides the man- she's getting paid only to take care of the kid (and it should be noted that few women can live off child support).

Edited by Khaligula, 03 October 2012 - 10:58 AM.



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